What do men want from their women?

[Anonymous]

Absolutely. There other things you can do.
1. Dry humping
2. Masturbating to her
3. Mutual masturbation
4. Handjobs, fingerings, clit rubs
5. Blowjobs, eating pussy.
6. Thighjobs
7. Grinding. Where she grinds up against your exposed penis
8. God's loophole (anal). Big among Catholic school girls.

My last girlfriend was waiting for marriage. We tried a lot of things before having sex. It started with making out and her wanting to stay pure, then dry humping (love yoga pants), eventually my penis "slipped" out and I came all over her favourite yoga pants, she didn't talk to me for a week.
So eventually I convinced her just to let me jerk off to her, then jerk off to her topless except for a bra, then just wearing lingerie of a bathing suit, then she decided to let me jerk off to her exposed breasts, then her ass, then her fully naked.
We progressed then to mutual masturbation after eventually she started touching herself as I jerked off.
Eventually she felt brave enough to touch my penis and give me handjobs. After talking to her friends and watching some porn alone she surprised me with a blowjob.
Then we progressed to thighjobs, which is putting the penis between her thighs and thrusting, you can do this from the front or behind and you can run her clit with your penis thrusts if you postion right.
When her parents weren't home we tried grinding up against each other with her naked except for a tiny thong, baby oil works well with this. She would rub her vagina up and down my shaft until I came with nothing but a thong between her vagina and my penis. You can do this missionary or doggy style.
She again was talking with her friends and decided to try "Gods loophole". We did this, she didn't like it at first and cried in pain as I thrust until orgasm, I remember she had trouble sitting in church the next day.
One time while grinding with her in missionary postion her thong got pushed to the side by my thrusting penis and I penetrated her as I was about orgasm, she cried out for me to stop but I kept thrusting. That was how dhd lost her virginity. She was pissed for a week but I talked her around and we started to have full sex from them on and she loved it.

[Lionman95]

Loyality, Respect, Trust. I really like it if a woman trusts me not only with her perfect character traits and looks but also with vulnerable sides of her, because if she does it´s easier for me to show my vulnerable me to her.
I also like it if a woman is smart and I can talk and discuss with her. I also like adventorous women (that´s not meant in sexual context), I like to try out new things /sports (although I´m pretty bad at sports, I´ve always been the worst boy in sports in my class at school...) and think of new or different forms of dates.
Another thing might sound strange from a female perspective, I need space every now and then. That´s not because I don´t love her, but being alone is time where I can sort my priorities. These times are not a decision against her, but times where I need to be alone.
Compare it to tidying up your room after many days of doing different things in their and it gets messy, things are lying around and you´re not proud but you haven´t found time yet to bring things back in order. Imagine your room being really messy and untidy sometimes not only a guy´s room looks like this but also his life. Then it´s time to go in "the desert" (time alone) where I need to go to bring my priorities back in order. I can understand that females don´t understand why they can´t be there and help. But that´s like me going on a girl´s night with her or take me to an afternoon where she meets with her best friend where they about girls stuff, you know.
I also like humor, it´s nice when he laugh about the same or similar jokes. I´d appreciate it if she was religious/Christian, too.

[Beautyforeverybody]

Now i can’t speak for the behalf of men but after meeting quite a few of a single men here is my conclusion ;
They want her to be attractive- you don’t have to be Angelina Jolie, they just want a good looking girl who is fit and takes good care of herself
They want a woman who is domestic - don’t come at me feminists but most men want a woman who can cook and clean.
They want her to be sweet and humble
They want her to like children and eventually have one with him

[tae_ie]

To be accepted, to feel loved and cared, really not much Just like women, men also have soft spots in their heart.

[Apope16]

Loyalty. Sex. Cuddling. Encouragement. Shared Values. Shared Interests.

All in that order I would say.

[guesswhoseback]

This is what I want:

- Comparatively attractive. That is she is matched up with me. Doesn’t have to be a supermodel but she has to be healthy, in shape and cute. I’m in shape, healthy and I’m told I’m attractive. Not as attractive as I was at 24 but handsome for a man my age. I must want to have sex with her for the long term.

- Financial and emotionally independent. She must be able to survive without me if it came down to it. BUT if she has a better life with me great. But not dependent.

- Must not be impressionable and hive minded. I’m a moderate conservative but I’m open minded to opposing views IF they are presented respectfully (which is getting less and less common). If she was at all involved with BLM riots I want nothing to do with her.

- Must be open minded to the idea of a higher power. If she’s part of this new communist atheism that “all religion is poison” I want nothing to do with that.

- Must respect me as much as I respect her.

