Would the height of a date be a deal-breaker for you, and would you honestly tell them it's a deal-breaker?

Question

I know that for many people and especially women the height of there comming boyfriend unfortunately is very important , for reasons very hard to understand for a very tall girl like myself. But would it be a deal-breaker for you, and would you honestly tell the other person that height is a deal-breaker for you, or are you deep inside embarrassed by your thoughts about height in a future partner, they might be super persons anyway

Answer 1

iseekpinetrees | 370 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Would be pretty hard for me to find a deal breaker as I am 5 ft 2. I mean maybe if he was shorter than that I'd have a problem but I think if he had a decent dick I'd be okay with it. Its more about if I click with someone.

Answer 2

ShortCircuit | 1.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Yes, it would be a deal-breaker if she was taller than me. Otherwise, I don't care about height. She could be anything from the same height to 8 inches shorter--she just can't be taller than me. And if she was taller than me, I just wouldn't ask her out to begin with. I wouldn't want to waste her time (or mine).

I think that's pretty reasonable, especially compared to most women's' height requirements. It seems for most women, it's not just that he has to be taller, but that he also has to be taller by a pretty wide margin. I have no such requirement.

Petra150

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Fell Sorry for you , I just didn't knew guys were so shallow as you, I'm 6'8 tall and never in Denmark or Germany met guys who wasn't man enough to date a girl my height, but I'd net guys who thought I were shallow and would let somthing as insignificant as height be determined for love. So I needed to tell I weren't a stupid Heightist. Much a surprise to hear a guy admit he is shallow
ShortCircuit

12 d
Well of course you don't have the same requirements as most women. Being 6'8, I imagine it's incredibly difficult for you to find a guy who's the same height as you, let alone significantly taller. So you were forced to adapt.

But believe me, if you were born 5'5, you'd require that your partner be taller than you just like any other woman.

And if your go-to argument is to attack the masculinity of anyone whose preferences you don't meet (two things that have absolutely nothing to do with each other), then frankly, I don't think I'm missing much by ruling you out.
Petra150

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Guess my PREFERENCE for guys shorter isn't a valuable argument, my love and attraction for guys the height between 5'10-6' or even shorter don't impress anyone, as people think we all have think little chip in our brain telling us , act like a shallow asshole, sorry I hoped more accepted were not animals any longer
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Petra150

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I'd rather laugh of a tall awkward guy who think him self entitled to girls attraction , mainly based on only his height, while I'm much more attracted to all the other things that make a guy hot, and height of cause isn't, in my time as a volleyball player I'd seen more guys my height than shorter , and I'd never felt the slidest sexual attracted to them, while when my 5'11,5 hubby cane along and asked to help me solving my bike, everything in me went bum, you see we are all different , and be glad of this

Answer 3

Petra150

Fell Sorry for you , I just didn't knew guys were so shallow as you, I'm 6'8 tall and never in Denmark or Germany met guys who wasn't man enough to date a girl my height, but I'd net guys who thought I were shallow and would let somthing as insignificant as height be determined for love. So I needed to tell I weren't a stupid Heightist. Much a surprise to hear a guy admit he is shallow

Answer 4

ShortCircuit

Well of course you don't have the same requirements as most women. Being 6'8, I imagine it's incredibly difficult for you to find a guy who's the same height as you, let alone significantly taller. So you were forced to adapt.

But believe me, if you were born 5'5, you'd require that your partner be taller than you just like any other woman.

And if your go-to argument is to attack the masculinity of anyone whose preferences you don't meet (two things that have absolutely nothing to do with each other), then frankly, I don't think I'm missing much by ruling you out.

Answer 5

Petra150

Guess my PREFERENCE for guys shorter isn't a valuable argument, my love and attraction for guys the height between 5'10-6' or even shorter don't impress anyone, as people think we all have think little chip in our brain telling us , act like a shallow asshole, sorry I hoped more accepted were not animals any longer

Answer 6

Petra150

I'd rather laugh of a tall awkward guy who think him self entitled to girls attraction , mainly based on only his height, while I'm much more attracted to all the other things that make a guy hot, and height of cause isn't, in my time as a volleyball player I'd seen more guys my height than shorter , and I'd never felt the slidest sexual attracted to them, while when my 5'11,5 hubby cane along and asked to help me solving my bike, everything in me went bum, you see we are all different , and be glad of this

Answer 7

Kurαȷ | 890 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Yes, it would be.
Would I tell them? No. I simply wouldn't ask them out.
If they were to ask me out, I would tell them that their height is a deal-breaker for me.

Petra150

13 d
Oh shit I feel sorry for you, it's usually I'd women who have these super shallow thoughts, but you rate a girl in her physical features too, good job not many men rate s girl on there hright
Kurαȷ

13 d
I feel sorry for manlets who are so insecure about their height that they pretend to be tall women on forums and try to shame people for having preferences.

I'm shorter man too, taller women don't find me attractive and I don't find them attractive either.
It's totally fine.

