Whys it so hard dating and having big boobs?

- guys might think your used be coddled and treated like fragile woman likes being taken restraunts and booring shit like that rathen then something fun or interesting, rather then taking you have good time doing real stuff that helps you connect. or there nervice. or they think big tits saggy but thats very unlikely to be it.
I wouldn't date a girl if she seemed like type to enjoy restraunts and dumb materialistic things like that. i like a girl wholl do shrooms with me in nature or on boat and have good chill time most guys who care for women arnt the restraunt traditional type but those type guys tend like tits and basic shit.0|00|0Is this still revelant? - aren't you fat?0|00|0Is this still revelant?
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129- Are you using Lily as an example of the size breasts you're asking about, or as an example of someone who has had a hard time dating because of her breast size? I know that ATT has brought Lily back for a new ad campaign but I'm not aware that she refers to her dating experiences in the new ads. I really like Lily though and I hope she can find a guy who will treat her as a complete human being and not just a pair of breasts.0|00|0
Oh I understand now. Guys are being assholes in their comments to videos of the Lily ads.
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- Frankly I could fuve a damn about her chest size. It is far a selling point for women towards men I always feel. Which really comes to light when a segment of women who do this make it a point to point out how great their boobs are again and again.
Me, all I think is, "yes, you make thar scoop nexk or v-neck shirt look great." Beyond that, I am fairly indifferent to the dairy cannons.0|00|0 - You have to take active steps to bring healthy men into your life. There's a huge social component of dating that's really easy to forget. What kind of girls do you surround yourself with, and how are you meeting men? I wouldn't think that tits would make much difference in the quality of men you attract, but your company sure will.0|00|0
- Must be the quality of guys you're going after.
Going into JD Sports, you're not going to find Versace suits, as they say.0|00|0 - Because a lot of men like big boobs, thus the chances of you dealing with shitty men increases.
It's your job to weed them out.0|00|0 - It's tough mate and I've got 32A's which apparently according to certain people aren't that big!!! lol0|00|0
- I'm not sure those are quite equal.
Big boobs may bring some unwanted attention from the wrong guys.
Being under 6 foot brings just about zero attention from women.1|00|0- Show All Show Less
Yeah it came up right away, on sure that sucks, I dont really have much experience with that.
I had one girl I was talking to ask for a dick pic, it made me uncomfortable but I think it was cause she was literally the second girl to ever ask, the first turned out to be an extortionists that threatened to "put on the internet and show my fb familymembers" so i hadn't done it much and the first was a scam and i think that's why it bothered me so much.
I'm also not big so i was worried about mockery, but she was nice when i finally sent her a pic.
So I have a little idea what it's like but not much.It wasn't a stupid question.
"The grass is always greener on the other side"
I wouldn't mind any attention even it's bad for a little bit
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You would like to be treated like a person and not like a peace of meat for once.
I kind of got the feeling this was more of a vent post anyways.
It can't hurt to get more guys aware of how those requests make you and many other woman feel, it won't stop the jerks but it will stop the guys who really think they are nice.
Now I know that's a terrible way to flirt or show interest.
- Big boobies= many dates.
You should be proud of your big boobs.0|00|0 - Try wearing a tight sports bra and a plain shirt. See who still bites. I assure you that most people are shit regardless of the size of your breasts.0|00|0
- You might suffocate him with your cleavage, barring that, I have no idea.0|00|0
- Well honestly its difficult for a girl with big boobs to get a guy who isn't only attracted to big boobs because lots of guys like big boobs and that's it1|00|0
- Lily is hot, but I've never really paid attention to her boobs. I just can't stop looking at her adorable face.1|00|0
- Anonymous1 moBig boobs are literally the beauty standard these days1|20|1
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I don’t see how they compare tbh, big boobs are desired by the majority of men and sure they attract attention but it’s because men like them... where as short guys don’t get that attention, they don’t get positive attention because they’re short or because they’re the beauty standard. Short guys are made fun of because of their height. It’s not the same..
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- Opinion Owner1 mo
Then no, I understood your point perfectly. Yeah maybe when you’re 12 and boys are immature then it’s different, but being a grown woman with big boobs which is the beauty standard attracting attention from men isn’t the same as short men being insulted for their height, like I said what you have is considered beautiful, being short for a guy isn’t (according to society)
It's not about how big your boobs are or how beautiful you are if you rwant to have success in dating. It's about your personality , how open are you. Are you smiling a lot and do you have a positive vibe? Or are you cranky and not open to get approached by men. Appearance doesn't matter, it's personality what matters. Having big boobs is not a beauty standard. A lot of men like small boobs as well.
- Lily from AT&T looks so much better irl than they show her on those commercials.0|10|0
- Anonymous1 moHow does big boobs make it hard to find a date? Big boobs are a requirement for me to date someone.0|00|0
- I don't know what you mean. Can you tell me0|00|0
- It's not fair that you tease us like this.0|00|0
- It's hard to find good guys/girls in general.0|00|0
- In what way is it hard? Could you enlighten me?0|00|0
- Its just the gerks that pull that0|00|0
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