I’m so sorry. That’s awful!Also I don’t think you’re 26 but it doesn’t matter anyway.
i am 26... just no luck with dating and this happened 5 years ago
I’m really sorry. You deserve way better.
Wow. Sorry that happened to you. As a man, if I saw that or heard what he said, I would have beat his ass for treating you that way.
really? i just thought it was normal tbh... thats what he always told me this is how it is. and never had anything to compare it too
Not normal at all!!! He’s an asshole.
That’s really bad
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A lot of guys complain about this
Yea it was very weird lol
Forgot to ask, did you answer the 20 questions 🤔🤣🤣
Aww darn lol was curious what they were 🤣🤣🤣
I forget lol. He ran after me shouting “Wait! I’m not done with my questions.”
You were free drinks thats it.
Funny that lady became a police officer a few years after that. I got a fake burglar alarm to my place of business on a weekend day and I got called to meet up with the police there. She was the officer there to check it out. I just showed her around and looked around to make sure it was a false alarm. It wasn't awkward at all but just coincidence it was her... LOL
Another weird date was with a lady who wanted everything to be "proved" to her. One way was that she acted like the job that I had in the medical field wasn't necessary for society so I had to "convince" her that it was. And since she didn't know much about the University that I went to, I also had to "convince" her that it was a decent school... No interest in that lady after that. I ran into her at a party about a month after that and she was bitchy even though I was making an attempt to be friendly.
Yes!!!And omg that’s crazy 😂😂😂
That makes senseIf you just wanna fuck I would hope the answer is zero 😊
Don’t remember lol. Didn’t stick around long.
they were 2 separate people. the one who changed her number was from your neck of the woods I think, and the one who was demanding me treat her like royalty was someone I worked with. She claimed we were in a relationship when I went out with her 2x in 5 years. I was in no way going to commit to that
Yeah both sound pretty awful
thats my luck...
Then what a good way to talk to a girl? I thought that people usually try to get to know each other on date. Is it wrong? 20 questions is too many but still why do you consider asking questions to be annoying?
*what is a good way
@SilverRain92 The best way to get to know someone is through their actions. Not saying someone would lie but getting to know someone by how they act and being around them is the best. So same as like going out with a friend. Nobody wants an interview. Actually be with her and get to know her. And tbh that’s why movies and places to eat are horrible but yet common and unsuccessful first date ideas. That part is my opinion though, but it makes sense
"Actually be with her and get to know her. "How can you get to know someone without asking them any questions?
@rocksongwriter Watching how they act in every situation you’re around. Actions always speak louder than words. Plus, like I said, anyone can lie if they want to. Being around someone is always the best way to get to know someone. That’s why so many relationships online fail when they meet in person. Asking questions constantly will bore someone. If you can’t communicate with someone and get to know them by being with them without a lot of questions then that’s a charisma issue and you should be more charismatic. It’s with anyone else too: friends, etc. Best way to get to know anyone is by being around them.
How is it possible to be with her without talking? And I don't really think that you would see enough for making an opinion of this person based just on his/her behaviour without asking questions.If a girl wouldn't want to answer questions which I ask what the reason for me to date her? I would better date more talkative girl with whom I would feel comfortable to talk and who would not hesitate to answer my questions
@SilverRain92 Talking is great. It’s called CHARISMA. Have a conversation without interviewing somebody. If you just interview her I doubt a charismatic girl who can have a conversation would stay with you at all
SilverRain92, what Yads_Is_Back is saying and what she means are two different things. She says don't ask questions, but what she means is you can ask questions, just don't shoot a list of questions at a girl rapid fire, like a prosecutor attacking a witness on the stand. Ask questions, but have statements in there too... which is good because having a conversation without asking any questions is literally impossible.
@rocksongwriter Not all true but it’ll work so sure. I never said you can’t ask any questions at all. But yeah, I don’t know what’s so complicated to him about what I said.
Girl can also ask questions. But if she doesn't ask any questions and doesn't want to talk much, a guy is trying to hold conversation but she doesn't seem to be interested and doesn't ask questions about a guy then dating such a girl is useless, a guy should move to dating another girl with better EQ and communication skills
Date is not about impressing a girl, it's about realising for both involved people whether they are compatible or not. If they are not compatible they should find more compatible partners
You may not have explicitly said to not ask ANY questions, however your phrases "Any time where he asks a bunch of questions" and "I’m not there to apply for a job" implied that you were opposed to questions while on as date.Plus, you advocated that guys should get to know girls "through their actions" (as opposed to through conversation).
