Am I the only one not super attracted to ripped people?

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I mean I can appreciate a person who takes good care of themselves, but maybe I'm a little weird for the fact that doesn't automatically mean ripped people. I think more good haircut, or a clean appearance and I especially love a good fashion sense. I have noticed a lot of my girlfriends always thought it was kinda dorky for me not to as interested in them as they were. I go to school at a "sports university" so maybe seeing way too many ripped men has made me less interested.

* FYI, I'm not saying I wouldn't date someone ripped but personally muscle mass just isn't my favourite thing when I met someone.

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1 y

I preference in the way men look I don't really believe has anything to do with my sexuality personally I just find muscles uninteresting and kinda uncomfortable

Answer 1

Anonymous

Finally! I've never met a woman before who is also not into ripped dudes except for me. I always feel so odd when my female friends drool over muscular guys. I just don't get it? Muscles are not attractive to me. Six packs do nothing for me. Biceps? Not my thing. And I just don't get how women are into veiny arms? They look like they're swollen and in pain I just can't relate. No shame to anyone who is muscular of course, but that is just not my type. I'm more into skinnier guys.

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nerdybutlazy

1 y
Tbh muscles make cuddling uncomfortable for me

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nerdybutlazy

Tbh muscles make cuddling uncomfortable for me

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cjgsu

Xper 7

Itz my weakness😔 itz y i only date athletes

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nerdybutlazy

1 y
I'll forgive you sis we all have a weakness, mine just happens to be lanky men 😂
cjgsu

1 y
Thank u💞 😂

Answer 4

nerdybutlazy

I'll forgive you sis we all have a weakness, mine just happens to be lanky men 😂

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cjgsu

Thank u💞 😂

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Kurαȷ

Guru

I find that (often masculine) women who prefer boyish/more feminine men and bisexual women are usually the ones who do not like muscles as much.
Whereas the super traditional, super girly women are the ones who are the most into muscles.

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DiversityHire

Xper 7

Nope. It doesn't do a thing for me.

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DiversityHire

1 y
Thanks!

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DiversityHire

Thanks!

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Luna1998 | 86 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

I am all the way with you, about the appearance, i do prefer guys who are clean and well dressed. I think guys with ripped are hot, but im not into one as well. I found myself to be interested in guys who are more like daddy built or a little chubby. They look warmer and i feel comfortable around them.

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CamilaP

Xper 6

I totally agree. I'd say my boyfriend definitely has a fit body but he isn't overly muscular or anything like that. I prefer it that way.

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GothRose2

Xper 6

No, I don't like muscle either
I prefer skinny guys

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_Troian_ | 204 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

Its understandable, I also go to Sports Academy and yeah almost everyone is ripped lol. However most women are into ripped guys as I experienced, coming from their nature I guess ; )

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The_unknown_memer

Xper 5

I don't know man , I think you might be bisexual , a lot of women who prefer men without muscles are most likely bisexuals with a more preference for a more feminine appearance

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nerdybutlazy

1 y
Not realize, it's not that I prefer the feminine appearance for men, it's just that I just don't like muscles or I guess what they usually represent in men. I prefer men don't need muscles to prove their masculinity or that they think muscles is all you would need to find a woman over
The_unknown_memer

1 y
What is it about muscles you don't like? If you don't mind me asking

Are you afraid of them?
nerdybutlazy

1 y
No lmao, I'm not intimated by muscular men maybe it's just the stereotype of the "big tough dude" doesn't do it for me. I genuinely find it attractive when guys care more about what's going on the inside and upstairs. Most of the muscular men I've met are well kinda lacking in that department.

That and just cuddling with a guy whose muscular is kinda uncomfortable for me, it's usually like cuddling with a soft rock if that makes any sense I know some girls think it's hot but I can't, also I guess it could be the fact that society, in general, believes that women should be attracted to that man by default and those watching my guy friends bulk up and obsess over working out is a turn-off.

So in general, I guess I'm just a bisexual who is more attracted to personality that social norms
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The_unknown_memer

1 y
I guess your are but in all honesty it's nothing you should be ashamed.

You have a different compared to generic people like me and I respect that

Answer 14

nerdybutlazy

Not realize, it's not that I prefer the feminine appearance for men, it's just that I just don't like muscles or I guess what they usually represent in men. I prefer men don't need muscles to prove their masculinity or that they think muscles is all you would need to find a woman over

Answer 15

The_unknown_memer

What is it about muscles you don't like? If you don't mind me asking

Are you afraid of them?

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nerdybutlazy

No lmao, I'm not intimated by muscular men maybe it's just the stereotype of the "big tough dude" doesn't do it for me. I genuinely find it attractive when guys care more about what's going on the inside and upstairs. Most of the muscular men I've met are well kinda lacking in that department.

That and just cuddling with a guy whose muscular is kinda uncomfortable for me, it's usually like cuddling with a soft rock if that makes any sense I know some girls think it's hot but I can't, also I guess it could be the fact that society, in general, believes that women should be attracted to that man by default and those watching my guy friends bulk up and obsess over working out is a turn-off.

So in general, I guess I'm just a bisexual who is more attracted to personality that social norms

Answer 17

The_unknown_memer

I guess your are but in all honesty it's nothing you should be ashamed.

You have a different compared to generic people like me and I respect that

Answer 18

Ally247

Yoda

I'm the same, I'm not a fan of muscles

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nerdybutlazy

1 y
I honestly prefer personality over muscles
Ally247

1 y
Exactly, and from my experience guys with muscles seem to think it makes them superior in some sort of way, which just becomes very unattractive
nerdybutlazy

1 y
Right!!! like I'm not gonna take to your muscles like jeez that and the guy whose only hobby is working out, it bugs me so much
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Ally247

1 y
The constant flexing is very cringeworthy too