Which do you think would be a better for a first meet? A food place or a movie?

[rjroy3]

If we're talkin like an online date situation to where we haven't really talked and we are only doing one thing then dinner.

But realistically if we're seeing a movie we've talked quite a bit before. If we both really want to see the movie, she's really into the movie and we have time to spend after the movie. Then I'd rather do movie

People just assume you have to sit in silence at a movie. You don't. You can see more of someone's personality by seeing how they are during a movie than you think.

What they laugh at, what they don't, what they're emotionally reactive to. If they're bored. Does she like to nuzzle up to you. Shit like that. I've had many fun first dates at movies. But it was movie > 7-11 snacks > my place or movie > talk in the parking lot > make out

The movie isn't the date. The movie is the environment for the date.

[ShadezMcgee]

Food so long as you are doing something that allows you both to interact and get to know each other while having fun. Movie theater isn't the best since you can't really talk during a distracting movie.

[vintagegirl90]

I don’t like movies as first date ideas, if the guy doesn’t like you it gives him incentive to ditch you in the cinema. Also, you can’t get to know each other at all, you can’t talk during a film without annoying other people. You’re better doing food, coffee or going for a walk, all of these are better ways to get to know someone well for the first time.

[DizzyDesii]

A coffee shop. Sweet aroma, good vibes and decent conversation. I dont like restaurant dates early on because I’m not ready to pig out in front of him. Movie dates are decent but we’re all in eachothers faces and can hardly even have a convo during the movie

[MissDawn7961]

a food place can be quicker in case you do not like your date rather then a movie that can last for hours ! thanks

[Madhatter920]

I agree with you for the exact same reason. You can't talk in a movie theater and your first should be mostly talking and get to know each other.

[guesswhoseback]

Movies are bad ideas on first dates. Romantic comedies are actually an an even worse idea.

Keep it somewhere you can talk and maybe do a fun activity like play pool or throw darts.

[postempestas]

Cinema for a later date when you both have trust and you can tease each other.

[Chris_u006]

Food place and movie afterwards with a walk home looking at the stars together would be SOOOO romantic and nice!😇🙏💜😁

[magiusX26]

your on the right idea with sitting annd talking first.

[CuriousMufuxka]

A nice walk. It's free so no discussion about who should pay!

[llcanon]

When you eat in a restaurant you can talk and get to know each other and share common interest

[Sabretooth]

food. in either case, i think both should split-or cover the other's expense on the first date.

[gandolph3]

You should not talk at a movie, first date should have communication

[serious]

Tough to choose, but I chose movie.

[Twalli]

Also public well lit places are best

[Gedaria]

You can get to know each other better...

[CassieCape]

Food place because you can chat with the person.

[Vulvalicker]

Movies limit conversation

[Papadingdong]

Agreed.

[Yourman86]

I would say a movie

[Anonymous]

Movie is better.