What do men want from their ideal woman?

[Price511]

Honestly, just look moderately good, have similar interests, take care of each other, be considerate of the other, and we make each other happy and genuinely feel in love.

And that's me being realistic

My ideal woman is Venti from Genshin Impact (if you know, you know, ehe-).

Or just be someone who is really similar to how I am with a lot of things but has some traits altered to be just mesh really well with me as a person. Car girl, who enjoys fancy dresses/suits, dancing and drinking the night away on fine wine and the dance floor, who enjoys the moonlit sky and the thrill of the night, and who enjoys the casual mornings of when you feel warm in your blankets and decide to wait a few more minutes before getting up, just enjoying being held in each other's arms. Who has a similar humor to me and is good at comforting me, and likes cuddling. Who enjoys gaming and anime, who likes martial arts and sparring. Who is interested in learning cooking alongside me and we encourage each other in our personal pursuits. Where we love hearing each other's day, and always say I love you as we wake up and fall asleep, every time we say it being just as sincere and true, if not more, than the first time we said it.

And while I don't really have that, I do have somebody who treats me kinder than anybody else has. Who makes me happy and we're already past a year in our relationship, with no serious arguments and us being comfortable with each other that we can act like idiots together who can break out into random song and laugh about it afterwards, or just say dumb niche references that we both know that are funny. Who knows me better than I know myself, and likewise for them. Who makes me feel special and gives me the drive to better myself with every passing day, because of them.

And I feel very fortunate to have them in my life :)

[crmoore]

When it comes to physique (the first thing I look at but ultimately not as important as who she is on a personal, mental, or emotional level) I like girls who are particularly short. I like girls who are physically delicate and skinny with small frames. I like small breasts and a small, cute rear end. I like girls who are particularly feminine (both physically and mentally). Blue eyes are preferred. I love long, brown, slightly wavy hair (a bit past her mid-back) and especially so if it's in a ponytail, and love a girl whose collar bones and ribs are slightly defined/visible. But I also like girls who are just soft in general (like physically)?

When it comes to who she is as a person, I like girls who are really happy, upbeat, optimistic, bubbly, gentle, sweet, kind, caring, benevolent, dependent, clingy, helpless, fairly innocent (but not for too long, lol, or at least just seemingly), warm-hearted, and emotionally delicate (this is super attractive and cute, especially if she cries easily, I have a soft spot for that). I think it's extremely cute when girls blush or get flushed. I think psychological neoteny is super sweet, cute, and endearing. I like good girls. I like girls who do cute things like lean over and kiss you on the cheek. I like girls who are a little quirky. I also like to make a lot of physical contact like holding hands and cuddling so that is fairly important. I also really enjoy a girl that I can just be open and honest with. I want the type of girl that I can just feel like I can be myself around and feel relaxed around.

[DellBell]

I'm guessing a hourglass shape, a woman that is very attractive when it comes to looks depending on what men find attractive looks wise because every man is different. I know men like women that have lovely hair, eyes, smile and lips as far as I know along with a nice ass and boobs as far as I know.

As for personality wise... well every man is different when it comes to personality but I think most men are looking for a woman that loves them for who they are, a chick that doesn't depend on others to much. That knows her worth and what she brings to the table.

A woman that is fun to be around and great in bed.

A woman that would make her man feel like a king and will do what needs to be done.

Cooking, cleaning etc

I also think men love women that are into video games, sports, cars and basically acting like she's one of the guys also.

But again I'm sure not all men are attracted to women like that some men prefer a girly girl

[Anonymous]

To look like a supermodel, be tall, with tan skin (but still white), think like a stick but with a tiny waist and wide hips, have flawless skin, no stretch marks, cellulite, body hair, small nose, big lips, round face no wrinkles, acne, perfect hair, be submissive, never disagree with them, lack any critical thinking, make less money than them

[OlderAndWiser]

Love, sex, companionship, loyalty, and going to sleep with our arms around each other.

