Whys it so hard dating and having big boobs?

Question

For my answer to the influx of "its unfair dating as a short guy" questions

Updates:

1 mo

By hard dating I mean not dating sleazebag guys

1 mo

Also I shall use lily from AT&T as an example of the shite we deal with

Answer 1

israelisevil | 77 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 5

guys might think your used be coddled and treated like fragile woman likes being taken restraunts and booring shit like that rathen then something fun or interesting, rather then taking you have good time doing real stuff that helps you connect. or there nervice. or they think big tits saggy but thats very unlikely to be it.
I wouldn't date a girl if she seemed like type to enjoy restraunts and dumb materialistic things like that. i like a girl wholl do shrooms with me in nature or on boat and have good chill time most guys who care for women arnt the restraunt traditional type but those type guys tend like tits and basic shit.

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ChefPapiChulo | 214 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

aren't you fat?

Asker

1 mo
aren't you to grow a beard?
ChefPapiChulo

1 mo
I'm sorry, I don't understand your mumbo jumbo
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1 mo
aren't you able*
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ChefPapiChulo

1 mo
your beard is much better
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1 mo
Great banter

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Asker

aren't you to grow a beard?

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ChefPapiChulo

I'm sorry, I don't understand your mumbo jumbo

Answer 5

Asker

aren't you able*

Answer 6

ChefPapiChulo

your beard is much better

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Asker

Great banter

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TadCurious | 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Are you using Lily as an example of the size breasts you're asking about, or as an example of someone who has had a hard time dating because of her breast size? I know that ATT has brought Lily back for a new ad campaign but I'm not aware that she refers to her dating experiences in the new ads. I really like Lily though and I hope she can find a guy who will treat her as a complete human being and not just a pair of breasts.

Asker

1 mo
For harrassment and treatment because she has tits and yeah they disable comments on Instagram at least of videos in her in them because of the shit said
Asker

1 mo
Gonna be honest, shitty morning and shitty post so my bad
TadCurious

1 mo
Oh I understand now. Guys are being assholes in their comments to videos of the Lily ads.
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Asker

1 mo
I thoughtd give some clarity to shit I deal with but it came across wrong

Answer 9

Asker

For harrassment and treatment because she has tits and yeah they disable comments on Instagram at least of videos in her in them because of the shit said

Answer 10

Asker

Gonna be honest, shitty morning and shitty post so my bad

Answer 11

TadCurious

Oh I understand now. Guys are being assholes in their comments to videos of the Lily ads.

Answer 12

Asker

I thoughtd give some clarity to shit I deal with but it came across wrong

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MannMitAntworten | 2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Frankly I could fuve a damn about her chest size. It is far a selling point for women towards men I always feel. Which really comes to light when a segment of women who do this make it a point to point out how great their boobs are again and again.

Me, all I think is, "yes, you make thar scoop nexk or v-neck shirt look great." Beyond that, I am fairly indifferent to the dairy cannons.

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winterfox10 | 4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

You have to take active steps to bring healthy men into your life. There's a huge social component of dating that's really easy to forget. What kind of girls do you surround yourself with, and how are you meeting men? I wouldn't think that tits would make much difference in the quality of men you attract, but your company sure will.

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jshm2 | 406 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Must be the quality of guys you're going after.

Going into JD Sports, you're not going to find Versace suits, as they say.

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Don-__-Don

Xper 7

Because a lot of men like big boobs, thus the chances of you dealing with shitty men increases.

It's your job to weed them out.

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AndrewMG | 200 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

It's tough mate and I've got 32A's which apparently according to certain people aren't that big!!! lol

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TonyV | 145 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

I'm not sure those are quite equal.

Big boobs may bring some unwanted attention from the wrong guys.

Being under 6 foot brings just about zero attention from women.

Asker

1 mo
They're opposites but the same
TonyV

1 mo
I could go for some attention from even a bad girl right now, being ignored sucks.
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1 mo
And I'd like a conversation with a guy without him asking to see my girls
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1 mo
Both shitty situations
TonyV

1 mo
They really ask that right away?

