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- Okay the big one—
Smoking ANYTHING AT ALL. (Or doing any type of nonsmokable drug as well.)
The Others—
Gaming for the majority of the day.
Constantly posting selfies for insta/FB.
Drinking alcohol more than like twice a month. (I’d prefer they didn't drink at all.)
Constantly Breaking promises.
Constantly losing focus.
Constantly clearing their throat.
Constantly interrupting me when talking.
Constantly criticizing themselves.
Constantly burping while in eating.
Constantly procrastinating/skipping work.
Constantly losing temper.
Not shaving facial hair.
Going clubbing.2|51|0Is this still revelant?- Show All Show Less
@navyrobin because the gamers i used to date didn't know when to put down the joystick/controller. If the guy only plays for like 2 hours every other day then fine. But these guys played at a minimum of 6 hours a straight daily. Its sad honestly
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Not shaving facial hair? Seriously? Not attracted to a 3 days beard?@Tonytoutouni123 ewww im cringing just thinking about it. Stubble is pokey when kissing. Just shave it. Hell or even i’ll cut his face up attempting to
Lmao guys get mad when u ask them to shave but they’re the ones who demand all girls shave
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- Bad mouthing others all the time!
Because you know if he's talking about others behind their back, the moment you upset or do something to him, he's going to do the same to you :|1|40|0Is this still revelant?
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- there is more than one.
being some sort of covert racist/bigot/sexist/etc
social medis addiction (can't put phone/device down/away)
being a mindless bimbo (even as an act)
very poor hygiene (think along the lines if cockroaches run away because its too filthy for them)
inability to do anything to take care of themselves (work, drive, learn, etc)
self centered
on 1st date, anything along the lines of wedding planning/child planning
being a snob2|00|0Is this still revelant?- Show All Show Less
- No offense to smokers cause I'm a social smoker but this one woman my cousin knows bakes Christmas cookies and last year she sent some up to us and she's
a smoker and you could taste cigarette smoke within the cookies so I won't be eating her cookies this year no offense but I think one needs to limit their smoking when it comes to cooking like when I prepare a meal I do not smoke in the kitchen cause of that reason that the food can be affected by it1|00|0Is this still revelant?@Imcmullan why people shouldn't assume, my husband wasn't a smoker, hated smoking, but him and his friends always commented on how clean our house was. And he always said I was the only smoker he ever kissed who didn't taste like an ashtray... You can disapprove of someone's habits, but unless you've been in my home, you shouldn't make assumptions, or call people lazy... But okay then...
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@Brainsbeforebeauty I removed her personal attacks against you
You know I am kind-hearted I know you are a good womanThanks, but you didn't have to... People just make themselves look bad trying to put down others 🤷🏼♀️🤣
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3550- Not cleaning yourself prior of having sex... body orders, arm pits, dicks, pussy, ass are always sweating and if you didn't have a shower for two days, hey dudes... no please. It's a deal breaker for me.4|20|0
"Body orders" sounds kinky though. That or it's pimp terminology I'm not familiar with.
- If I feel disrespected by someone I'm friends with I am very quick to let them know and usually i become far more disrespectful about it then they were, and i might even quickly cut ties with them.
Sometimes it maybe a little too quickly because i didn't give them a chance 2 explain their side of the story.1|00|0Yeah I'm same with the disrespect... Put up with too much in my life... Can't do it anymore
My parents taught me from a young age not to tolerate it, but i think sometimes i might take it to the extreme.🤦🏾♀️
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- The habit of calling women degrading names like bitches, whores, hoes, sluts, etc. I will end all communication with you for such disrespect and lack of compassion. Other than that, I can pretty much deal with anything.2|10|0
- Here is my list:
Constantly posting selfies on the internet
Picking their nose (especially in public or after they did it they didn't their hands)
Critisizing people constantly
Other than these habits they really aren't many things that someone can do to be considered immediately as a "deal breaker" for me2|10|0 - If someone did drugs even occasionally I wouldn't date them since I do not want to get indirectly in trouble for something they are responsible for and I'm not the type of person to support someone with a drug addiction on a relationship1|00|0
- Anyone who has read my questions on GaG knows what the deal breaker is for me:
Being attracted to bad boys 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
When a woman tells me she's attracted to bad boys I escape from her as fast and as far as I can.
