Because he really isn't that into her and if he is and doesn't have a backbone to show it does a woman really want a guy like that in her life anyway? I am assuming yes because as you said they are always asking why why why won't the be a man and tell me.
And most importantly, when a man says he is not looking for a relationship, BELIEVE HIM!
Very very very true and Awesome answer. This should be Bi'bot's super opinion and MHO too. You are a very knowledgeable and right person. That's what your words reflect. I don't think asker need to hear anything else. Keep it up 👍.A person needs a few true friends like you and they are good to go !
I agree with you 100%. People often get to caught up wondering and thinking about what they believe the person is thinking. Never easy because we are complicated and at best are assumptions are a guess. The only way to know is to ask and communicate and understand that if someone is into you or not shouldn't define your worth as a person. One thing I have learned over the years is that you are in charge and responsible for you and your character. If you like someone you should show it. If you know that you put yourself out there and did it honorably and respectfully you win no mater what happens. If it doesn't work out it has nothing to do with what you did. The situation was just not meant to be at that time. As I said before you are one person closer to the one. I see too many people going outside of who they are as a person to impress someone because of attraction. There is just way more that goes into a relationship and if you are not being yourself you are not giving that relationship little chance at lasting.
Okay now this opinion deserves MHO, it contains two excellent opinions but similar 😂. I would not write my opinion w, I would just say I agree with you both !
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I think sometimes when a guy says no I am not into you they stay confused and go hmmmm well does he like me though? lol
To add to this, if a woman is bold enough and wants to ask him out, that’s awesome. It goes against everything that we’ve been taught growing up, but it works and I’m sure plenty of guys would appreciate it.
Or maybe you could just ask him out your self 🤔
@Louistruman19 I added that in the comment I posted to this opinion because I forgot to mention that part
Your answer is based on a real situation. I agree guys shy too. And I believe besides throwing a bone. You could ask him out. Girls have the right to choose too !
@lokeshdh00 yup, I forgot to mention that in my original post, but I did say it in the additional comment I posted 😊
U know i want you tho
Well that is definitely the point of the quote. A guy could say to a girl he ain't interested and she would still say... how do I know for sure? lol
Well I meant that I always assume he’s not interested. Even if the guy signaled all the signs saying that he was. Like I’ve literally had guys say they like me but I self sabotage by assuming he’s not being genuine. It’s putting up walls. So it’s not always the case that the men confuse the women it could just be the woman doing it to themselves.
Yes rejection is a part of life. So he is either just not that into her or he lacks self confidence. For the men who are not into them and are not giving off any signs and it's pretty clear she will still be confused because she can't imagine him not being interested.
Sorry coach forgot who i was talking to. Going to have to agree to disagree.
Thats not possible because I am "unforgettable" Thanks for the comment.
What? The guys who do it are successful as the others are in the back of the bar holding their beers.
@CoachTanthony That move is only effective for girls who are willing to mingle. But for shy types? You are just going to scare them away.
@Primrose21 the shy types? This isn’t rocket science here... shoot your shot... if they are shy then move on... in need a confident woman. In my life! To each their own though !
@coachTanthony Well that's the reality. Not everyone is the same. A lot of guys can't even talk to a girl. We are not in a fantasy land. Reality sucks.
MHO right here GAG
So you don't buy this premise?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3J7H-BKUUKw
What I disagree with is the idea that it’s so back anschwirre.
* and white
Nothing is ever black and white here on GAG... got to just roll with the punches.
Yes this too
The guy is wishy washy about you then either way and most likely wishy washy in other areas of his life.
So he didn't want a relationship (?)
Most probably do want a relationship but when they act like that it's just not with you.
Is it not with me who he wants to date?
No idea. Just giving you the facts on male behavior. Some will flirt but not enough to care and some who know what they want will make it extremely obvious.
Oh I understand, thanks for the information!
Yes this what I was talking about lol
Lets talk about you lol
How did you find out? And did you end up dating?
@SeaSprayBreeze I found out when he tried to kiss me. We went on a couple dates but decided we were better off as friends and we still hang out till this day
Nope. some guys just can't read signals. Just give him your number and ask him out instead of giving signals.
@Louistruman19 I think that the post is talking about a partnership.
@Louistruman19 but if you’re being direct with the guy and flirting like crazy, he should take a hint and then take the lead. Being shy is understandable but when she’s putting herself out there blatantly, he should put two and two together
The posh is surely talking about a partnership and not first impressions lol
No he shouldn't decipher signals. Ask him out if you like him. A guy who likes you not gonna say no. I agree with @Louistruman19.
Encouraging to know that men do send mixed signals and are not man enough to tell you he is into you?
Encouraging to know a guy can be into you, and you not know it.
Okay what does that say about the guy?
It says he's human.
It says he has no confidence and women love that ! lol You hear it all the time here on GAG. How can I tell if a guy likes me type question. If he is a man he will tell you if not then YOU will have to go up to him and lead the interaction, relationship, etc for the rest of your life. Many women prefer it that way it seems. lol
What I do is treating anyone who is not interested as friends, light flirting with them if I like them.But if after a couple of attempts they don't try back, I just lower my expectations with that particular person.
Oh, interesting video...
Wrong. They could be waiting indefinitely.
because ur a hopeless romantic. If u like someone nothing else really matters.
Well they could still fight for you but still be unsure about you, but they probably like the idea of you.
Yes just like us
Well you should but most women can't believe that the dude wouldn't be interested so they come on GAG asking... what are signs that a guy likes you? ... because well he ain't showing any.
Signs that he likes me:Very communicative and interested in how my day is going. Consistent and tries to be present in my life all the time.Signs he doesn't like me:He goes silent. Takes long time to reply or doesn't reply at all. Stops calling and doesn't answer your calls or doesn't call you back after a missing call. Can easily spend days without talking when previously used to be the opposite.
I agree that you know... i am just saying many women would take your list and go well that isn't true he might just be busy or have stuff going on. He works hard so...
That's a possibility but if he's busy for 6 months it's a bit too obvious that there's something going on lol.