God bless you! There IS hope for your generation.A world where women think they are supposed to be men and men think they are supposed to be women is doomed.You are absolutely right. Millions of years of evolution designed men both physically and mentally to be the PROTECTORS and PROVIDERS for a family. That is their natural role. I am so delighted that not everyone in your generation has been brainwashed into fantasy about this.
😂😂😂 Glad I could make you proud, Pops.
Housewife for life! Other than that, they can kiss my a*s...I'll only marry a girl who adores becoming a housewife!
Thanks for mh 🌹
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I think I heard that they just changed that rule.
@Jamie05rhs Well THAT changes my ENTIRE thesis!
From the article: "Gager has looked at the same data set and found that when tasks aren't segregated into "male" or "female" chores, men who do more housework tend to have sex more often. Given that, it's difficult to conclude that female tasks actually make partners less attracted to each other, and more likely that some other, unexplained factor could explain the link, she said."So yeah, I wouldn't put much stock in the idea that men who do more feminine-stereotyped chores get less sex. As always, correlation doesn't imply causation.
I should rephrase what I said above. The idea that men who do more feminine-stereotyped chores get less sex BECAUSE of their choice of chores can't be supported by the paper's findings.
It's my impression that a very large number of women would do anything and everything for a man who is tall and cute and/or muscular, and/or performs well in bed, or simply has a dominant personality and can back up it up with occasional actions and shows of physical and intellectual strength.
P. S. Shows of intellectual strength always have to be of the mature variety and only performed unintentionally, and when called for.
@whtguy1986 well your impression is wrong. women like it when a guy can take care of himself, just look at the poll results for proof!
@Tiffany_Taylor_Made to me it only works like that because i believe in gender roles...
@whtguy1986: That's probably true for some women, but when you say a "very large number" of women, you're saying weasel words. Besides, if a man has all those characteristics that you mentioned, such as a "dominant" personality, he should be dominant enough to do his own chores from time to time as well. In relationships, we want a man, not a son.@TonyMetal___86: I don't think gender roles should apply to basic housekeeping. I feel every adult should be capable of cooking and cleaning.
It's not wrong but i never learned how to do it...If i got married and my wife is a housewife, why should i worry about such things, she does her role and i do mine!
@TonyMetal___86 lmao you just want a mom. learn how to take care of yourself like a man.
@___nik learn what a real man is before talking to me...
@TonyMetal___86 what is a real man then. i consider a real man as a mature dependable person, and if you can't do basic housework when your a middle aged man then there's a bigger problem
A shallow incel disliked it. Yes men can do that too and a female can still be a boss, CEO or anything superior than him.
@Sarahloves19 am i the shallow incel? Who are you talking about?
@TonyMetal___86: You should still know how to do things for yourself, especially at your age. I feel that people should do away with most gender roles in the household and focus more on "adult roles." Every adult should know how to cook, clean, and make the bed, regardless of gender. If you can't do something as simple as chores, it shows that something is wrong and probably indicates an incapability of doing other things as well.
When it comes to men's stuff, i'm successful in my job, i own my house, my car, pay all the bills and can provide for a family and does a lot of things that you can't imagine...You can't measure my skills or talk about me without knowing me, JUST because i do not know how to cook or do thr house chores!
@TonyMetal___86: What you named isn't "men's stuff." That's adult stuff. I also do my job well, own my car, house, and pay bills, as an adult should. I just find it sad that you can supposedly do all that stuff, but you can't cook your own food, make your bed, or wash your own dishes. I really don't get that.
I do agree with you that a person must teach both their male and female kids about the house chores but when i was kid, i wasen't taught so it ain't my mistake and now i can't do them...When someone is married and his wife is a housewife, he have nothing to worry about and if he's not married and his mom snd taking care of all of these than it's fine too...It's a woman's duty, always was and always will ay least for me...I do want my future kids to learn how to do the house chores but still it's a FEMALE duty to me...
@TonyMetal___86: It's basic housekeeping. Keeping things tidy is something that people should know how to do, period. Not every man lives with a woman, yet they still keep their house clean and cook for themselves. A man shouldn't need a woman to do basic things for him. You're a man, not a little boy.
I do my job as a man, i can't do everything!I come home tired and want to rest and NOT to cook and does the house chores!What your calling a little boy is a real man that you wish to have in your dreams!Anyways as you wish little CHICK!
