Why must I have to send my nude pics online because I want a relationship online?

[OlderAndWiser]

1. There is no requirement of posting nude pictures to develop a relationship online. Some guys might expect that but you could politely tell them to go fuck themselves. Not every guy expects that.

2. What do you consider to be an "online" relationship?

[paullingren]

You don't. Guys that want nude pics right away aren't interested in a real relationship. They want you to be their private pornstar. This is up to you and YOUR boundaries whether you want to send nudes or not. It's your body, your life, your time and you are the only one who controls/decides what to do with it.

Boys demand this. Men will genuinely care for you, show respect, empathy, and trust. They'll be interested in what YOU want. (And they'll hope you're interested in what they want) A real man will not want to make you uncomfortable. They'll want you to feel safe and cared for.

[v851234]

You dont have to, I guess most guys want to see you nude if they are in a relationship. I personally prefer to let my girlfriend be comfortable around me before she decides without my input to let me see her body, then its organic and natural with no pressure.. likewise if I wanted to share my nudes it would be my choice to do it or not, I beleive in equality in a relationship

[ZackBan]

There has to be something wrong going on here. There is nothing you "must" do for a relationship, online or otherwise.

And nudes are something intimate and private that you should only share with someone if you decide you want him to see not because he's forcing you into it.

But you should also see if you misunderstood what he said: did he say it's nudes or nothing or is he asking just to see you, like maybe a videocall or something like that.

[Knighted2170]

No you don't have to send nude pics.

Any guy who asks for them is just looking to add to his spank bank. He probably has zero respect for women to begin with.

You are a person, not a game piece to be used for bragging rights.

Online or not, your body belongs to you.

[ohshee]

Whay do you think you have to do that. Because you don't. It's your choice not the guys ,, I like on line relationships friend ships to ,, in time after talking chat can turn in to flirting and sexting and so on but u don't have to send nudes if you get bored come chat

[DavidFox]

I don’t do online relationships but being a guy my guess is to incorporate sex into the relationship. If you were in a real life relationship likely you and him would be having sex, so if it’s just online gotta use the tools available.


Make sense?

[SunnySri]

Mam, you are not required to do that for an online relationship. Sharing nudes is pretty intimate and personal it should only be done if you want it on your own and you can trust the other person completely.

[sabwafair]

Tell the guy you're looking for a emotional connection.

If he wants to see nakedness they a zillion nude people on line.

[magiusX26]

that is a bad misconception. if all the guys you meet and have any inclination of wanting to date are demanding such, then you are only interested in the wrong men so far.

[ColHathi]

Being a pervert, I love nude pics, but I'd never demand of someone to send nude pics to be in a relationship, online or otherwise.

What is an online relationship?

[triff]

Nudes is not the way forward you may attract the wrong kind They get sold

[havingfun101]

You're old and girls are porn.

[TheAfrikan]

Not that all men eant seeing those nudes online. Some men of class do prefer a modest elegant smart woman with values.
If a guy wants you to send him your bare nudes then that is no relationship.

[Joe1956]

you dont have to... no one can make you do that... dont send nudes unless you're totally ok with it and know for a certain they won't be shared over the net

[Dchrls78104]

What kind of relationship do you want? Not a healthy one, if you have to send nudes online to get it!

[LEADFOOTboi]

you dont... you dont have to do anything you dont wanna... this is america

[Lunatic1]

You shouldn't have to, that is not good. But guys are weird online sometimes.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

You don't need to. Even if you do how will that guarantee you of anything?

[gandolph3]

Guys just want to jack off to them, do not send any if it makes you feel uncomfortable. Once you send then he can show everyone he wants

[Sampike11]

There is never a requirement to send anything you are not comfortable with, if a guy 'requires' them he's probably not worth the relationship

[chriscdi]

you dont gotta seend nudes online

[Anonymous]

You don't. Anyone requiring you to do so isn't worth your time.

[Twalli]

You shouldn't have to

[Anonymous]

Why must you keep asking this question?

[Anonymous]

Why would you think that? That’s not how it works

[Anonymous]

Why would you have to?

[In_Trance]

you don't have to