Am I an a-hole for not dating women until they put out?

[krysten02]

Some women are easy so no, but not all women will put out before being in a relationship with someone so you may potentially miss out on some really great women by doing this so that is something to consider. There is a reason most women will have sex before dating you or barely knowing you and that is usually because they like to sleep around. Here’s an idea, instead of asking for women to put out before being in a relationship with them, why not ask them about their sex life and if they are willing to have sex later on? If you take that approach, you may potentially find a really great partner and women won’t think you are a man whore.

[likelyOK]

That’s going to be hard bc there is a good quality women who are not going to risk having sex first in case the relationship does not follow.

[Anonymous]

Maybe, but it doesn't matter. It's the "nice guys" who want to "do the right thing" and stay despite the fact that they're not getting laid at all who end up in sexless relationships/marriages. If you don't want to be walked all over sometimes you've got to be good to you, and risk some people thinking that you're an asshole.

[OlderAndWiser]

So you just walk up to a strange woman and say, "Hey, you're cute. If you fuck me, I'll date you." How often does that work for you?

[Wowie101]

No... But don’t expect actually find somebody who actually cares about you. A girl that will put out before you actualy dating... It’s going to come with a lot of issues... But hey if you’re OK with her sleepin around...

[zagor]

"Hey, let's fuck, then go out for a latte if we still like each other after". How is that working out?