I've been dating this girl for a few months (yes we were having sex) but after the first couple months she just seemed to settle down and be bored with me. I plan all the dates, pretty much do everything and she puts in no effort. So I just quit trying with her, started going for other girls & when she asked why I told her it was obvious she wasn't interested in me so I'm not wasting any more time.
I haven't really dated for about four years now (just went to bars, partied and got laid) and I feel a little out of touch. Is this just how women are when they get near 30 or was it that she's just bored with me but didn't want me to leave?
Yeah I thought of that so for the past 3-4 weeks before I quit with her I tried to get in situations where she'd be the boss or whatever and it didn't work. She just didn't have any initiative to be with me.