Is it me or is it him?

[DavidDong]

That's not a question you can ask us really, it takes self reflection.

It takes 2 to be in a relationship.

A girl should be Independant of mind, ambitious, kind, logical, care for appearances etc

I k ow that makes me sound like some incel but I'm really not, I've been surrounded by women that say that, from friends to family.
A template if you will

A guy should follow really the same ideals but put them into practice a little differently.

It's up to you if you think you are lacking

[spartan55]

Could you be a little more specific about what 'bad luck' means in your case?

[iseekpinetrees]

You can ask exs why y'all broke up but as your young why care? You live and learn just move on to the next person and keep your past in the past.

[stuntbrain]

Both