I’m so sorry. That’s awful!Also I don’t think you’re 26 but it doesn’t matter anyway.
i am 26... just no luck with dating and this happened 5 years ago
I’m really sorry. You deserve way better.
Wow. Sorry that happened to you. As a man, if I saw that or heard what he said, I would have beat his ass for treating you that way.
really? i just thought it was normal tbh... thats what he always told me this is how it is. and never had anything to compare it too
Not normal at all!!! He’s an asshole.
What a colossal douche bag, you really dodged a bullet though. You'll find someone that makes you feel wanted and puts you first, hang in there.
That’s really bad
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Forgot to ask, did you answer the 20 questions 🤔🤣🤣
Aww darn lol was curious what they were 🤣🤣🤣
I forget lol. He ran after me shouting “Wait! I’m not done with my questions.”
A lot of guys complain about this
Yea it was very weird lol
You were free drinks thats it.
Funny that lady became a police officer a few years after that. I got a fake burglar alarm to my place of business on a weekend day and I got called to meet up with the police there. She was the officer there to check it out. I just showed her around and looked around to make sure it was a false alarm. It wasn't awkward at all but just coincidence it was her... LOL
Another weird date was with a lady who wanted everything to be "proved" to her. One way was that she acted like the job that I had in the medical field wasn't necessary for society so I had to "convince" her that it was. And since she didn't know much about the University that I went to, I also had to "convince" her that it was a decent school... No interest in that lady after that. I ran into her at a party about a month after that and she was bitchy even though I was making an attempt to be friendly.
Yes!!!And omg that’s crazy 😂😂😂
That makes senseIf you just wanna fuck I would hope the answer is zero 😊
Don’t remember lol. Didn’t stick around long.
they were 2 separate people. the one who changed her number was from your neck of the woods I think, and the one who was demanding me treat her like royalty was someone I worked with. She claimed we were in a relationship when I went out with her 2x in 5 years. I was in no way going to commit to that
Yeah both sound pretty awful
thats my luck...
Then what a good way to talk to a girl? I thought that people usually try to get to know each other on date. Is it wrong? 20 questions is too many but still why do you consider asking questions to be annoying?
*what is a good way
@SilverRain92 The best way to get to know someone is through their actions. Not saying someone would lie but getting to know someone by how they act and being around them is the best. So same as like going out with a friend. Nobody wants an interview. Actually be with her and get to know her. And tbh that’s why movies and places to eat are horrible but yet common and unsuccessful first date ideas. That part is my opinion though, but it makes sense
"Actually be with her and get to know her. "How can you get to know someone without asking them any questions?
@rocksongwriter Watching how they act in every situation you’re around. Actions always speak louder than words. Plus, like I said, anyone can lie if they want to. Being around someone is always the best way to get to know someone. That’s why so many relationships online fail when they meet in person. Asking questions constantly will bore someone. If you can’t communicate with someone and get to know them by being with them without a lot of questions then that’s a charisma issue and you should be more charismatic. It’s with anyone else too: friends, etc. Best way to get to know anyone is by being around them.
How is it possible to be with her without talking? And I don't really think that you would see enough for making an opinion of this person based just on his/her behaviour without asking questions.If a girl wouldn't want to answer questions which I ask what the reason for me to date her? I would better date more talkative girl with whom I would feel comfortable to talk and who would not hesitate to answer my questions
@SilverRain92 Talking is great. It’s called CHARISMA. Have a conversation without interviewing somebody. If you just interview her I doubt a charismatic girl who can have a conversation would stay with you at all
SilverRain92, what Yads_Is_Back is saying and what she means are two different things. She says don't ask questions, but what she means is you can ask questions, just don't shoot a list of questions at a girl rapid fire, like a prosecutor attacking a witness on the stand. Ask questions, but have statements in there too... which is good because having a conversation without asking any questions is literally impossible.
@rocksongwriter Not all true but it’ll work so sure. I never said you can’t ask any questions at all. But yeah, I don’t know what’s so complicated to him about what I said.
Girl can also ask questions. But if she doesn't ask any questions and doesn't want to talk much, a guy is trying to hold conversation but she doesn't seem to be interested and doesn't ask questions about a guy then dating such a girl is useless, a guy should move to dating another girl with better EQ and communication skills
Date is not about impressing a girl, it's about realising for both involved people whether they are compatible or not. If they are not compatible they should find more compatible partners
You may not have explicitly said to not ask ANY questions, however your phrases "Any time where he asks a bunch of questions" and "I’m not there to apply for a job" implied that you were opposed to questions while on as date.Plus, you advocated that guys should get to know girls "through their actions" (as opposed to through conversation).
@rocksongwriter Actions and conversation are both essential and I made that known.“ phrases "Any time where he asks a bunch of questions" and "I’m not there to apply for a job" implied that you were opposed to questions while on as date.” Nope. A “bunch” of questions is not the same thing as the whole conversation being questions. So what you got from it was not implied nor meant but only is a fault on your part of comprehension.For the other guy, yeah compatibility is a must. People who are more charismatic and hold conversation are more compatible with other other social charismatic people. People who love asking questions are more compatible with the same. That’s a given. BUT is asking questions the best way to hold a conversation? No. And if she doesn’t help you hold down a conversation then she’s not into you. Period. So you’re right on that. And if that turns out to be the case, well, that’s your problem.www.lovepanky.com/.../5-ways-to-handle-too-many-questions-on-a-daterelationshiphero.com/.../asking-too-many-questions-hurting-conversationThese are just the first two I bothered with by Google searching this topic, but maybe you should try it. Or just try to date social women and watch how bored they get when you can't hold a conversation instead of an interview.Sorry, guys. Ask someone else or Google it or learn from experience. It’s all the same answer, same thing. Teaching kindergarten wasn’t my college major.
Is it wrong if I tolerate about 3 questions? Then I start giving obviously exaggerated answers. Especially if they involve politics, money, or sex. When they get the hint I guide the conversation to a more neutral topic. Ex: This Mexican dish is fantastic. I'd love to go someplace in Mexico, like Cancun.
@Kiss_Me You have good charisma and social skills then, unlike this individual who only wants an interview. Good charisma is a must for many people who want partners. Get em :)
That is annoying
Mines told me if I broke his heart he will break my bones and that was only one week of texting. I immediately blocked him from texting and calling and he began to make fake Facebook accounts cyberstalking me😣
I got the police involved though and he's crawled back into the hole he came from