Sorry “official” as in being an official couple haha. Well he told me he’s only focus on me, has mentioned it’s huge if he brings me to meet his friends, mentioned he told his besties/closest friends about me, told me his female bestie is interested in me 😂, mentioned he hangs with his female friends every now and then where he would wanna bring me along, and now he invited me to his family thanksgiving👀
I tried to asked initially what made him wanna bring me to meet his family cuz I’m really surprised.. he will laugh askin why I’m surprised and tell me he’s really comfortable with me... so I don’t even know what that means 😂😭😅 we are really comfortable with each other though as in we’re just ourselves and I personally feel like I’ve known him for a long time despite it’s a short period of getting to know each other.
There ya go. It doesn't necessarily represent an old fashioned "I want you bring you home to meet my parents" moment.I had girlfriends from the time I was 16. I brought them to family gatherings all the time just because I liked being with them and felt comfortable having a partner with me.
Oh, so it’s nothing serious?
Just going to a family gathering doesn't have to mean anything more than he is proud to be with you, as I said before. To people with traditional family values it might be a big deal, like a prelude to a proposal once the parents "approve". But that's kind of old fashioned.You'll know if he is serious by the way he treats you over time.
I’m kinda old fashion mindset 😂 what would be some ways that is determined he is serious over time even if I meet his fam/friends?
The way he treats you. If he is 100% dedicated to you, loves and accepts everything about you, flaws and all.
Thank you 😊
I forgot to add. He always has your back. Against family, friends or whomever. You are number one.Also, he wants you to be happy. That, of course, is a two way street and often requires conversation/listening to understand each other's points of view. If you want each other to be happy, you can find win/win compromise.
I hope so 😊
For which one mam?
Lol the first two 🙊... he told me he normally don’t bring girls to see his family when they aren’t official yet...
That's great mam
I hope so 😅 so many diff opinions here!!! Lol.
Well you should hope for the best one mam
Thank you mam for the MHO
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lol oh noes, trial by fire?😮🙈
Seeing how you interact with his family.
Lol he low key asked... but I don’t think we’re ready for it yet.