Does he really love me of is he using me?

Question

i am a 20 years old virgin. I have been dating this guy for almost 7 months now. He is unfortunately not a virgin. I feel like the last months he is pressuring me about having sex with him and thus taking away my virginity. I am actually afraid of being used. Maybe after he does that he will change? Or even leave me? i also feel that i always give more than i get in bed. I always give him head but have never got one back. I don’t think it’s a question of hygiene. I am always clean down there. So i am a little confused 😐

Answer 1

Being_a_good_Indian | 674 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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https://pandagossips.com/posts/2945

Being_a_good_Indian

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Read this article. In case you have any questions or queries after reading this article feel free to ask.

Answer 2

Being_a_good_Indian

Read this article. In case you have any questions or queries after reading this article feel free to ask.

Answer 3

Paris13 | 3.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Using and Abusing. He is just waiting and May Drop you After. I would Ditch him Now. xxoo

Paris13

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Thanks to Gag. xx

Answer 4

Paris13

Thanks to Gag. xx

Answer 5

Anonymous

Yes he is using you. Plus you are no longer a virgin. Oral sex is sex.

Answer 6

Twenty2 | 632 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

He'll leave you. Where are you from?

Asker

17 d
France but with moroccan background both.
Twenty2

17 d
Then I bet you're sexy and he'll surely leave you. Why are you with him?
Asker

17 d
I really love him tbh. We share the same cultural background and actually he is really sweet and good to me. It is only this aspect in the relation that bothers me.
Actually we tried sex a few times but i was too afraid so he couldn’t really do it. But i have been thinking and i just think that i am still not ready because of my culture.
My family is more conservative than his.
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Twenty2

17 d
What happened in his last relationship?
Asker

17 d
He was really heartbroken. It was to that girl that he lost his virginity also. She actually cheated on him and dumped him 2 years ago.
He says that he is over it.
Twenty2

17 d
It's really hard to get over something like that. I had an online love interest and she lied to me and fucked me and it still is kinda shitty in my head. I think he's still a bit fucked up.

If you don't want sex just tell him to wait till marriage. If he can then good. Otherwise, leave him.
Twenty2

17 d
Tho! Don't let culture define you. You are your own human being. Do what you want.
Asker

17 d
Thank you for your help💛 yeah i also thought so. I didn’t really believe him 100%. It’s pretty shitty indeed. I just dont want him to play or use me as a victim haha😅
Twenty2

17 d
I am a virgin and before I wanted to be with someone who would stay with me in the long run and who'd love me your who I am. Now, I don't believe in such bullshit but if you feel that there's something like love out there then wait for it. Don't be a slut.

Answer 7

Asker

France but with moroccan background both.

Answer 8

Twenty2

Then I bet you're sexy and he'll surely leave you. Why are you with him?

Answer 9

Asker

I really love him tbh. We share the same cultural background and actually he is really sweet and good to me. It is only this aspect in the relation that bothers me.
Actually we tried sex a few times but i was too afraid so he couldn’t really do it. But i have been thinking and i just think that i am still not ready because of my culture.
My family is more conservative than his.

Answer 10

Twenty2

What happened in his last relationship?

Answer 11

Asker

He was really heartbroken. It was to that girl that he lost his virginity also. She actually cheated on him and dumped him 2 years ago.
He says that he is over it.

Answer 12

Twenty2

It's really hard to get over something like that. I had an online love interest and she lied to me and fucked me and it still is kinda shitty in my head. I think he's still a bit fucked up.

If you don't want sex just tell him to wait till marriage. If he can then good. Otherwise, leave him.

Answer 13

Twenty2

Tho! Don't let culture define you. You are your own human being. Do what you want.

Answer 14

Asker

Thank you for your help💛 yeah i also thought so. I didn’t really believe him 100%. It’s pretty shitty indeed. I just dont want him to play or use me as a victim haha😅

Answer 15

Twenty2

I am a virgin and before I wanted to be with someone who would stay with me in the long run and who'd love me your who I am. Now, I don't believe in such bullshit but if you feel that there's something like love out there then wait for it. Don't be a slut.

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