Also I'll have to look up the lily thing
Asker

1 mo
Well usually there's a wyd before they ask but yeah
Asker

1 mo

And in terms of unwanted attention that's a good reference
TonyV

1 mo
Yeah it came up right away, on sure that sucks, I dont really have much experience with that.
I had one girl I was talking to ask for a dick pic, it made me uncomfortable but I think it was cause she was literally the second girl to ever ask, the first turned out to be an extortionists that threatened to "put on the internet and show my fb familymembers" so i hadn't done it much and the first was a scam and i think that's why it bothered me so much.
I'm also not big so i was worried about mockery, but she was nice when i finally sent her a pic.
So I have a little idea what it's like but not much.
Asker

1 mo
Sorry was a stupid question to post.

Shit just sucks I guess on both ends
TonyV

1 mo
It wasn't a stupid question.

"The grass is always greener on the other side"

I wouldn't mind any attention even it's bad for a little bit
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You would like to be treated like a person and not like a peace of meat for once.

I kind of got the feeling this was more of a vent post anyways.
It can't hurt to get more guys aware of how those requests make you and many other woman feel, it won't stop the jerks but it will stop the guys who really think they are nice.

Now I know that's a terrible way to flirt or show interest.
Whtevernever

1 mo
I am under 6 feet and there is plenty of attention coming my way.

Answer 19

Asker

They're opposites but the same

Answer 20

TonyV

I could go for some attention from even a bad girl right now, being ignored sucks.

Answer 21

Asker

And I'd like a conversation with a guy without him asking to see my girls

Answer 22

Asker

Both shitty situations

Answer 23

TonyV

They really ask that right away?

Also I'll have to look up the lily thing

Answer 24

Asker

Well usually there's a wyd before they ask but yeah

Answer 25

Asker

And in terms of unwanted attention that's a good reference

Answer 26

TonyV

Yeah it came up right away, on sure that sucks, I dont really have much experience with that.
I had one girl I was talking to ask for a dick pic, it made me uncomfortable but I think it was cause she was literally the second girl to ever ask, the first turned out to be an extortionists that threatened to "put on the internet and show my fb familymembers" so i hadn't done it much and the first was a scam and i think that's why it bothered me so much.
I'm also not big so i was worried about mockery, but she was nice when i finally sent her a pic.
So I have a little idea what it's like but not much.

Answer 27

Asker

Sorry was a stupid question to post.

Shit just sucks I guess on both ends

Answer 28

TonyV

It wasn't a stupid question.

"The grass is always greener on the other side"

I wouldn't mind any attention even it's bad for a little bit
And
You would like to be treated like a person and not like a peace of meat for once.

I kind of got the feeling this was more of a vent post anyways.
It can't hurt to get more guys aware of how those requests make you and many other woman feel, it won't stop the jerks but it will stop the guys who really think they are nice.

Now I know that's a terrible way to flirt or show interest.

Answer 29

Whtevernever

I am under 6 feet and there is plenty of attention coming my way.

Answer 30

Texaskid1 | 553 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Big boobies= many dates.

You should be proud of your big boobs.

israelisevil

1 mo
Big tits look bad once the bra off

Answer 31

israelisevil

Big tits look bad once the bra off

Answer 32

LoveSmallTits

Xper 5

I love small boobs
and I think you have big boobs

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Feelicks | 59 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 5

Try wearing a tight sports bra and a plain shirt. See who still bites. I assure you that most people are shit regardless of the size of your breasts.

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Whtevernever | 52 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 5

You might suffocate him with your cleavage, barring that, I have no idea.

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dsrice1966

Xper 5

I am sorry that it is difficult, you are very datable.

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MrMatasch

Xper 6

I would date with you... I dont care you have big boobs

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jasco | 901 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Well honestly its difficult for a girl with big boobs to get a guy who isn't only attracted to big boobs because lots of guys like big boobs and that's it

Answer 38

Anonymous

The "BIG LIE" in full effect... any dating issues you may have are due to you rejecting 95% of men just based on looks...

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1 mo
No I actually base them on how quickly they can recite the bible

Answer 39

Asker

No I actually base them on how quickly they can recite the bible

Answer 40

Jamie05rhs | 1.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Lily is hot, but I've never really paid attention to her boobs. I just can't stop looking at her adorable face.

