Worst rejection story?

Question

I was into this dude that was pretty desperate to get into a relationship. He said he didn't want to be single anymore, so I figured why not shoot my shot, he's pretty eager to get into a relationship. After I told him I liked him, he found an excuse why we couldn't date. This probably isn't my worst story but it's the most recent and it stings because he basically was trying to get whoever he could and still wouldn't date me.

Share your stories with me so I don't feel so alone.

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The other day I found this quote "Rejection is not as personal as it feels. Liking someone or being liked is more about compatability than inherent worth."

Answer 1

taeh_ie2

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So I confessed my feelings to my 2 year long crush at school and he said he liked me back but he lied, So he went on his Snap talking a whole lotta shit about me saying that he never liked me and he was gonna dump me in 2 days, so I found out and broke up with him the day we dated, And so my first boyfriend dated me for 8 hours and broke up with me the day we got together.

Hope that was good enough. :)

lovelyhoneybones

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Wow. Dude is a total ass holes. I don't know what's wrong with teenagers but esh. I hope you've healed from that.
taeh_ie2

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Yeah I have healed and learned I don’t need to waste my time on douchebags.
lovelyhoneybones

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Glad to hear. Nobody deserves to be treated like that.

Answer 2

lovelyhoneybones

Wow. Dude is a total ass holes. I don't know what's wrong with teenagers but esh. I hope you've healed from that.

Answer 3

taeh_ie2

Yeah I have healed and learned I don’t need to waste my time on douchebags.

Answer 4

lovelyhoneybones

Glad to hear. Nobody deserves to be treated like that.

Answer 5

cxepali

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Im single for almost 17 years! Am i sad? Pffff.. yes (ops). But i dont think you need this guy, he isn't ur destiny for being sad. Come on here are 7 billions of people and you are sad by one frick? DUDDDEEEE you will meet someone better. Come on! Smile!

lovelyhoneybones

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Lol you're so nice. Thank you, that made me smile

Answer 6

lovelyhoneybones

Lol you're so nice. Thank you, that made me smile

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Random_Guy_Online | 246 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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That's noooothing. I get rejected pretty regularly, so I've gotten kinda numb with it 😂. When I was in highschool after school, I cold approached this girl and pretty much small talked with her for like a minute or two. At the end, I asked for her number, but she wanted to take my number instead. I gave it to her, but she "forgot to click the save button in her phone to save the number". That's what I heard from one of her friends, but I knew that was B. S.. I can laugh about it now though 🤦‍♂️haha

Answer 8

Anonymous

Oh, honey. I was single from 2013 to 2017 and not for lack of trying. When girls walk around corners and see me, they literally jump in fear. I'm not joking, it happens constantly. At least people bother to make up excuses for you. lol Hopefully that makes you feel better, but you're certainly not alone in being rejected.

lovelyhoneybones

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Why do they get scared? Are you big and tall?
Opinion Owner

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I'm big, but not tall. Guess I just got that face. Though not as big as I was, I guess. Been trying to work on that. Hard enough getting a date when you're 5'7'' but also 250 pounds? Not actually surprising it wasn't happening.
lovelyhoneybones

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That's my issue too. I'm really short but overweight. I'm currently working on that. Not solely so guys will like me but so that I will like myself and I'll also be a healthy weight.
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Opinion Owner

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I feel like being short is more often considered cute for girls, so that might actually work to your advantage. Best of luck to you losing weight. I'm about halfway to my target weight, now. Though if I'm being honest, I didn't mind being fat. It was nice eating whatever I wanted. lol
lovelyhoneybones

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Thank you. LOOOL that's my problem too, I'd rather just eat whatever I want but now it's more of a health thing. I've seen how much your stomach can hold and over eating isn't good, it's bad for your overall body and health. I hope your weight loss journey continues going well.

Answer 9

lovelyhoneybones

Why do they get scared? Are you big and tall?

Answer 10

Opinion Owner

I'm big, but not tall. Guess I just got that face. Though not as big as I was, I guess. Been trying to work on that. Hard enough getting a date when you're 5'7'' but also 250 pounds? Not actually surprising it wasn't happening.

Answer 11

lovelyhoneybones

That's my issue too. I'm really short but overweight. I'm currently working on that. Not solely so guys will like me but so that I will like myself and I'll also be a healthy weight.

