Are you Asian?
@TerminallyChill Nope. American. And for what it's worth, I blame vulture capitalism (American capitalism) for forcing people to put $$ before humanity and empathy.
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You think the parents care about what the law says about her being 18?I guarantee you they don't.
No, I don't think her parents care about what the law says, but it doesn't matter if they care or not. If she lives in America and is 18, she can make her own decision about who she wants to date and there is nothing legal they can do to stop it. It's her decision to make, not theirs.
You might as well tell her to injure herself you idiot.
This is the true story of Mariah Carey's mother's life.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RRNdmkH8zrI
That's a song, not an argument.
If you want an argument, talk to yourself. Sounds like you're up to the job.
What, you're not gonna defend your statement that she should throw herself to the wolves?
Or she can be an adult and get a job, get her own place to live the way she wants.
Sure, use that card and if she has strict narrow minded parents she might also get kicked out of the house.
No. Parents cannot just kick you out of your established residence. They must legally evict her. This process can take some time. And if she's in the USA, evictions have been suspended.
@Satanic_Dexter I would really f-cking hope not. Those white chicks are obnoxious
@TerminallyChill Bud I’m saying I don’t fuck with those types
@TerminallyChill Dudeeee I was only saying racial FETISHES aren’t normal 🤦♂️ Not just having sex with a few black guys
@TerminallyChill And obviously you’re the one that’s racist. Anybody reading your posts can tell.
Exclude them from having a say so* in your dating life.
I expect comments like that from a younger person. I would hope that someone as old as you could offer better advice on the question she asked.
@virtue2332 The sad reality is the older they are the higher the chances they grew up in an ignorant racist environment.
@iFarted No, it’s simply factual. You are just blind to it, willfully or not. Here is a link which has data and graphs and lots of references at the bottom of the page. Educated your self. A simple search can find many data sources. It’s just not talked about because it makes black men “look bad”. But is just facts created by black men themselves through their behavior. en.wikipedia.org/.../African-American_family_structure
Let's continue to follow your logic to it's conclusion. Where do you believe this behavior stems from?
@TerminallyChill In the 1950s the black family was very strong, so says the statistics for that time period. In the 1960s the welfare state made it more lucrative for the women to be unmarried. They got extra checks and money being single mothers. And they also had more kids as more kids meant more money. The kids grew up without a dad and there are huge issues in their community now because of it which have been exacerbated by drug money and gangs. Today, even one hear, I have heard it is better to be a single mom for the extra money from the IS government. What she doesn’t realize is that he will drop out of the picture. The cycle continues.
Even on here*
So in your mind, there's no other larger social phenomena, systems, hierarchies and social orders at play?
@TerminallyChill Those conditions that you listed off were much bigger issues in the 1950s and before, yet the black family was strong. There isn’t a correlation that presents itself. It just doesn’t hold given the past, much higher levels of discrimination and yet stronger black families.
You realize your last statement is an opinion correct?
@TerminallyChill No, it’s based on fact. You hand your mind made up and it will stay that way of course since it is buried in the sand. I make my living being objective, and business is good. You are tied up in things other than facts. It’s not opinion, it is what it is. It’s reality.
I'm going to quote you verbatim because you should take a dose of your own poison: "you had your mind made up and it will stay that way of course since it is buried in the sand. "
@TerminallyChill I saw your questions. All about white and black. You are emotionally engaged too much and have a vested interest in your own answer. Nothing changes the statistics that blacks had much lower numbers of single mothers before 1960. They had strong families and you want me to believe otherwise? No. I can find the statistics, can you look them up? Can you do a search? Can you look at it? It’s hard when you don’t want to see it I guess. Ronald Reagan was asked what the most important thing he learned as President. He said to not be afraid to look a problem in the eye. Now I know you will just brush this conversation off but it really won’t change the facts. Bullshit only goes so far when someone has facts. Seek it to others and even yourself, it doesn’t change the answer. The world knows and the world doesn’t give a crap about what you’re selling, not really anyway.
Sell it to others*
Of course I'm going to brush it off because you're only evaluating one data set that fits your narrative. I'm not going to try and dialectically reason with a man practicing confirmation bias and the positing of opinion as fact. It's like a reverse Hume's law.
@TerminallyChill yes, yes, yes. White people did it. Not the black guy who takes the easy road and then fucks over his kids lol. Asians and white rule because we have string families. Hispanics too have a lot of strong families and they are going to pass blacks by as well in money, population and importance. That’s coming in the next 20 years. It’s about the family, not whites people. It’s about black guys bailing not white people. And it doesn’t matter to the world, wring your hands and shake your fist but it won’t change things as you are focused on the wrong thing.
You have low IQ. I'm out
@TerminallyChill lol. You’re black and you need to believe it. Your a “victim”, aka a loser. Otherwise you have to accept responsibility and acknowledge a fucked up culture.
