Why won't she knock on my door?

Question

Me and my neighbor sometimes hook up, but I always have to knock on her door. I do work all day from the sunrise to the sunset. And I'm never really home but when I come home she comes out sometimes to say hi, or when I'm chilling in the car.

I told her don't be scared to knock and she said ok, but won't come over my place 🤔

Answer 1

Anonymous

If she knocks on your door, then it's a step towards taking responsibility. If you knock on her door, then she can blame you if something goes wrong, or rationalize away the sex as your doing. What you do not yet realize is just how much trouble you may be bringing into your life for a little pleasure. Given the vast data out there, is always surprises me just how much risks young men still take. One false allegation and you're done for...

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🤔 do you think maybe she doesn't want to look like the initiator because that's sending mixed signals
Opinion Owner

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No, most women do not want to initiate period. Look at the phrases they often use, such as ''one thing led to another'' '''we ended up having sex'' ''it just happened'' etc etc. If they initiate then they are forced to take responsibility. Another example, this girl that likes me won't come up to me and talk, but she will hover around, bend over in front of me, bump into me, or just parade around. It's all indirect.

Answer 2

Asker

🤔 do you think maybe she doesn't want to look like the initiator because that's sending mixed signals

Answer 3

Opinion Owner

No, most women do not want to initiate period. Look at the phrases they often use, such as ''one thing led to another'' '''we ended up having sex'' ''it just happened'' etc etc. If they initiate then they are forced to take responsibility. Another example, this girl that likes me won't come up to me and talk, but she will hover around, bend over in front of me, bump into me, or just parade around. It's all indirect.