I am surprised with some of the comments here about asking you to change your outfit if you want him to see you as a serious potential partner 😂 As someone who lives in a Muslim country, this outfit is deemed as normal/appropriate for a non Muslim woman. Your dress is beautiful and I like your heels. Just try to have light makeup.
Well first of all you look amazing! The heels match with the red straps, which I’m guessing is a bra. Wearing red signifies that you’re bold and you’re not afraid to take any risks. Showing off skin is honestly the cutest thing. But you keep it a bit more pure with the straps. A plain black dress can go for any occasion. It’s easy to pair with accessories.
Now, your guy friend is going to see you and think “Wow she’s gorgeous” but once he sees that red, OOO! Red is one of the most sexiest colors so it may lead him on. He’ll be wondering what you’re wearing underneath that cute black dress. It’s all about what colors you put together. I think if you paired it up with some sort of jacket it would look lovely! Then BAM you take it off and you got shoulders! It can go either way.
Seriously girl? If you showed up on a date with me dressed like that, I would NOT think your intentions were platonic. No way. I wouldn't presume you wanted me, but I definitely wouldn't get the idea that "hey, let's just be friends".
For one thing, it's kind of cruel. You look hot, and you KNOW you look hot, and every guy who looks at you is going think that. So there you are essentially saying to him "Look at what you can't have". It's not your intention, but that's what it amounts to.
I'm thinking he didn't ask you out solely because he wanted a platonic friendship. He's likely very attracted to you. If you REALLY want to be his friend, don't tease him. I'll wager he's going to be let down enough as it is, so don't dress to kill him.
Any dress is okay with that. As long as you are transparent with him and say a straight no when he brings up sex, you should be fine. And explanation would be nice if you see he's a bit insecure just so he doesn't thik there's something wrong with him.
That would depend on if you would get offended when guys leer at you. If you are that type of woman , whom is not proud of what God gave you, and are just looking for an excuse to lambaste a man, then no that dress is not ok. But if I told you you looked amazing in it and had the body to wear it and you did not get offended, then yes wear the dress
Platonic love should not be confused for unrequited love. In this relationship, one party has romantic feelings for the other, and the other person does not have the same feelings and just sees them as a friend. While the two may remain, friends, the elephant in the room is always hovering over them, and the relationship is never truly platonic.
I would think so, but no matter what my date wears I am going to have a platonic relationship with her, you might want to wear a different type of bra to hide the straps though, those are hard not to look at.
Does he know you want a platonic relationship? That's not usually what people after looking for when they ask for a date. You should have told him you weren't interested in an intimate relationship when you accepted the date.
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If he brings up the topic of sex, I'll tell him. Now calm down.
If you want a platonic friendship with him then you should accessorise properly so he doesn't get the wrong idea.
I'd suggest something simple, like a parka...
For an actual date it's great, but if you want to keep things as just friends you'd be better off in jeans & a tee. Keep it simple so he gets the message without hurting his feelings.
Honestly. That outfit kinda gives me "you should be turned on" vibes lol maybe thats just your style, straight slayer.. but if we were platonic friends and me n you were going to hang out.. I wouldn't expect you to come out looking like that unless we've known eachother a while and I know you're trying to catch someone's attention lol just my perspective. You look great tho
I like this dress, but I'm not sure if you should really wear it for a date with a guy you'll only be friends with. Maybe he finds you too cute and sexy.
Too sexy to handle and not to misunderstand that you like them as a love interest this is how social norms are so yeah honestly and the heels makes it sexier.
I mean if i was a girl i just wear jeans because there awesome but uh as for the dress it looks good on ya. Rather its for a friendship date or not is uh I don't know useless really. Why does it matter?
If he’s used to seeing you like that ya. But if this is out of the blue I would throw on a hoody. Just to balance the “im hot as fuck, but I don’t care about where this goes” BUT YOU LOOK GREAT
You must be trolling... first of all, what is a platonic date? Are you hanging out as platonic friends, or is this a date? I hope you are both clear on what's going on here.
You wanna keep this fucker like a horny little sidecar so you can have dick on demand should you lose grasp of your main rod for a moment, yes? Seen it all before, absolutely disgusting, send the man my way so I can have a chat with him and save him a lot of trouble
Looks like a dress for a date in the city where it's hip and modern with drinks and some dancing or snuggling. You look great in that dress. Those heels look uncomfortable af.
Its okay to use it as a platonic dress but just know the guy will just think ur hot af and prob be jacking off to you later. You'd definitely have to show that you don't want anything more.
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