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I love your answer lol
Like another person said, we live in a time where people are glued to their phones. This is especially the case with women. She isn't that "busy" as you think. Even bloody astronauts and rocket scientists, pilots or presidents find time to communicate on social media. This is a clear example of someone who is NOT interested, but doesn't like to break the news. So this is her giving him the "clue" that it's a no without directly saying it's a no.
@TruthBringer you're probably right. This actually happened to me a few months ago I was dated someone and it was all well suddenly it started with late replies, he would take 7 hours sometimes a whole day to answer my messages and his replies were mostly very short and dry. I knew something was very wrong when I started seeing him online but not answering my messages. I moved on and started doing the same. Never heard from him again LOL.
@sheikalana You did the right thing. And the fact you didn't hear anything back proves he wasn't interested. Not that it matters since there are plenty of others. These actions are all part of flakiness. I've dated many girls and they all have something in common --> they never made me unsure about their interest in me. So I take even a slight sign of flakiness as a "no".
Also maybe she wanted to see just how much you are actually interested in her if you think about it 🤔
There are a lot of women like that (usually on dating apps) who match with dudes, communicate with them, but don't want to escalate things further. They want the free attention/validation, not actually getting to know people. That girl sounds no different.
If she doesn't than yes*
For a date... that's just inconsiderate.
That is hard to believe, everyone is always on their phone lol
@Paul09 Everyone is not like you, I spend much more time playing video game than being on my phone, also I turn down all notification all the time cause it bother me to hear my phone ring all the time for each mail, message or app stuff.
@zomegagon If you don't check your message you aren't gonna know that's a message for a date so it's not inconsiderate, also 3 days is nothing, how impatient does people have become?If the date is in a week then you still have four days to prepare this is more than enough.
Still shows you have no interest. Do Yoh leave your phone for days without touching it? I doubt it. It's like back before smartphone and cellphones, the hobe phone would ring, you just ignore it all day? I also play video games, but still manage to find time to answer, unless I forget to.
@Paul09 People have tons of stuff to do in their life I don't except them to send me message everyday. I dedicate my time to my hobbies and only respond to message when I notice I have one and I do not touch my phone everyday especially considering my battery is shit and only last a fews hours on economy even when I don't use it so I avoid touching it and just use my laptop.Yes, I do ignore my home phone all day cause most people that call are annoying people that try to sell me useless stuff so I do not respond to it anymore. I never do.When I play video games I'm fully focused on it and forget to eat, drink and sleep. I just play until my sister tell me it's late and i should go to sleep or when my mother wake up to go working (which is around 6 am).
Your 30 and you still believe that? She’s not interested in him. If she took longer than a day it was intentional.
You should know better than this. He can go on a second date but he sure as hell shouldn’t put much effort into it or pay anything. Her taking that long to respond is a sign of low interest. Chances are she just wants to use him for something else.
@guesswhoseback All that will become clear on the date. The date is what matters.
No women give clues and tells about their true intentions well before the date. I’m guessing he thinks she is really attractive but not vice versa. His infatuation is blinding the ugly truth on this. Not to call a kettle pot black (been there myself) but guys get stupid when they like women and many girls unfortunately exploit that. He’s better off mirroring her behavior. He should wait the exact amount of time to text her back and she did. Show her he has self respect. He values his own time and effort. But I feel for him. I fucking hate women who act this way. But us guys got to stop enabling them.
@guesswhoseback That's my point dude--you don't spend a bunch of cash until you know where you stand. And you don't know where you stand until you're hooking up at least. You should NEVER be unhappy if a girl ends up being a dud on the date--that's ENTIRELY your own fault if that's the case. Plan a date that's a "no lose" situation for you and it's all good. THAT'S the point I'm making when I say you need to LEARN from the experience.
Nah I still disagree. Only because I’ve encountered multiple POS selfish women in my life and this is a clue she might be one of them. I rather cut it off fast vs getting a “date” where my time, money, hope, chivalry is getting exploited. I’ve tried giving women the benefit of the doubt in the past but that NEVER worked out well. The ugly truth is the truth. But this guy didn’t give much details about the scenario. He didn’t talk about how the first date went or what she said when she finally responded. Did they even kiss on the first date? I bet nothing happened. I feel for this guy. He obviously likes her and wants to make it something. But if she isn’t interested it’s best for him to cut his losses and move on ASAP. Easier said than done but it’s the best way to handle it.
If she liked him she would of got back sooner. The only reason she did get back is because she wants to use him for something else.
It's a second date, she can't be that scared.
(I didn’t see this until now)Some people are very unusual and isolated. So it’s a slight possibility but without knowing the person, there is no way of knowing. Which is why I said it depends on the person
It’s definitely possible that she is using him and I personally think that probably is the case but without knowing the person and how the person is like, there is no way of knowing.