🚵🏊♂️🏃 🧍♀️1|00|0 - If I had to pick only one, I'd say discriminating/discrimination.. that works, right? like being racist or homophobic etc. It's almost 2021 that shit needs to gooo ✋🏽💀1|00|0
- Putting you down with words, and make you feel less valuable only because of their own insecurities. OR always talk about their exes...3|30|0
- Victim mentality, it’s impossible to get anywhere with people with that mentality because they refuse to actually work on and fix issues.2|00|0
Yes. I personally love it when people tell me what’s wrong, and what I can fix. Because I love being able to change and make someone happier. But if they’re not willing to do that for me too, then I can’t do it.
- being stingy- I absolutely loathe men who don't like to take care of their women and don't pamper them. I hate simple and practical men more than anything else. I expect the guy to buy me lavish gifts and take care of me well0|00|0
- I don’t like guys who wank into the kitchen sink and then don’t clean it up.1|20|0
Seriously you know guys who wank in the kitchen sink? And that don't clean up even?
🤣🤣🤣 my English is not good, so I made sure to let it translate cause I couldn’t believe it in the first place 🤣🤣🤣
- Lying. That's the worst habit anyone can have for a relationship, in my opinion3|00|0
My bad, I forgot abuse. Abuse is definitely way above lying and everything else, but lying is the first out of the ones who don't necessarily involve criminal activity
- Well bad smell makes me do a U turn, so it'd be people who don't know what hygiene means or someone who reeks of just alcohol or cigarettes1|20|0
I had the displeasure of meeting a fusion of the two and it was like the cartoons, you could smell where he had been, like it lingered, just disgusting
I met two like that... One, it was his feet 🤢 and the other, his armpits and breath always stank 🤮🤮
- Bad hygiene, pathological lying, habit of cheating/infidelity, and laziness are all bad habits that I consider deal breakers1|00|0
- Being unreliable! I just can't stand it when someone can't reply or simply make plans/changes them last minute...1|00|0
I am already pretty mad if friends do this frequently. Imagining my boyfriend, never ever
- At my age if I was dating again. Some with small children. My time now is being Grandpa and not a daddy. Did that, done that. Time to move on to the next stage in life1|00|0
- ~ trump supporter~ just go away
cigarette smoker too4|10|0- Show All Show Less
- Lying, being mean, being disrespectful, alowing your kids to be disrespectful. Cheating, not caring about yourself, not loving yourself, I guess just being hateful and demanding. Lol. I guess that's a lot1|10|0
I know. There are just so many.. lol. Im really not all that jaded. Not in real life lol..
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- Playing with the phone while talking to me or using the phone consistently during a date1|10|0
- Smoking cigarettes. Tried to look past it, it grossed me out that his teeth were so yellow & he didn’t smell good to me. I really tried to move past it but it caused fights for us & I wasn’t feeling attracted to him anymore lol1|10|0
- An expectation to be 'delegated' housework and recieve praise for doing the most rudimentary of tasks like picking up things off the floor, going to the grocery store, or putting the dishes away.
Im looking to be a partner, not a parent.1|00|0 - Serious drug or alcohol addictions, and general jerkiness.1|00|0
- I'm gonna say two even though you said specifically "ONE".
Judgmental
Materialistic1|00|0I think a lot of people are materialistic these days and try to live shove their means
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- IF they didn't share there drugs it would be an instant deal breaker'
1|00|2 - Lying and not being a straightforward person.
Smoking, Alcohol, addicted to porn or stares every girl in a creepy way who looks nice then fantasizes about her.1|00|0 - Smoking, drug use, and being a drunk.. It all falls under substance abuse.. Hard pass1|10|0
- Nothing really. I am pretty tolerate of habits even the ones I hate. Because I know those can eventually break.1|00|0
Now this isn't a habit but if she is a single mom that is a deal breaker for me can never get past that.
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😂😂😂 you just saying that cuz my kids grown although the older one acting like a two year old right now 🙄🙄
- Any form of dishonesty, being unfaithful and smoking3|20|0
- Smoking. Once cigarette, and I'm out of her life, forever.1|00|0
- Hard drugs... smoking... bein a HOE... u name it, i got a deal breaker... xD1|00|0
- Violence. I don't mind arguing/debating but once it turns in to violence, that's it for me1|10|0
- I’ll try to help them over come their bad habit, But if their not even trying and if it’s effecting the relationship then I’m out.1|10|1
- drugs is one of the biggest dealbreakers for me. I would never date someone who has the habit of doing drugs1|20|0
- Lying is number one deal breaker.
