How do I stop feeling insecure in my relationship?

[knottywriter]

Here's the thing... you can trust but still be suspicious. I know that seems like a weird combination but unless you have hard evidence that he is, don't accuse. Trust that he is doing right by you unless you have otherwise. Suspicious behavior though can occur whether it's cheating or something else. You have the right to know what's going on if he is the one acting suspicious. You can choose to believe that or not because he could just be lying. It's hard to not let past relationships affect our current ones, especially with someone who mistreated us. That is where the insecurity comes from. Remember the insecurity is your past relationship and does not mean the current boyfriend is doing the same. Just make sure that your boyfriend now understands that you are just super sensitive to little things because of what happened to you in the past. A good boyfriend will be understanding and try to work through that with you. But it is hard to get rid of insecurities without someone understanding and supportive. That is the kind of guy you need (and deserve) to get over insecurities.

[Maspolomas]

Stop or you will drive him away

[devil_8888]

What are you insecure about? Details please