[Shevach]

Them boobies, booty, witt, charisma, sense of humour, good personality. For her to be inexplicably attached to u even if u ain't that attached.
And a whole lotta sex like 70% of the time.
But hell I ain't really interested in romantic relationships, I'm telling this from a hypothetic point of view (if I were to be in a relationship, and what an ideal partner would be for me).
But hell like I already said I ain't interested in loving relationships and that sort of shit.
I'm way too bad boy for romantic relationships, When I go to college and in my twenties, I'm gonna be screwin' and dumpin, I'm way too carefree for romantic relationships.
Besides I don't even trust anyone, sooner or later someone would get hurt.
Ion need some punk ass bish to nag to me 24/7, and to try to change me
When u a player, you exchange body fluids with one chick, then u never see em again, u both satisfied and no one gets hurt.
Besides why eat one chicken wing, when u van eat hundred chicken wings.
Romantic relationships and love are just a scam, love is just a myth.

[Lliam]

I want lots of things from my ideal woman. Above all, she's a woman, right, so she has to be a horny, orgasmic, uninhibited, feminine sexual artist who loves everything about men.
But sex isn't everything by a long shot. I also want her to be smart, perceptive, open minded, talented, hard working, fun and funny, adventurous, nurturing, kind, ethical and 100% loyal and trustworthy, well groomed, have good sense, good taste and a sense of style, not too materialistic. There's probably much more to the ideal person.

[Unit1]

I will speak only for myself.

I want

• Love
• Devotion
• Romance
• Kisses
• Cuddles
• Sex
• Massages
• For her not to be a financial liability to me

does that sound reasonable to the women?

[TheorionMage]

To make their pupils dilate every time they see you.
To make their Peers enviously fantasize and SWEAT ever time they see you.

For YOU to display playfulness BUT unassailable fidelity
and SHOW it by rebuffing other male's 'come ons'.
You're HIS and He's Your's. Make his Peers say: 'Lucky Bastard!'

Appalachian proverb: "A well-fed dog stays on YOUR porch,
and doesn't go off to run with the pack in search of wild game."

If YOU don't earn his fidelity, there's ALWAYS some one, somewhere who'll inspire his fantasies"~
Humans are 'troop' animals; 'monogamy' is a recent and NOT universal evolutionary trait.

[cheapshotbob]

yes if its been more than a year there not letting go for the simple reason there is still some type of affection going on, physical or nt it has to be0% traumatic after a years f being with you unless is something personal which is a whole other thing.

[Knighted2170]

To tell me what her wants and desires are.

Communicate with me while being open and honest. With that no judgement when I communicate back the same. Trust can't be established if we judge one another. You can disagree, but don't judge.

All the rest will fall into place after that.

[flamiE]

One they find attractive (whatever their type is), can hold a conversation, is funny, understanding, loyal, freaky, independent but makes them feel needed too, doesn’t nag, isn’t too jealous, doesn’t bring drama in their life, supports them, listens to them, can cook, understands they’re not mind readers. That’s off the top of my head.

[bumblebritches5]

Perfect to me means:
Physically:
Short (5'2" - 5'3") (I'm already very tall)
Black or brown long straight hair (I have curly brown hair)
Blue or Green eyes, especially if light blue (mine are deep blue, brown eyes are a deal breaker)
Pale skin
the bigger the boobs the better
Personality:
Happy go lucky,
can be really sarcastic and playful
but also very understanding and nurturing
Has a comforting presence

[Anonymous]

Be constructive in raising issues and when she gets her point across, be positive and supportive. e. g. don't go on and on over and over negative.
Manage her emotions
Work on herself so she is a better person rather than focus only on my flaws.
Turn to what she has and the good rather than seeing negative
Keep in shape physically and spiritually.
Eat right
be adventerous, loving, nurturing

[israelisevil]