Answer 41

Anonymous

Big boobs are literally the beauty standard these days

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1 mo
Updated to clarify
Opinion Owner

1 mo
I don’t see how they compare tbh, big boobs are desired by the majority of men and sure they attract attention but it’s because men like them... where as short guys don’t get that attention, they don’t get positive attention because they’re short or because they’re the beauty standard. Short guys are made fun of because of their height. It’s not the same..
Asker

1 mo
Are you having a laugh?
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Opinion Owner

1 mo
No I’m not
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1 mo
Firstly missed my point and secondly I've been the butt of the joke because of my boobs since i was 12
Opinion Owner

1 mo
So what is your point?
Asker

1 mo
Because it's a lot of unwanted attention and shite jokes?
Opinion Owner

1 mo
Then no, I understood your point perfectly. Yeah maybe when you’re 12 and boys are immature then it’s different, but being a grown woman with big boobs which is the beauty standard attracting attention from men isn’t the same as short men being insulted for their height, like I said what you have is considered beautiful, being short for a guy isn’t (according to society)
Opinion Owner

1 mo
I’m just saying sure it’s a struggle, but it’s not the same struggle so it cannot be compared in the same way. I’m not trying to dismiss whatever you have dealt with
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1 mo
Hence why with the Tony person I noted that its opposites of the same coin
Opinion Owner

1 mo
Okie but I didn’t see Tony’s comment lol
Skankhunt

1 mo
It's not about how big your boobs are or how beautiful you are if you rwant to have success in dating. It's about your personality , how open are you. Are you smiling a lot and do you have a positive vibe? Or are you cranky and not open to get approached by men. Appearance doesn't matter, it's personality what matters. Having big boobs is not a beauty standard. A lot of men like small boobs as well.
Opinion Owner

1 mo
it is the beauty standard.

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Asker

Updated to clarify

Answer 43

Opinion Owner

I don’t see how they compare tbh, big boobs are desired by the majority of men and sure they attract attention but it’s because men like them... where as short guys don’t get that attention, they don’t get positive attention because they’re short or because they’re the beauty standard. Short guys are made fun of because of their height. It’s not the same..

Answer 44

Asker

Are you having a laugh?

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Opinion Owner

No I’m not

Answer 46

Asker

Firstly missed my point and secondly I've been the butt of the joke because of my boobs since i was 12

Answer 47

Opinion Owner

So what is your point?

Answer 48

Asker

Because it's a lot of unwanted attention and shite jokes?

Answer 49

Opinion Owner

Then no, I understood your point perfectly. Yeah maybe when you’re 12 and boys are immature then it’s different, but being a grown woman with big boobs which is the beauty standard attracting attention from men isn’t the same as short men being insulted for their height, like I said what you have is considered beautiful, being short for a guy isn’t (according to society)

Answer 50

Opinion Owner

I’m just saying sure it’s a struggle, but it’s not the same struggle so it cannot be compared in the same way. I’m not trying to dismiss whatever you have dealt with

Answer 51

Asker

Hence why with the Tony person I noted that its opposites of the same coin

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Opinion Owner

Okie but I didn’t see Tony’s comment lol

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Skankhunt

It's not about how big your boobs are or how beautiful you are if you rwant to have success in dating. It's about your personality , how open are you. Are you smiling a lot and do you have a positive vibe? Or are you cranky and not open to get approached by men. Appearance doesn't matter, it's personality what matters. Having big boobs is not a beauty standard. A lot of men like small boobs as well.

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Opinion Owner

it is the beauty standard.

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DavidFox | 579 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Lily from AT&T looks so much better irl than they show her on those commercials.

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Anonymous

How does big boobs make it hard to find a date? Big boobs are a requirement for me to date someone.

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ohshee | 824 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

I don't know what you mean. Can you tell me

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Fukaroo | 209 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

It's not fair that you tease us like this.

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Twenty2 | 685 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

It's hard to find good guys/girls in general.

Asker

1 mo
Agreed

Answer 60

Asker

Agreed

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YHL6965 | 1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

In what way is it hard? Could you enlighten me?

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pizzalovershouse | 1.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Its just the gerks that pull that

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CreamySeed | 66 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 5

Im a fan of huge boobies

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User2300

Xper 4

Life is a struggle. Lol

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1 mo
Ouu an actual good answer

Answer 65

Asker

Ouu an actual good answer

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Dman19

Xper 4

Because that's the first thing most guys see

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BeachLuvR97

Xper 5

Pursue better guys.

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simpleguy34 | 62 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

wasn't aware it was

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Slim57 | 2.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Cause you go for the wrong guys ig

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