Approach anxiety, how did you overcome it?

Hi all

Im getting older and I've only had one partner in my entire life.

I am introverted, love history, international studies, architecture, learning about new cultures, keep healthy/ fit. Yet i never seem to have any one interested in me.

I want to start to approach women however thw first thing that comes to my head is that no women will find me attractive, as this is evident by no matches on dating apps and having red hair which is the biggest turn off for women.

These and many more thoughts cloud my mind

Do you have any success stories about overcoming these type of thoughts?
Approach anxiety, how did you overcome it?
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