I just like a girl i can spend night in woods with on shrooms smoking weed fucking and talk about life with. She can't be fat but she dont got be hot or even attractive. Good communicator when mad is Assertive a passive agressive person deserves get manipulated. NOT LOOKING JUST FOR DICK WANTS SOMETHING MORE

[Anonymous]

In one word "loyalty". I mean if we're together i already assume certain things i like her she likes me. We have mutual interests. We share the same general outlook on life etc.
But i'll give her no reason to doubt my loyalty. All i ask is she do the same

[OmNomaly]

Emotional stability, educated, can cook and take care of herself, doesn't cause drama.
Doesn't berate or belittle me. Someone who is supportive of me. Loyalty is a big one. Honest.
Likes to hang out inside away from large crowds. Family oriented. Hasn't slept with more people than you can count on your hand.
But someone that can be goofy and also serious when the times call for it.

[navyrobin]

If he’s smart, he will look at her mind and personality.


If he’s an idiot who wants to be used and abused, then he will focus more on her physique.


They will decide, and if they choose the wrong girl, they’ll learn eventually that it’s very easy for a woman to leave a man with nothing but an empty wallet, no house, and a lot of debt.


Men, please choose wisely.

[Bandit74]

personality:
agnostic
smart
humble
open minded
doesn't immediately resort to screaming
affectionate (random kisses, hugs, cuddling)
plays video games
doesn't drink/do drugs
ideally virgin or hasn't had casual sex

physically:
between 5'2-5'7
petite-medium weight depending on height
cute/friendly face
soft comforting voice
brown/black straight hair
fair/olive complexion
small/medium boobs

[GoogleWasMyIdea]

The only thing I want is skinny to average in body weight, intelligence, able to play with me (wrestle and stuff), and if she is faithful to me. Is that a lot to ask? The wresting I can do without but I am very playful. I wanna tackle you and throw you on the bed. Get on top and tickle you till you die.

[serious]

Not just one thing but quite a lot of things. It won't be possible to list it out in a easy and simply way.

[AnnNoid]

Someone who looks over 5/10

I’m not picky and have unrealistically high expectations like girls, it’s very easy to get with me

[Iceseeyou25]

Is tall, skinny, big boobs, light skinned, big butt, never asks him for money, has a high sex drive, very intelligent, strong, humble, loyal, great at blow jobs, maybe a model, has no criminal past, low sex count, a Virgin, a good cook, ride or die, no disability,

And there's more but I know I'm right.

[anon1903]

Near hourglass figure but skinny's hot too, assertive communicator, great long hair, fertile, emotionally mature, considerably decent looking, good sense of humor or at least laughs at his jokes, loyal

[thimmslicc]

I've finally met the one guy, who is a gold digger!

[britishbby]

Complete trust, surprises, to be appriciated, treating like a king, allowed to treat u like a queen and to be the god damn little spoon

[ChrisG30]

All I want is just someone with a nice smile, respects me as a human being, someone to talk to when were feeling lonely and of course intimacy and sex. Pretty simple, yet so hard to find.

[coolhandroo]

Sexually uninhibited, comfortable in her skin, not jealous or controlling or flirtatious with other dudes. Interesting and outgoing and willing to try new experiences. Sense of humour and doesn't like dogs. Non drinker but regular drug user. Bi. Why do you know her?

[SunnySri]

From my ideal woman sir, i want honesty, directness and mutual trust in eachother.

[Don-__-Don]

Nothing but positivity, saying that pretty much covers everything else.

[michael02022]

Loyal, caring and cute. Insee lots of comments from women about skinny and hourglass shape but I don't think that's what guys look for, at least not ones I talked to. Also being thin is completely unimportant

[jasco]

Good sex, cuddles lots of cuddles, good food, someone to sleep on lol, someone to play around with, hopefully willing to be a gamer girl

[JackSmy]

I want her to KNOW she is at least my EQUAL! I want her to say what she thinks, and feels, and I want to be able to talk with her, and understand her feelings, and know what she needs, being together!