@TonyMetal___86 i also own my house, my car, pay my bills, work my job, and come home and do housework like a responsible adult. who is doing your chores right now? shouldn't you be taking care of yourself? and how are you so sure that the woman you marry wants to become your "housewife"
@___nik my mom does all that, she lives 5 minutes away from me...Well for sure i ain't going to marry a girl who doesn't adores becoming a housewife...Any more questions? 😏
@TonyMetal___86 and you don't feel embarrassed that you're 34 and your mom still does your housework?
@___nik nope i don't, why should i feel embarrassed?That's what a mother does to her son...I was raised like that...
@TonyMetal___86 that's what a mother does to her son until he's a grown man and he learns to take care of himself. . . good luck trying to get a wife.
@___nik well if i was married, my mom would of stopped doing all these but i'm not married now!And thanks for wishing me luck for finding a good wife!
@TonyMetal___86 she should have stopped doing these things for you when you were 18. my mom stopped doing these things for me and my brother when we were still kids, and she taught my brother how to do housework since he was 8. if you were raised in my culture, you would be seen as a disappointment, but i guess i'm happy that your mom still loves you.
@___nik well you know that people are different and not everyone have to be the same, even in the same culture people are different from each other...My mom do love me and i do take care of her and have never left her and i pay for everything and always thank her for what she's doing for me...I'm lucky i guess 🙂I hope that your wishes come true someday, everyone deserves to be happy and live the way they want!
@TonyMetal___86 i respect that. hope you become happy in your future as well!
From the article: "The study has its skeptics. Its data were gathered between 1992 and 1994, making demographer Sharon Sassler of Cornell University wonder about their relevance today. “In the past two decades,” she says, “who gets married has changed considerably.” Today most couples cohabit before marrying, and a large proportion of the women in those couples, Sassler argues, are not satisfied doing a disproportionate share of so-called women's housework. According to Sassler, frequently those couples do not marry, making the set of couples who would qualify for the NSFH today profoundly different from the set in 1992."Forgive me if I don't put much stock in 30-year-old study that, at best, only found a correlation, not a causation.
In addition to what I quoted above, I'd like to emphasize that the paper only found a correlation, not a causation. Another article on the subject says, "Gager has looked at the same data set and found that when tasks aren't segregated into "male" or "female" chores, men who do more housework tend to have sex more often. Given that, it's difficult to conclude that female tasks actually make partners less attracted to each other, and more likely that some other, unexplained factor could explain the link, she said."So no, this article isn't telling men to to fewer feminine-stereotyped chores if you want to get more sex. It's only showing a link.
@Drakkith I appreciate the discussion of the study's boundraries. Thanks!
I'm a huge baby 🤣🤣
I love being a turn off since i'm zero in house chores and consider it a woman's duty, maybe because i believe in gender roles 😏
@TonyMetal___86 Is the culture in Lebanon where the guy makes all the money and the women do all the domestic duties?
@MysteriousDarkness that's true but in this generation, the majority of women works so the majority of women works inside and outside and barely get a hand from their men...I don't care about my culture or any other culture because i simply have my own culture...My culture was present worldwide back in the past...The feminism in my country is spreading like cancer!
@TonyMetal___86 You are pathetic. I read where you said if she could not do it then you would hite a maid once a week and get delivery when it comes to eating until she gets well. Grow up.
@MysteriousDarkness are you jealous you p. o. s? YOUR BLOCKED!
@TonyMetal___86 I am not healous or envious of you.
That's why my girlfriend and I do and it works very well. It's more like tag team, working together without having to ask. Appreciating one anothers gifts. Works well, very happy.
Do you have a tub for sterilizing dishes?
@Ryfyle lol nah I have a sink and a dishwasher. I barely use my dishwasher though cause of the chemicals it uses to clean the dishes
@Apple1996 Like soap? Sure there's a bunch enzymes in dish washer detergent but there not bad enough to waste gallons of water washing by hand.
@Apple1996 ladies like you won't have a problem with me at all since i know nothing about the house chores and i'll only marry a girl who adores becoming a housewife...
@Ryfyle it doesn't matter to me if it waste water
@TonyMetal___86 Haha yeah you need a good housewife!
True miss apples 😊
@Apple1996 Fresh Water is starting to become scarce and some folks don't have the luxury. Just keep that in mind.
@Ryfyle yeah I get that. When I lived in Texas it was a issue since it barely rains but here where I live we get lots of rain and flood. We have lots of water so no biggie to waste
I dont believe this personally. If you read the question it says "stereotyped". In other words, work in the home environment prejudged as more feminine than say changing a tire.
I love it when a woman knows her gender role duties...😏
Haha I’m sure you do them well too
Ofc i do my role very well 😌That's why i'll never marry a girl who doesn't adores becoming a housewife...
