I'm want to date a black guy but my parents don't approve of that because he is black. What can I do to let them allow that because I really want to date him
Tell them there are some new changes cominh home and they have to welcome them. And make them to swear that they Wil obey. And openly te'll the that you are gona introduce your Boyfriend to them ima few days. So once that time comes slap them in there faces with your true love. I totally get nuts once some people happen to have there minds locked in the past days. Black is not a curse it is a blessing. So if you truly love him you are breaking no rules. Be with the one who. makes you feel special and loved , and if he does that give no shit put yourself first.
You could spend half your life thinking your family loves you for you, but then realize that their love is conditional. You are old enough to make adult decisions, and this is a huge one. You know what you want, so why bow to what they want?
I will tell you, I got into my 30's believing my family accepted me, but when I lost my job after Y2K/tech bubble bust and hit rock bottom, I found that about half of my family had abandoned me (a failure in their eyes).
You do you, date him, or marry him if you want. Screw anyone who is willing to dispose of you because of their bigotry - trust me when I say that those same family members would conditionally bail on you for more reasons than your current flame - and that's what's important to understand.
Honestly I would just introduce him. You already are talking about introducing so it means you've already begun dating. I hope it's not just 'a' black guy, like you'd be doing it cause he's black or something. Anyway, if you want to introduce him you better make some checklist in your head why he would make a great partner. Race shouldn't matter that much. I'd be looking at how he carries himself, how he take cares of himself and those around him, his hobbies, his beliefs, his friends, etc, ...
Introduce him like you would any other person. If your parents don’t approve then you need to make the decision between your partner or their racist opinion. If you choose him, then maybe it’s time to reevaluate the relationship with your parents and confront them on their racist opinions.
If you are actually 18, then it's probably best that you let them know you are interested in a black person, before he comes to you house. That will give them some time to adjust before the say he actually arrives. If you think they will strongly object, you don't want your partner in the middle of it. Unless you are aware of a situation that would make it otherwise, and he be there. Your parents may continue to object, or they may get used to the idea, perhaps over time. I don't know them, so I can't predict. But most parents would get reasonably used to the idea if given a little time. Over time, most parents would learn to love and accept him. i just don't know your parents well enough to say. But if they are not hard racists, they might surprise you, if given time to adjust.
Well there you have it like Terminally chill said if it on the internet it's facts. Simple as educated me self on facts. 🤣. Do a search bam. Impossible to lie or quote anything false me google and A I don't allow it. Anyway my girls can date any race and if they are happy I'll be ok with it. well anything except Reptillian because those motherfuckers are lazy cold blooded ass holes. Those fuckers stink too.
If your parents genuinely want for your happiness. Given that your situation isn't some kind of hook up or rushed relationship. Then I don't see any problem with it. If you think your parents might be racist. Talk to them first about ti and if you think it would be too much to introduce your boyfriend. I would do it at a later time.
Once you are 18 they don't have to allow it. You can try to make them understand, but it's entirely possible they never will. You may have to choose who is more important to you him or them. That's one of the hard parts of being an adult. You cannot control what other people like and don't like, but you can make your own decisions as long as you are willing to suffer the consequences. Sometimes those decisions are very hard.
No, I don't think her parents care about what the law says, but it doesn't matter if they care or not. If she lives in America and is 18, she can make her own decision about who she wants to date and there is nothing legal they can do to stop it. It's her decision to make, not theirs.
If this is real, that man should show dignity, integrity and respect for himself by leaving the entire situation immediately. How racially cucked and mentally colonized do you have to be to want to be in a relationship with a family who see you as subhuman? That automatically puts you in a subservient and cucked posture. That psychology is insane bro. I wish othet black people could wake the fuck up from their matrix programming.
You're 18, in many ways that's an adult. It's time for you to decide what kind of person you'd like to be. A good, kind and fair individual, or a cunt-servative ignorant biggot racist evil one like you're parents. You have a chance to be better than them, I hope you take it. Date whomever your heart tells you to and make sure your parents understand they don't get a saying in it.
1. Become independent and live on your own. 2. Pick a guy who is a really good catch, not just a guy who excites you (I'd say that regardless of race) but in all areas of life. 3. Get a serious relationship going. 4. When you're sure he's "the one" you say, "He's the one." Not, "what do you think?"
Who cares if he’s black? You are caring too much about what your parents views are and what they have to say. You have two options, you can either keep the relationship to yourself if you know they won’t approve or you can tell them and they can either chose to accept or disown you.
sorry you want to date a black man, and you are worried about your parents, usually you date someone for a while before you even think about introducing them to anyone, or I did
Well, having been the white partner who met with disapproval from black family members more than once when I was your age, I'd advise you not to bother if their attitude is that hardcore.
Date him, introduce him to them, if they don't accept your choice then what you do after that is up to you.. you can't change their minds so either date him with the knowledge that they dont accept him, or don't date black guys
Hard one. Depends on their level of minority bias. Tell them he is great, take time, hope it works. Have had my own folks disapprove, basically it still your life and choice ultimately. Do you always have to have approval , No.
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Master
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I dont understand why people even allow themselves to fall for someone who theyre afraid to bring home to mom/dad. The moment you started dating him, u basically said Fck what your parents think. Keep that same energy when you introduce him to them
You’re 18? You’re an adult. Date whoever you please. Your parents probably won’t change. It’s up to you whether you are willing to proceed knowing they won’t like it.
No. Parents cannot just kick you out of your established residence. They must legally evict her. This process can take some time. And if she's in the USA, evictions have been suspended.
Anonymous
1 y
Do they need to know right now? Don't know how long you've been together, but maybe just give it more time before telling them?
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