Stop being a loser, I guarantee women find it more unattractive than your height.

Answer 8

Petra150

Oh shit I feel sorry for you, it's usually I'd women who have these super shallow thoughts, but you rate a girl in her physical features too, good job not many men rate s girl on there hright

Answer 9

Kurαȷ

I feel sorry for manlets who are so insecure about their height that they pretend to be tall women on forums and try to shame people for having preferences.

I'm shorter man too, taller women don't find me attractive and I don't find them attractive either.
It's totally fine.

Stop being a loser, I guarantee women find it more unattractive than your height.

Answer 10

eagle1951 | 1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

my frist date ever was a blind date, when i meant her she was like 6'5 and i was 6'
it was weird at first, but got better after i started getting to know her. and forgot about how talk she was.

Petra150

13 d
Did she mind you being shorter , or were you embarrassed bye being with her, sorry for asking, it just that I want to know if my relationship is far too weard
eagle1951

13 d
no she ddidn't mind. she turned out was a fun date
Petra150

13 d
Did it last , if not , hopefully you didn't tell that height difference were the reason you sprit up, it usually is pretty convenient for a guy to say, so we tall women seems as asholes, while we pretty often accept guys way shorter, as many don't prefer us very tall girls, and s guy 150-160 cm tall, can be just as wonderful as a 200 cm tall guy, and far better than NO boyfriend
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eagle1951

13 d
no it was just that one date.
Petra150

13 d
Didn't you wanted to go out with her again, well perhaps she wasn't beautiful, height isn't the most important feature, but the look of a face is, it's just so fucking easy to describe a person on there height as 6'2 while describing a guy as a 10/10 is very subjective, but 6'2 you can't misunderstand if you get me. Love the reply from you, could text you trough this message function inhere if you feel like
eagle1951

13 d
never saw her after that , she was a senior and I was in 10th. i left to join the Army
Petra150

13 d
Ohh I understand , as you can read in this thread , some find my question bad , and I sult med for being a short guy, what can I do, it's like running into a wall , when I try to explain I don't mind my guys to be shorter, and no-one seem to believe , I'm in a relationship with a guy much shorter, what can be done to make this taller woman issue more common, as I'd noticed many men find a tall woman berry sexy and attraktive, but the seems to have a taboo about admitting it, and it's like it's something a guy have hard to admit, and he'll never dare tell other especially us woman. I love when a guy admit he's attracted to us , and I don't mind it's a fetish too, as long it's not a sick thing. I wouldn't say I'm particular attracted to a guy who's shorter than myself, but the fact 99,9% of all men are shorter than myself, them hat and attraktive might be shorter than me too, and if a guy 180 cm find me attractive and like me , I'll be a bitch if I can't accept him too

Answer 11

Petra150

Did she mind you being shorter , or were you embarrassed bye being with her, sorry for asking, it just that I want to know if my relationship is far too weard

Answer 12

eagle1951

no she ddidn't mind. she turned out was a fun date

Answer 13

Petra150

Did it last , if not , hopefully you didn't tell that height difference were the reason you sprit up, it usually is pretty convenient for a guy to say, so we tall women seems as asholes, while we pretty often accept guys way shorter, as many don't prefer us very tall girls, and s guy 150-160 cm tall, can be just as wonderful as a 200 cm tall guy, and far better than NO boyfriend

Answer 14

eagle1951

no it was just that one date.

Answer 15

Petra150

Didn't you wanted to go out with her again, well perhaps she wasn't beautiful, height isn't the most important feature, but the look of a face is, it's just so fucking easy to describe a person on there height as 6'2 while describing a guy as a 10/10 is very subjective, but 6'2 you can't misunderstand if you get me. Love the reply from you, could text you trough this message function inhere if you feel like

Answer 16

eagle1951

never saw her after that , she was a senior and I was in 10th. i left to join the Army

Answer 17

Petra150

Ohh I understand , as you can read in this thread , some find my question bad , and I sult med for being a short guy, what can I do, it's like running into a wall , when I try to explain I don't mind my guys to be shorter, and no-one seem to believe , I'm in a relationship with a guy much shorter, what can be done to make this taller woman issue more common, as I'd noticed many men find a tall woman berry sexy and attraktive, but the seems to have a taboo about admitting it, and it's like it's something a guy have hard to admit, and he'll never dare tell other especially us woman. I love when a guy admit he's attracted to us , and I don't mind it's a fetish too, as long it's not a sick thing. I wouldn't say I'm particular attracted to a guy who's shorter than myself, but the fact 99,9% of all men are shorter than myself, them hat and attraktive might be shorter than me too, and if a guy 180 cm find me attractive and like me , I'll be a bitch if I can't accept him too

Answer 18

pantyloverr

Xper 4

Absolutely not

Answer 19

Nachowedgie | 2.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Yup. I'm only interested in smaller women

Answer 20

Anonymous

I love tall girls

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