Guys, can you date a girl without having sex and wait until a relationship?

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I don't like hooking up or sleeping with men that I date. I want to get to know a guy and if we both want a serious relationship then become intimate.

I feel like guys now a days only care about sex. I dated 2 guys and when they wanted sex I pulled back and broke things off. Is it possible to wait until it progresses to a serious relationship?

Answer 1

DavidFox | 578 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

That’s the idea. Sex before a relationship is cheap. Gotta have feelings for better intimacy.

DavidFox

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The key is communication. You both talk about expectations and what you want. If you put into action those words and build trust over time the sexual part of the relationship is so much better once you are exclusive
Asker

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Yes, I agree with building communication, trust, and I would add love and respect in a relationship before becoming intimate
DavidFox

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Yes love and respect will follow as long as you form a solid foundation. Having sex too early or lying early will crush any chances at something longterm. A slow build up and over days and weeks is the way to go.

Answer 2

DavidFox

The key is communication. You both talk about expectations and what you want. If you put into action those words and build trust over time the sexual part of the relationship is so much better once you are exclusive

Answer 3

Asker

Yes, I agree with building communication, trust, and I would add love and respect in a relationship before becoming intimate

Answer 4

DavidFox

Yes love and respect will follow as long as you form a solid foundation. Having sex too early or lying early will crush any chances at something longterm. A slow build up and over days and weeks is the way to go.

Answer 5

Iron_Man | 10.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

I can wait until marriage

Answer 6

Gedaria | 2.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Yes..

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