@rocksongwriter Actions and conversation are both essential and I made that known.“ phrases "Any time where he asks a bunch of questions" and "I’m not there to apply for a job" implied that you were opposed to questions while on as date.” Nope. A “bunch” of questions is not the same thing as the whole conversation being questions. So what you got from it was not implied nor meant but only is a fault on your part of comprehension.For the other guy, yeah compatibility is a must. People who are more charismatic and hold conversation are more compatible with other other social charismatic people. People who love asking questions are more compatible with the same. That’s a given. BUT is asking questions the best way to hold a conversation? No. And if she doesn’t help you hold down a conversation then she’s not into you. Period. So you’re right on that. And if that turns out to be the case, well, that’s your problem.www.lovepanky.com/.../5-ways-to-handle-too-many-questions-on-a-daterelationshiphero.com/.../asking-too-many-questions-hurting-conversationThese are just the first two I bothered with by Google searching this topic, but maybe you should try it. Or just try to date social women and watch how bored they get when you can't hold a conversation instead of an interview.Sorry, guys. Ask someone else or Google it or learn from experience. It’s all the same answer, same thing. Teaching kindergarten wasn’t my college major.
Is it wrong if I tolerate about 3 questions? Then I start giving obviously exaggerated answers. Especially if they involve politics, money, or sex. When they get the hint I guide the conversation to a more neutral topic. Ex: This Mexican dish is fantastic. I'd love to go someplace in Mexico, like Cancun.
@Kiss_Me You have good charisma and social skills then, unlike this individual who only wants an interview. Good charisma is a must for many people who want partners. Get em :)
Mines told me if I broke his heart he will break my bones and that was only one week of texting. I immediately blocked him from texting and calling and he began to make fake Facebook accounts cyberstalking me😣
I got the police involved though and he's crawled back into the hole he came from
That’s pretty bad
Yeah, it could me off guard because she wasn't religious. I think what it was was that she wasn't a virgin so she figured a guy from the same background as hers (her parents were from Egypt) wouldn't accept that and she also couldn't date or much less marry a non-Muslim, so she figured if she converted a Westerner, he wouldn't be bothered that he wasn't marrying a virgin.
Hmm. Makes sense. How did she lose her V card?
happens me the same... ans my answer was no way!!! to many rules i do not agree with...
I have no idea how she lost her virginity.
That is annoying
Yeah, in his defense though, he was hairy and he was swimming in the sea water. It was a beach date but I was fully clothed. I don't get smelly when I swim because my deodorant works, not sure what happened to his.
Hope you dumped him
I did turns out he had a gambling problem
Good u did the right thing
But he won’t leave me alone now he messages me all the time. It’s hard moving on. Yet my brain tells me all his toxic traits love is funny
U need to be strong and ignore him
Yeah I guess I've been pretty fortunate. I've never had a girl want to leave early on me either. That's actually pretty cool.
I love auto correct! *Dating not saying
But that tablet sounds terrible 😂 and a hard pass
Yeah 😂And you were right not to kiss her if you didn’t feel comfortable
It just felt a little fast but to be fair it was my first time on a romantic date too :)
I did!!!And exactly
ah but see dating is still a job interview really. there should be nany questions but those questions should be about things that show chemistry, compatability, and personality. the real issue is asking them all on a date (1st most likely). most of them should be done prior to going on any date and even then not all at one time, more like over many texting sessions/phone calls to also help determine if a date should even happen.
and she should be asking questions akong these lines too if course.
And his tongue on your clit...Maybe even at the concert? 😊 Saves time 😂.
That freaking sucks. What is tinder anyways?
Some dating app that I don’t recommend if you want a serious relationship bumble is wayy better and how I found my true love even though it wasn’t easy to find him and I was ignored a lot
@jgokgotit @pink_and_inlove is totally right
And yes ik I'm weird
U can have him lol
Lmao naw I got Mitchell's dumb butt and he won't share
He’s worth it girl 😊
That’s literally one of the the worst I’ve heard on here. Almost as bad as “You’re a girl, you suck even worst than most girls at math and gaming and stuff.” Next week: “Hey u wanna hang out Fri night behind the library maybe watch the bunnies?” (code at my school for messing around)
OH MY GOD YESWtf is wrong with these guys... Do they not hear themselves?Sorry if that happened to u dude. At least we dodged bullets
Exactly! And yeah, we did.
I’ve had that too.
Yeah, it is not a very pleasant experience!
Not sure. Left after the first two or three 😂.
