How do you know when something is meant to be ( dating wise )?

[Aguysopinion4799]

ooooh... That's tough...
I haven't had a relationship.

But I can say what feelings I felt that made me feel like it was meant to be

When you are thinking about them a lot, not in a creep way but like,

when you see something in a shop and you think it looks nice you wonder if they would like it

When you are alone and you can't help but feel loving feelings and a gentle smile as you think about memories you have of when you were around them, making a image of their different facial features and eventually smiling to yourself as you remember how they behaved on that day.

Caring about the person even when you don't see them, checking up with them to make sure that they are safe and well because you want to protect them.


But obviously as years go by in some relationships, people may develop different thoughts through the years, who knows, I think it is a matter of experience in a actual relationship but those are the things that make a good impression.

I don't want to say definitely meant to be because nothing can ever be set in stone, things can change over time.

[Angelo75]

Well the difinition of "meant to be" is somewhat twisted by media.
There is no "meant to be".

It's more like "both partners seriously commited to work on the relationship".

If you work hard for him and he works hard for you, you'll both be happy.
If either one of you is more lazy or ready to leave the relationship, the other one who is still working hard will be cheated out of a healthy relationship.

Just find that person that is commited to work HARD on a relationship and u're set.
The easiest rule is: "When in a relationship, make sure you try your best to do your utmost best to make him happy. He has to do his utmost best to make you happy."

The moment you stop and start looking at how much happyness "you" are getting out of the relationship, that's when you start killing the relationship.

[Anonymous]

One way I was able to tell it was meant to be between me and my man we had our ups and downs but we never gave up we love spending time together and having fun we can talk to each other about our deepest darkest secrets and we know those secrets will always stay between us we have complete trust in one another

[JoyGirl]

~He treats you right.
~Know his BOUNDARIES.
~Is always there for you (both during the good and bad).
~He listens.
~He isn’t a cheater.

[John_Galt]

There is no such thing as “meant to be”. There is no “the one”.
relationships are about finding someone that is a good, honest and moral person, who also has a personality that you really enjoy being around. And then working your butt off to make it work!

[SunnySri]

It's just a feeling I guess. You feel like the other person completes you, that whatever you do it would be great the that person was with you. When you are sad and feel like I wish I could have shared it with that person.
Basically you just feel like you are missing something in your life without that person.

[DavidFox]

Most of the time you will not know in the moment. It’s never like a fairy tale and in fact if it seems too good to be true it probably is. But when you get into a relationship and then reflect back after a year or more then you can better see how it was meant to be and how your imperfect puzzle pieces lined up with his.

[triff]

There is no direct answer to tell you this is right Its a matter of individual choice You find someone who your have a strong romantic attraction too We all fear relationships from a hurt point of view Society puts such a strain on us all Your just know when that person walks into your life lighting up all your emotions and feelings of love

[slatyb]

Nothing is “meant to be”. That implies intent by some intelligence, but it’s just us.

Stay with people that make you happy. Avoid people that make you sad. That’s all. No matter what they say, no matter how much you hate to be alone, if someone makes you sad or stressed you have to leave them.

[nodnol32]

You can feel it from their vibes. You both go out of your way to make sure their well being is ok. You feel that connection.

[Iron_Man]

When you survive the trials and tribulations of the early stage of the relationship and then you got yourself something

[Dinosaursandanime65]

When you taka a hep life together. No perfect though. Also if you hear two significant sounds. One of Mother Nature’s Voice: Warriors Promise and Rise of the Savior

[LEADFOOTboi]

ya know, @aniya06... Q - Q i dont have enough experience to know...

[CaptainOverthink]

When both you and the SO is putting in the same amount of effort and sacrifice to make it happen.

[WesBrewer]

When you have that feeling in your chest, a good one that is.

[MannMitAntworten]

No such thing. You just choose to stay or choose to leave.

[Hunter7754]

Tbh, I dont really believe in the whole 'soulmate' thing. I think multiple people can be compatible with each other.

[Gedaria]

When you meet someone.
And it's like you are on the same page.

[iFarted]

I say if it's easy, love shouldn't be difficult.
The individuals should feel like they can be themselves and not have to worry so much.

[In_Trance]

You'll feel calm. It'll be unfamiliar at first but feel right. No anxiety. The right relationship doesn't overwhelm you with anxiety.

[Massageman]

Because things by God-incidence and not co-incidence.

[InferiorElegy]

This I would never know the answer to, I've never been any girls choice, so I've never been close to a moment of meant to be.

[SuicidalGuy1]

When your both happy?
You never get bored?
Your both reliable?
Time will tell...

[lanadelrey25]

Well I'm sure it's different for each person.