Would you rather have a clingy boyfriend/girlfriend/significant other/whatever or have a distant boyfriend/girlfriend/significant other/whatever?

[Old_Golden]

Distant, because then we'll match. Clingy usually means that they don't really have anyone else in their lives, and no one person can be everything someone needs. It drains everything from the person being clung to and leaves the clinger unsatisfied bc they aren't getting everything they need. Recipe for disaster...

[Demosiac]

I would choose neither, because I'm still growing in my emotional capability. Hence, I'm still under influence of the people around me and therefore need to control it so that I don't go insane.

[Anonymous]

Not too clingy but definitley not distant, I'd rather have a women more towards the clingy side

[Anonymous]

Neither. I can’t stand clingy people and I can’t stand distant people. There needs to be a balance.

[chriscdi]

clingy