That really sucks
Yeah that really sucks 😢
Yeah I know everybody is not for a long term but I am and I don’t want to take it too seriously but I’m not just here for the sex that’s all
Yeah, that defo sucks
Yeah. I been rejected so... Many times! It's annoying.
Always for your bro?
No been rejected over a lot of things besides my crush fallen for my taken brother. That happened twice.
Very Beta males... I can understand your frustration. I had to learn to be myself and secretly ask the question, "Do I even like you enough for a second date?" Hopefully, she is doing the same thing. If we both come to a positive conclusion... High fives all around.
I'm sure they were really 102. They just lied about their age so they could hit on all the younger women. :)
Even if they were wet for *you*?
@Ozanne good point!
@Ozanne yup. a slut is a slut. she would get wet for me only if i strip to a speedo. so yes she is a slut
Care to explain how you would be discovering these wet panties you speak of? I mean honestly, the only thing I can think is that it would be from your own hand or fingers being near them. And //newsflash//!: a woman being wet is the equivalent of you guys getting hard. It's a simply reaction the body has to stimuli that is sexually arousing. So however often you get hard, are we supposed to call you guys sluts for just getting erections?
@Ozanne exactly! 😂
@Ozanne would you be comfortable if a guy saw you and got hard in a public place? and a guy who gets hard in public place is a pervert same way if a girl gets wet in public place its a slutty girl
A girl "getting wet" in public is unseen. A guy's hard-on is visible, if he chooses to wear some clothing that doesn't cover the crotch. The only way you can know a girl is wet is if she tells you: "Ohh charanraj2030 I'm so wet right now"... or else you take a feel for yourself.Still, the fact you take both actions of responding to sexual stimuli and choose to call the girl a slut and the guy a pervert tells me that you put more shame onto the woman as if you presume she's promiscuous and sleeping around, whereas the guy is just behaving unacceptably.Did you know that girls who are virgins, who have never even been kissed yet - get wet too? Are they sluts? And they are capable of getting wet wherever the situation happens to make them wet, and don't have to let on that they are at all. For example, in a movie theatre, and being stimulated by a love scene. A girl can sit there and not make a face or make a move, and just carry on watching as if it's nothing, meanwhile, you have no idea what is happening in her panties. So yes, a 13 year old virginal girl would may have watched Pirates of the Caribbean (rated PG13) with her friends in the movie theatre could have done this at first sight of Orlando Bloom kissing Keira Knightley. Still a slut?
@Ozanne movie theater is different. how can you compare. movies are to make you feel different emotions. but imagine a girl wears a bikini and she gets aroused by the fact that she is almost naked in public now thats a deliberate exhibitionistic behaviour or a guy wearing a speedo and roaming around with a hard on. these are deliberate attempts to be horny in public places
Oh dear lord, please don't tell me you're dodging my question - my viable, real scenario that happens to just about every girl - compared to fantasy fucklands that you guys think happens more regularly than a girl getting wet in a movie theatre, stimulated by what she sees.Before I go, here's a lesson for you about our bodies:You're going to love this one.Did you know that women can get wet WITHOUT sexual stimulation seen/felt? Women throughout the day, for no other reason than they have vaginas -- will have discharge on their panties or liners because it *just comes out*. It really can't get any more boring than that, but you guys think that when we get wet, it's some kind of devilish thing we're bringing on, being the sexual-deviant creatures that we are. So here is the ultimate boring scenario for you to chew on: if I'm at home cooking dinner, and haven't gone to the toilet for several hours, but then go and find discharge for no reason, was I a kitchen slut?And I'll tell you more: those examples of natural discharge happen way more frequently than your fantasy fuckland scenario of a girl prancing on a beach being proud of herself and making herself wet. So since we're wet all the time, some times for being stimulated, sometimes not, virgins and non-virgins, pregnant/not pregnant, old and young -- I guess we're all just walking around being sluts in your opinion. Here is an article to familiarize yourself with vaginal wetness that I implore that you read and learn about women before you absolutely embarrass yourself. In fact, I hope you get to know more about it so that a woman can be impressed with what you know -- rather than be feeling shamed based on what you assume.www.aoafamily.com/.../
@Ozanne listen its not my fantasy. i have had girls who got aroused when they wore bikini always. i know the human anatomy. i am not speaking about discharge. i am speaking about girls who have accepted that they got turned on were wet specially when they got attention when they wore revealing clothes and their assets were on display for all to see.
You've acknowledged nothing I've said, including the facts I've provided. So please - either acknowledge what I've told you, and if you absolutely cannot do that then take back your assumptions and apologize.