[UncleJessieRabbit]

Caring
Loyal
Can cook
Raise children well
Shorter, 5'0 to 5'3
Skinny to a little chubby body weight
White or Latina
Dark brown or blond hair

[wkozak]

All i want from my ideal women is just support and caring, i don't need anything except what i said.

[babysteph]

someone to pleasure him physically and support him emotionally. Duh.

[ivbnlknfru]

Most men want more sex than they get. Women seem to get more complacent as they get older. Men tend to have a stronger sex drive...

[AmtgardJean]

Depends on the man. Personally my ideal woman would be pretty, a bit submissive, willing to try new things, and willing to tell me when I need to work on things, also faithful as I would be.

[Ohboiyyy]

18-21, no college or credit card debt, no tattoo, have children, be a stay at home mom and wife, stay in good shape and continue to have sex with me. That simple.

[Iron_Man]

Honesty, loyalty, compassion, a kind heart ♥️ wisdom bringing something to the table

[SomeGuyWithNames]

To want them and not their money. Body shape is important, but nothing beyond what you can be just by eating right. It's much easier for women to be sexy lol

[JSmuve]

Loyalty, love, sex, cuddles, head scratches, sloppy head, comfort, compliance, reliability, trust, food, no drama, and a commitment from her to stay fit

[JosyJosy]

I am guessing... feminine curves for one, horny and full with desire for two
One who's behind what he does, supports him, treats him like a king. One who doesn't nag? The stereotype ;)

[12matrin]

i dont really care, i just know that when i fall inlove i dont really care about the looks anymore because i will love everything about her, i expect to receive the same love back what i give out and trust thats the most important thing for me then..

[pervertedjester]

Loyalty, humor and how to deal with a introverted boyfriend would be the top 3. Most everything else is negotiable.

[jshm2]

Nothing. the ideal woman does it all and gets it right. Which is why she's the ideal woman.

[Kountry_King]

I want someone whose down for me in every way and I’d like her to be able to communicate. I want a woman who’ll understand me.

[Anonymous]

Anything that is blonde - doesn’t matter if they’re the ugliest being to exist or if they’re missing a brain, if they’re blonde, that’s what they want... unfortunately.

[worldscolide]

Loyalty, Honesty, and caring. Thats literally it, and so few women are capable of it.

[bamesjond0069]

Sweet caring feminine not fat not a slut loves kids looks to me to lead her good attitude youthful

Career education money being super hot with makeup and fashion... none of this makes the list. In fact its mostly bad.

[Liam_Hayden]

My ideal woman works two full time jobs opposite my schedule, direct deposits the checks into my accounts, cleans my house while I am at work, and spends the weekends and holidays with her parents.

[Torari]

Short, athletic (low bodyfat, high muscle mass), long hair, preferably curly ginger or brunette.

Musical, comfortable with femininity, bubbly, curious, confident but not arrogant.

[ananias55]

Loyalty and kinky. Also for her to take care if her body and mind. Yes that means staying fit.

[DavidFox]

They want their needs to be met.

[Avicenna]

Respwctxand commitment

[Monil]

She should be honest , beautiful by thoughts, understanding and care takingare my top priority for ideal women

[lokeshdh00]

Personally I want a independent, Beautiful 5.4-5.10 inches height, Fit body, Smart, Knowledge, Loving, caring, respecting, Optimistic.

[Slim57]

Loyal, kind, emotionally stable, hardworking, understanding, supportive, affectionate, compromising, high sex drive, feminine, classy

[Anonymous]

A big ass booty and huge boobs

[Clarke498]

That she's interested... My bar is getting lower every day...

[FakeNIK]

Nothing much just attractive personality and maturity..

[dragoblack]

Kindness, understanding, cuddles, and treating the relationship like best friends with romantic benefits

[Jjpayne]

Affection, support, trust, patience, and kindness.

[pizzalovershouse]

Great personality fun an nice an a sexy girl who isn't a sleazy girl