as friends, he has a girlfriend across the country, he's my friend's cousin and I met him through her. I don't want to scare him away by saying "we should hang out again soon" on fb message.. I got vibes that he likes me but I don't want to push it... should I say we should hangout or see if we just happen to hangout Saturday w my friend?
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Why not keep it simple? Just find an idea of what seems fun for you - that hopefully he'll like too - and invite him? Sounds about as complicated as it has to get.. ;)
Example 1: "Hey josh, it was a blast hanging out last week :) We're headed out again Saturday to do some disc golf - wanna come along?"
Example 2: "Hey josh, we're gonna do another poker night this Saturday - buy in is 5 dollars - I need to know asap if your gonna come so that I can figure out how many people are gonna be eating"
Example 3: "That was a blast last week, wanna hang out again on Saturday?"
In my opinion, 1 and 2 are your best options.. 3 is a bit sketchy cause I don't like inviting people w/o a valid reason - cause in rare cases, I have had people think I'm "romantically interested" when I'm truly not..