That’s fine for you. And I’m pretty happy with my husband who shares basic adult household tasks.
Good for you and i'm happy for you too as long as it makes both of you happy and you both have agreed on it, no problem! 😌
For you ladies who downvoted me, I actually wish this was NOT true. I’m definitely no slob by any means.
I think my point is he volunteers without prompting during a date. Makes him sexier no?
It's expected. If he just sat there, I'd leave.
Lol I work 80 hours a week I’m not doing dishes...
@VanillaSalt Sad that you expect a woman to do it. She might work the same.
@VanillaSalt You sound like a entitled male that's looking for a slave. Nothing new of course.
There is a big difference between being lazy and not caring if your home is a bit dirty. All men comes around to it eventually they just don't put it high on the priority. The busier he is the dirtier the home becomes. Since the need for a cleaning is lower then the work he does.
I've met a few high maintenance guys. I prefer to pick up as I go when I can.
I don't make a mess in the first place, and you don't pickup dirt and fat and such. You need to clean it eventually.
Yes so true. Every grown person should be laid back but clean too
Ok.. but its not a dishes question. Whats your answer?
I don't think it matters. Chores are shared in our house. It's not something either of us think about.
I know. The key word is "stereotype"
I now grass
The mower appears to be off. This incenses me greatly, as I have master the art of mowing since my early teens.
@Ryfyle that's awesome
Thank you for pointing out it’s not “feminine labor”. I own my own place and I rent out to two other guys. Us cleaning up after ourselves is not “feminine labor”. It’s common f*cking courtesy. But what that said there really is something about messy “ I don’t give a shit” type guys that sadly turn on women.
@guesswhoseback I don’t know what women you’re taking about. I have never met any woman that prefers filthy men.
I can remember back in college seeing plenty of guys who had really dirty rooms who got plenty of action. I guess it’s because they had a “I don’t give a shit” attitude vs cleaner guys who were “too nice”. Anyway.
@guesswhoseback it’s probably not because they were filthy, it’s probably because they were physically attractive or had a high social standing.
I think it’s more about having a “I don’t give a shit attitude”. If he had the place very clean he can come off as uptight or worse trying to impress her. I say all this because I take pride in keeping my place and myself clean. Yet I feel like it works against me with women.
@guesswhoseback A clean man is definitely preferred
Really? Well what if she's a housewife?
The average household is NOT financially secure enough that only one partner is staying home and the other is working. If that is the case, then I would venture to guess to make it fair that the partner that stays home will take care of the home and the partner bringing in the money is working ridiculous hours to provide for a single family household alone.
Thanks for your fair answer, i personally don't have to work for a very long hours because if i got married, my wife needs my presence and i do need so i'll try to get enough money but at the same time be their with her and my family as much as i can because no matter what happens the wife and family always comes 1st and they will be my everything!
I really wish every woman was like this. All i want is to serve a woman and all they want is relationship equality.
What do you mean by he can't even clean his sh*t?I know nothing about house chores and if i get married i'll search for a girl who adores becoming a housewife, where's the problem if a wife is a housewife? She does all the house chores and cooks while her husband, works outside, pay the bills, takes good care of his family and provide for his wife!
That is what i mean. He literally can't clean his own garbage. He also did not have a job. doing household chores/cooking is surviving skills. What are you gonna do, if your wife broke her leg/arm which need many months to get healed. My cousins wife could not do any household chores or could not look after the kids in a proper way and for his husband this was like a hell since he dont know a shit about doing household chores or caring about little kids
My cousin's wife broke her leg**
I'll hire a maid once a week and order delivery until she gets well...
I'll take good care of her until she heals...
A man cannot ask his wife to do all the house chores and cooking if she ain't a housewife, if they work both outside than it must be 50/50
Not everyone has money to hire a maid. If you are that rich, go ahead. Lol. I respect your preferences. Ohh i alson agree with your last replied. You seem like a great guy
Thanks 😊Well i'm not rich, i'm just a middle class citizen but what can i do other than that? I have no choice if such a thing happens...Well i'm always fair when it comes to genders, i just have my owns ways and my own little world!Personally i'll never marry a girl who doesn't adores becoming a housewife 😌Thanks again for your sweet words 🙂
Each their own. It is perfectly fine if you prefere a housewife. I personally prefere a man who can cook/do household chores like me and would not marry a guy who can't do this. In the end each their own.
That's right, people are just different and each person have his or her own preferences...As long as they are happy and agreed with each other about how are they going to live their lives together then there is nothing wrong with that!
For the most part yeah lol
The cause of the rise of strong and independent men and women 😁