No victim mentality here. I'm a black separatist and I preach separatism and unplugging from the European Social Order matrix to other black people. Where have you seen me say I wanted anything from white people? I'm a not a retard, I know all too well that integration and multiculturalism is bullshit. But just because I acknowledge that and have those positions, doesn't mean I can't critique a system which has been responsible for the large scale destruction, hindrances and habituation to dehumanization of African-Americans. I don't know you're purposely obtuse or actually daft but it doesn't matter. The problem with you low intellect people, a. k. a most of humanity; is thay you can only perceive what you see right in front of you. You guys don't have the capability to process phenomenological or epistemological concepts. And it shows because you all sorely lack perspective. But I can't blame you, because even though we all have agency, agency isn't the only thing you need in this world; most people don't have agency + combined intelligence levels to break their programming, let alone even notice that they are socially conditioned in the first place.
Something I notice, when the big words start coming out that you have no idea what they mean, suddenly all you white nationalist clowns go quiet. You're supposedly superior to blacks but I'm more intelligent than you and most people you probably know tbh. How does that work?
@TerminallyChill lol, well maybe you can notice that people actually log off and do other things! Like hanging with my children! Perfect! That’s the second time you fell back on how I’m not smart and you are. Trust me, you aren’t in my league and can’t compete. No billion dollar companies have thrown money at you to come work for them at a global level. And I generally have said no, you can only work for one at a time. Google has called me the past two January’s. I wonder if they will call this year. I turned down Amazon too. And Nike. All in the past two years. Is your phone ringing? Mine is because I am smarter than all so many. I know, I know, it’s because I’m white... along with a billion others people... but they call me. Have a nice life smart guy. Get that white money.
Lmfao. And I have super powers and can fly. Keep making up realities in your head with your subpar IQ. I'm out
@TerminallyChill ya huh... I love it when people don’t believe my life. It’s adds a certain pleasure... too good to be true and yet it is me. And separatist? Go to Monrovia, it was created for you to move there, know your history. You are far too dependent to be separate. It’s a joke really, not even in the realm of possibility.
Harsh but true.
@Solstice777 I wasn't trying to say I don't agree by saying harsh. I think that any black person who wants to miscegenate with white people is psychologically sick. Either that or they have no dignity, integrity and self-respect, you can't not have tons of psychopathological traumas or try staking a claim to any of those attributes while you go running into the arms of your generational oppressor for romantic relationships.
It makes me physically cringe.
@TerminallyChill Well I definitely would not touch the girl who is complete trash doing this. I got nothing against the black guy at all but the girl is just scum of the earth.
@Solstice777 Is that a joke?
@TerminallyChill No the black guy is just trying to get his nut off in some trashy whore I cannot blame him for that.
@Solstice777 Lol. Keep telling yourself that.
Some people do things in order to appear "woke".I believe many "trans" people want to be trans to bring attention to themselves.
@Dweezil But does that discredit the people who are actually afflicted by transgenderism?
@TerminallyChill No. I just saying there are people out there would claim to be something other than what that are in order to gain favor in certain parts of society.Over the last 10 or 20 years being Bisexual has become a big thing. Especially among young girls. I'm one of those people who question the need to proclaim ones sexuality. Why do I need need to know whom someone fucks. I couldn't care less about who fucks whom.My sexuality is kept between myself and the person I sleep.My sexuality does not define who I am.
@Dweezil Are you not aware of the internet effect? It amazes me how so many people think all this behavior is new. ALL of this shit has always happened, the internet has just shined a light on a lot of shit we didn't publicly acknowledge and it gave people a voice to express themselves. Bisexuality especially, a high percentage of women have always been bisexual. Why do you think so many girls have a "fooling around/making out with my friend" or that most 3somes that take place are FFM?
@TerminallyChill I know numerous gay people. Only one lets it be known she is a lesbian... in a bold manner.The others don't care if people know. They just don't stand on the street corner announcing their sexuality.
@TerminallyChill transgenderism? I'm not sure that is a thing, but I do know that being a transgender is certainly not an affliction. No matter our choices or our personality we are all individuals. Thinking about it though bigotry could be an affliction, just saying.
@allaboutyou2 I'm not a bigot and I don't condone mistreatment or the harming of transgenders. However I'm also not going to pretend that they have the same chemical balance as the vast, overwhelming majority of human beings. Again, still doesn't mean I want harm or malicious things to happen to them. If you read the whole interaction, you can see I was basically saying the people who do things for attention don't speak for or represent the people who actually go through said situations.
My contention is that it isn't an affliction.
@allaboutyou2 And my contention is that it is. I can't say it's not natural because it's obviously observed in nature, but natural =/= normal.
Please educate yourself on what an affliction is, not being "normal" is not an affliction for goodness sake. Polio is an affliction, a crippling disease is an affliction being different is not, it should be embraced.
@allaboutyou2 What world do we live in where mental irregularities are not considered afflictions?
It's not a mental irregularity.
@allaboutyou2 It's the literal definition of a mental irregularity. I didn't say a "mental disorder". You're old enough to be my dad so I'm sure you know that irregular means "any deviation from the trgular", which the transgender mind is from the average cisgendered mind.
