Why must I have to send my nude pics online because I want a relationship online?

[paullingren]

You don't. Guys that want nude pics right away aren't interested in a real relationship. They want you to be their private pornstar. This is up to you and YOUR boundaries whether you want to send nudes or not. It's your body, your life, your time and you are the only one who controls/decides what to do with it.

Boys demand this. Men will genuinely care for you, show respect, empathy, and trust. They'll be interested in what YOU want. (And they'll hope you're interested in what they want) A real man will not want to make you uncomfortable. They'll want you to feel safe and cared for.

[OlderAndWiser]

1. There is no requirement of posting nude pictures to develop a relationship online. Some guys might expect that but you could politely tell them to go fuck themselves. Not every guy expects that.

2. What do you consider to be an "online" relationship?

[ohshee]

Whay do you think you have to do that. Because you don't. It's your choice not the guys ,, I like on line relationships friend ships to ,, in time after talking chat can turn in to flirting and sexting and so on but u don't have to send nudes if you get bored come chat

[v851234]

You dont have to, I guess most guys want to see you nude if they are in a relationship. I personally prefer to let my girlfriend be comfortable around me before she decides without my input to let me see her body, then its organic and natural with no pressure.. likewise if I wanted to share my nudes it would be my choice to do it or not, I beleive in equality in a relationship

[ZackBan]

There has to be something wrong going on here. There is nothing you "must" do for a relationship, online or otherwise.

And nudes are something intimate and private that you should only share with someone if you decide you want him to see not because he's forcing you into it.

But you should also see if you misunderstood what he said: did he say it's nudes or nothing or is he asking just to see you, like maybe a videocall or something like that.

[Knighted2170]

No you don't have to send nude pics.

Any guy who asks for them is just looking to add to his spank bank. He probably has zero respect for women to begin with.

You are a person, not a game piece to be used for bragging rights.

Online or not, your body belongs to you.

[SunnySri]

Mam, you are not required to do that for an online relationship. Sharing nudes is pretty intimate and personal it should only be done if you want it on your own and you can trust the other person completely.

[DavidFox]

I don’t do online relationships but being a guy my guess is to incorporate sex into the relationship. If you were in a real life relationship likely you and him would be having sex, so if it’s just online gotta use the tools available.


Make sense?

[sabwafair]

Tell the guy you're looking for a emotional connection.

If he wants to see nakedness they a zillion nude people on line.

[magiusX26]

that is a bad misconception. if all the guys you meet and have any inclination of wanting to date are demanding such, then you are only interested in the wrong men so far.

[ColHathi]

Being a pervert, I love nude pics, but I'd never demand of someone to send nude pics to be in a relationship, online or otherwise.

What is an online relationship?

[triff]

Nudes is not the way forward you may attract the wrong kind They get sold