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Is it a good idea to stay friends with ex and see him again as friends? Or will it be painful and more difficult to move on?

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Hello! I'm currently in the rungs of a breakup. I used to be in a band with my boyfriend, but we broke up about 4 months ago, and I haven't seen him since. He recently reached out to me again and offered to have me play again (I am a gig drummer) with his group for a few sessions, so I may be seeing him in the next few weeks.

Would it be a good idea to do this? I definitely still love him (at least the idea), but understand why the breakup happened and want us to be friends. I am worried that when I will see him again that it will be awkward. I would like to be friends, and drumming is very important to me, but if he has a new girlfriend it would be very strange or awkward for me to be there. I am very mature and usually good at handling issues like this, but don't want to have any problems.

Maybe I will go to the first rehearsal and take it from there? Or should I politely decline.
Is it a good idea to stay friends with ex and see him again as friends? Or will it be painful and more difficult to move on?
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