@allaboutyou2 We have to deal in facts not emotions
Who is to judge what is normal? I'm sure some Transgender people think we are different. Normal is subjective, depends on what you call normal. Their mind isn't irregular, how does one define a regular mind? If you mean different than yours then probably most people are different from you, are you the benchmark for normal? Am I? Maybe a transgendered friend? People are individuals and the healthy ones think independently, so their is no "regular " mind. Weak minded people conform easier but that doesn't make them "regular.
@allaboutyou2 There's a time and place for existential ontology and this is not it. It's a matter of biology, and science. Transgenderism* along with a lot of other things, because you seem to think I'm picking on Trans people, does not fall under Neurotypicality.
What is a "regular " mind?Who decides what is a "regular" mind or what is "normal"? What one person finds normal another finds it irregular. We are talking about individuals, we are all different people with independent thoughts and opinions.
@allaboutyou2 It's as if you didn't read the last comment and replied to the penultimate one instead.www.google.com/search
@allaboutyou2 Neurotypicality exists, your feelings and emotions can't wipe it from existence
Yellow guys where are they from?
You sound like a racist
Why does that make me racist? You're free to date who you want I'm just stating a fact.
That's quite wise
@David_Bayer Credit goes to BLOODHOUNDER
Because he’s black. White girls love black penis
Then why is all of my family, white?
Because they ask black men to use condoms. Duh
I really hope that's sarcasm.
You really think any self respecting man would give a coal burner a chance after she has a mutt child out of wedlock and is beaten until she has PTSD@Capricornunicorn
@Wewladdy yeah i mean personally if a girl has a history of dating lots of guys of varied races in a normal proportion and they were decent guys. I dont think its a big deal. But if she dated only a few guys and they were all black... no. Or if any of them were ghetto acting or that type hell no. there's no coming back from that.
@Wewladdy @bamesjond0069 that is such a stereotype. There are a lot of black guys that aren't like that.
A woman dating a black man is literally 13 times more likely to be abused than when dating any other race. It's a sign of low intelligence and a lack of self preservation, neither desirable traits in a would-be wife.
@Capricornunicorn i agree. So if its 1. not a fetish where she goes out of her way to date black guys and 2. If they are not ghetto or low quality black guys... then its not a big deal. Otherwise its a huge deal.
@Wewladdy well I don't go off stats, I go off what I see irl and so far I haven't met a bmww couple like that @bamesjond0069 I do understand what you mean about the mandingo fetish... that would be a turn-off for me as well if I was a wm
@Capricornunicorn the only thing is that from a guys perspective we dont know for a fact. So guys are usually not trying to be risky with a serious relationship, we like safe bets. So if we dont know the guy in question or if she only dated one guy and he was black, men in general will not give her the benefit of the doubt.
@bamesjond0069 I get that but that's kind of narrow-minded and may keep you from finding the one. Just because she only dated one guy and it happened to be a black guy doesn't mean anything. You should at least ask about it before jumping to conclusions. This black guy could be a Carlton Banks from Fresh Prince for all you know.
@Capricornunicorn true and if we know that for a fact it might be ok. But i just mean in the absence of evidence.here's an example. I went on a date with a girl. I found out her ex was black and she had a black friend. This was highly suspect because she lives on a farm in a tiny town that only has like those 2 black guys in it. LolI decided she was not a girl i thought was someone id date based only off that.Guess what? My suspicions were correct. Her next boyfriend was black. And now they broke up and she's with another black guy.It works out like this more often than not. So yeah ofc im not going to give a girl the benefit of the doubt. The risk is too serious.It is unfortunate for the good black guys out there but even one of my black guy friends said "if a girl dates black guys i dont want her she's trash" lol
@bamesjond0069 wow that's definitely an eye-opener but in small towns especially Southern small towns that's bound to happen. The low working class tends to mingle more than any other class. I'm from SC and NJ and there is definitely a difference. I see a lot more interracial couples specifically bmww in the south than up north. So I kind of see your point. But not all are low class or ghetto is all I'm saying but you are certainly entitled to your preference and viewpoint.
@Wewladdy You belive in racial superiority correct?
I also don't condone black and white race mixing but I wish all black people could see this thread so they would unplug from the matrix and realize integration and multiculturalism is bullshit. We have been sold a lie and are too brainwashed by the White European Materialist Social Order to see it. Separatism is the only salvation.
@Capricornunicorn well she wasn't mingling w poor farmer folk she was out hunting for black men
They don't like talking about it. Unfortunately they are racists :(
Racist or not are they willing to lose you over something as silly as the color of his skin? So if they had to choose a son in law they would choose same race pedophile meth addict. Or college future Dr. Black guy? Test them on that tell them you are having a hard time choosing between two guys but don't mention race. One is the guy you like the other is everything other than race you know your parents don't like. Let them convince you that you should go with the one you like. If they back pedal after because he is black then you need to figure out how to get out on your own. I know you live your parents but sometimes you have to do what's best for you. You fucken better make sure that the guy you are interested in is worthy though last thing you want is for that shit to backfire in your face and you get fucked over leading them to believe they where right in their beliefs
That’s I feel when white men date latina women
@Grubhub To each his own I can see why you feel that way if you are latino yourself
Female genitals police alert
How much blacked do you watch?