My boyfriend is shorter than me and less attractive (as people claim). People judge us all the time. What would you do in this situation?

[NamerOfStars]

First, I'd ask how your boyfriend feels about it. If it doesn't really bother either of you, it's probably best to just let it go. If it bothers you but not him, brush up on your snarky comebacks. If it bothers both of you...

Okay, this might not work at ALL in your current situation, but it's something to consider. When someone starts knocking him, look them square in the eye and give a low, wordless growl. The more bestial you can make it sound, the better, and if you're the kind of person who's 1. not confrontational 2. articulate or 3. both, it'll make an even stronger impression. Uncharacteristic behavior gets people's attention VERY fast. Even if you're not, though, they're going after your man- wouldn't you want him to stand up for you in that situation?

That can be the biggest failing of the approach, though; there's a difference between standing up for someone you're loyal to, and defending someone, as the latter can (and I stress CAN) send the message that they can't defend themselves. Men like the idea of their women being loyal to them, and we also like the thought of being desired (it's usually not as big a deal to us as it is to women, but it's still a very nice feeling). But we also instinctively feel a need to protect people, and it could really hurt his feelings if he thinks you're implying (even subconsciously) that he can't do it himself. He might not even be aware of this (it doesn't come up for most guys), so like I said, it might not work. Just an idea.

[nodnol32]

How tall are you both? My girlfriend is taller than me and i can understand. Feel free to pm me so we can address and discuss your situation.

[Hangry22]

If you love him and don't care about any of his "flaws", ignore others. It's your life not theirs

[cjgsu]

I would tell them 2 kiss my ass, and shut their h8in ass up.

[Melvinb6521]

Men aren’t made to be beautiful lol. Women are. Men are supposed to be strong.


I wouldn’t sweat it. The haters are probably single... which is why they hate... which is why they are single... and so on. It’s a viscous circle.


Be happy with yours. All that matters is that you like him. Every time they say something in public, give him a tongue kiss 😂😂 that will shut them up eventually.

[jaybee281]

The world needs more women like you -Most of them are people who think they deserve a millionaire while all they can pull off is a broke guy in his late 40s - tell them to fuck off.

[chHaynes]

That is very natural one of the two are usually unattractive in some way or not as attractive has the other one

[Xavier16]

Fuck what they say. If you love him then you shouldn't care about what other people think.

[iFarted]

If you love him and he treats you good then fuck what other people say.
I dated a girl 5 inches taller than me before and we had to deal with the same thing. Don't let it get to you.

[Avicenna]

Ignore them. They are putting their nose in your business when they shouldn't.

[james_d0007]

Like Penny and Lenoard ;) if you too love each other - Then DGF to anyone that would be my advice to you ;)

[worldscolide]

If you love him then dont be that idiot girl that listens to everyone else.

[guy284729]

Be you, if you like him that’s all that matters.

[OddBeMe]

First it sounds like you care. Second your friends are a bunch of assholes.

[slatyb]

Avoid those ugly people.

[ThatQuietLass]

Tell them to fuck off and shut up.

[gandolph3]

Ignore them, satisfy your needs

[Jmmmfi4]

Ignore it