- Must fight fair. Having arguments will be inevitable in any relationship. Women will have their emotional moments it’s to be expected. But she can’t take cheap shots just to win an argument. If she’s wrong about something she needs to come back and apologize about it. Doesn’t have to be right away but when she comes to that realization. I hate women (and men) who don’t apologize when it’s plain as day their wrong. They think it’s strength but that’s weakness.

[Wedimir]

Strange question) What does a person want from a hot dog? or from the car or from sugar?) He wants to get what is peculiar to them! But this is where the fun begins! Because femininity and masculinity are manifested in us in different ways. Now there are no" real " one hundred percent. And here everything is difficult Suppose a man wants sexuality, tenderness and the ability to cook. She is frigid, rude, and eats in cafes. Or she expects courage and responsibility from him and he is a coward and asks her for money for drinks. Everyone has their own set of expectations! If a man loves you, you can be sure that you have met more than 60 percent of his requests). Just be yourself! Be original! Develop your qualities. After all, this is what your man is looking for! Like a key to a lock. Don't try to meet any standards. Personality what a love!)

[DrunkAss]

I like someone I can hug while naked together, have sex with, and talk in a way where our combo of differences and similarities means we'll never get bored with each other. And she lets me build my life dream with her at my side. She lets me build it and she supports it. But not blindly. She challenges it. She speaks her mind. But at the end of the day, she's at my side.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Loyalty, sex, femininity, emotional support, romance (well, maybe for a romantic guy like myself), mutual trust, affection, cuddles, cook for each other sometimes, open to new things in the bedroom, treats her man right and doesn't put him down in front of others, not overly dramatic (having emotions is fine and perfectly valid, but they should be processed in a mature way)

[Thatoneguy5526]

Someone who loves me for me. I need someone who asks more about me than about my experiences, someone to share my life with rather than use me as a means to elevate hers.

I know it sounds corny/simple but this is what I want yet it seems so hard to find.

[Jackblue]

To have all the housework done, absolute obedience, sex whenever we want it, and the ability to cheat with impunity while she remains faithful of course lol no. What we want I think most of all is a life companion who we can share our emotions with. Men can't really be vulnerable with anyone save our spouses, we are supposed to man up even in front of our own mothers.

[Fuentes]

Loyalty and as chill as they can be and ill be the same but all that random drama & nagging is unneeded & y'all trippin if u think real niggas not dipping from hearing all that noise for nothing. Some woman don't even know why they're mad sometimes and thats a no go

[Twalli]

Depends on what the man needs. I want someone who is willing to have sex before marriage, likes dogs, can walk 4 miles or more with my dog every day (2 miles in the morning and 2 in the afternoon), gets hungry, never lies to me, and truly and completely loves me.

[AFellowWeeb]

loalty
SHE surprising ME from time to time
goals
good sence of humor ( not getting easly but hurted )
giving me space ( not pressuring me into trying to impress her everyday )
similar idiologies
similar tastes
emotional support and love

[VanityFair748]

I think depends on a man. For example, My man wanted someone who would be pretty, smart, submissive and extremely caring (almost servant) person.
He just got pretty and smart😀
He said he was hoping to change me and wanted to force me to kinda gain those other traits but nope, I think dudes need to take care of themselves.
We still have arguments though and he's really unhappy if he has to change his own sheets in his own bedroom or get groceries.

[v851234]

I have a better question.. what does anyone want from anyone? Everyone wants different things from life and people, so can't really answer your question as the answer is anything.

[Kurαȷ]

Respect, loyalty and staying the person the man fell for.
Those are the most generic requirements, the rest is largely up to every man's subjective preferences.

[Brian___1731]

Loyalty. Love. Care. Someone who understands humour. Someone with shared goals and values. Someone who can stand up for herself if the need arises

[Paris13]

Every man is Different. My own Fiance wants Love, Loyalty, Open lines of Communication and Companionship. xx

[mistixs]

I think they want companionship and sex and loyalty. Many of them want kids too

[Anonymous]

Honestly, most men would love if they get "peace" from their partner.

But alas, it never happens. It is either mistaken for "not putting effort anymore" or having the "mundane" life. Specially in my culture, girls always have some problem with other females in their man's life. Be it a friend, relative, or even mom/sisters.

I am convinced at this point that asking for peace in a marriage is unrealistic fairy tale.

[Cherrylicious]

For their woman to be monogamous for them while they have multiple relationships and sex with other women. And mostly just meaningless sex with no relationship basically want their cake and eat it too.

[AnnNoid]

I don't know, i jus want a woman aka girl, I’m not picky

[wkozak]

Someone has stolen your post and i answered this question but i will say the same answer, support and caring, that's what i need.