#2 I suppose leaving trash everywhere or not cleaning his own self and his messes1|00|0 - Sexting other woman. Every guy I've dated has had a bad habit of sexting other women an getting nudes.1|00|0
Yeah that would be an issue with me too, people think cuz it's over the computer it's not cheating and I disagree. Shouldn't be talking sexually to our seeing anyone else naked if you in committed relationship
He thinks it's okay? Whatever happened to sex being an intimate private thing between two people smh
- If she will have these habits, may she RIP 😂https://www.youtube.com/embed/zH_ZryBfCtU1|10|0
- pot smoker, they're just so dumb and they say they're not addicted but they totally are1|10|0
Anonymous1 moCheaters and people who constantly lie and remain unfaithful in a relationship because you could simply communicate it1|00|0- Pathological lying. Everything flows from that.3|10|0
- Smoking or being mean to people.1|10|0
- Willful cruelty or thoughtlessness1|10|0
- Smoking I hate that shit4|20|0
It’s terrible how so many people still think it’s fine to smoke... I thought they were smarter than that
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- Chewing on toenails always puts me off.1|00|0
- not taking care of their hygiene enough..1|00|0
- Being loud and obnoxious1|00|0
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Can't have any kinda trust with people that lie, and without honesty and trust, there's nothing
- Consistent lack of respect2|10|0
Exactly!! The more you let someone disrespect you, the more respect you'll lose for yourself, or I'm that way anyways
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- Smoking, and drug taking
Both as bad...3|00|0 - Alcohol. I’ve seen people be consumed by alcohol.1|20|0
Unless someone is abusing it, there's nothing essentially wrong with alcohol. A drink or two is never harmful. When someone crawls into a bottle, however, there is nothing BUT harm.
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I was talking about people who couldn't just handle one or two drinks. I've seen them be consumed by it.
Not necessarily. Some people are offended even by people who drink at all. A bit extreme.
- Lack of good hygiene!3|10|0
- Picking their nose and eating it!1|10|0
- Drives while intoxicated.1|10|0
Right! I know someone that does that which is why didn't even like drinking with them, much less they thought I wanna go anywhere with them, yeah no
@Screenwriter yeah, I don't approve of drinking and driving... I'm having a drink now, at home not going anywhere... People that get totally drink and get behind the wheel are stupid and selfish, cuz it's not just their life they playing with
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My friend was always a heavy drinker. She is dying of cancer and now she drinks more. I've driven with her in my town with her drinking and driving. There is the case that people who drink all the time are functional, but I was extremely nervous with her. I've got to get the courage to NOT be in her car with her if she's drinking. I would hate to lose her friendship since I've known her 55 years and she won't be around very much longer. She is the best of friends. But, being as we're not together and I don't have to drive with her (I know nothing of Houston and can't drive around it efficiently... But it appears her daughter is driving her around the city now. Thank goodness.) If she's ever here with me, I'm driving. I don't want a confrontation at this juncture. IT's all very sad on so many levels.
She called me two days ago, very drunk and spoke to me for an hour: argumentative and irrational at times. Admitted to me her time was short, she was getting her will in order etc. I was quiet. It took me two days to cry about it, IN PUBLIC, looking at a silver bracelet I was thinking about buying for her.
This Vietnamese lady was SO kind. She lowered the price for the bracelet. I told her I didn't want her to do that because I was crying. But she knew I was genuinely upset... I told her I was choosing all the charms for a friend who was a native of my hometown and she could see I was being very careful. I have her name and phone number and know when she's at the market. Yanis Chang. If I never get the bracelet, I'll never forget her kindness.
- Using drugs. That's an instant no no2|10|0
- Alcoholism2|30|0
👍👍👍I drink, but someone who drinks all the time or on the job, or drinks and drives, yeah that's a problem
- She talks too much. I can't deal with that.1|01|0
- Voting Republican.2|20|0
- Substance abuse including tobacco and alcohol.1|10|0
- Murdering pets or small animals.1|00|0
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