Answer 12

Opinion Owner

I feel like being short is more often considered cute for girls, so that might actually work to your advantage. Best of luck to you losing weight. I'm about halfway to my target weight, now. Though if I'm being honest, I didn't mind being fat. It was nice eating whatever I wanted. lol

Answer 13

lovelyhoneybones

Thank you. LOOOL that's my problem too, I'd rather just eat whatever I want but now it's more of a health thing. I've seen how much your stomach can hold and over eating isn't good, it's bad for your overall body and health. I hope your weight loss journey continues going well.

Answer 14

Anonymous

Rejection is not as bad as “dating” or being in unfulfilling relationships for months/years and then getting rejected and discarded as if it were nothing. Therefore, rejection doesn’t bother me at all. The sooner the better however of course. More women reject than men so men think they have it hard. But it is so much work dealing with the psychological implications of being played, used for sex, or lead on to believe someone wanted a serious relationship with you.

Random_Guy_Online

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Let's say you were dating this guy for 2 years that you loved, and he broke up with you. You'd probably feel upset about it, but at least you had 2 years of fun memories. I don't know about you, but if I had the choice, I would much rather choose to be in a few long term relationships in my life that end at some point rather than never get to experience love and constantly experience rejection everytime.
Opinion Owner

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That’s the difference between me and you. I don’t date “for fun.” The aim for me is to find a lifelong partner and have life long memories not temporary fun and fooling around. Getting attached to people and then abandoned over and over is not healthy for mental health which is why I keep my circle small. You want to experience sex and have your ego boosted by as many people as people which is why you want multiple relationships with multiple different people and rejection hurts you.
Random_Guy_Online

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I didn't mention anything about sex. Also, I want a lifelong relationship too, if I find a person good enough to be in that kind of relationship with. I'd choose a lifelong relationship over a short term one.

I was just saying that having a good relationship that gets cut short is better than not having any relationships at all, in my opinion. This is because you at least get to experience good memories and love for the former scenario.

Also women can discard men in a relationship too. It's not just men discarding women. Women leave me for "better" guys all the time.
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Opinion Owner

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“A good relationship that gets cut short” if it was a good relationship why would it get cut short?
Random_Guy_Online

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If something unexpected happens. Like he dies, has to move far away for whatever reason so that you're too far for it to work out, lots of stuff could happen
Opinion Owner

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Hahah but that’s a rare case and we are not talking about that. 🤦🏽‍♀️ Also if you guys are madly in love distance shouldn’t stop anything.

Answer 15

Random_Guy_Online

Let's say you were dating this guy for 2 years that you loved, and he broke up with you. You'd probably feel upset about it, but at least you had 2 years of fun memories. I don't know about you, but if I had the choice, I would much rather choose to be in a few long term relationships in my life that end at some point rather than never get to experience love and constantly experience rejection everytime.

Answer 16

Opinion Owner

That’s the difference between me and you. I don’t date “for fun.” The aim for me is to find a lifelong partner and have life long memories not temporary fun and fooling around. Getting attached to people and then abandoned over and over is not healthy for mental health which is why I keep my circle small. You want to experience sex and have your ego boosted by as many people as people which is why you want multiple relationships with multiple different people and rejection hurts you.

Answer 17

Random_Guy_Online

I didn't mention anything about sex. Also, I want a lifelong relationship too, if I find a person good enough to be in that kind of relationship with. I'd choose a lifelong relationship over a short term one.

I was just saying that having a good relationship that gets cut short is better than not having any relationships at all, in my opinion. This is because you at least get to experience good memories and love for the former scenario.

Also women can discard men in a relationship too. It's not just men discarding women. Women leave me for "better" guys all the time.

Answer 18

Opinion Owner

“A good relationship that gets cut short” if it was a good relationship why would it get cut short?

Answer 19

Random_Guy_Online

If something unexpected happens. Like he dies, has to move far away for whatever reason so that you're too far for it to work out, lots of stuff could happen

Answer 20

Opinion Owner

Hahah but that’s a rare case and we are not talking about that. 🤦🏽‍♀️ Also if you guys are madly in love distance shouldn’t stop anything.

Answer 21

Jjpayne | 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

I'd say for me, simply being on dating apps with no messages back or interest from girls 😔

lovelyhoneybones

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Rip man. That's why I don't do dating sites. They're too... pointless?
Jjpayne

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It's tough because what do you do past that, especially during covid 🤔😅
lovelyhoneybones

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Covid is an excuse not to date. ;)
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Jjpayne

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I see 🤔

Answer 22

lovelyhoneybones

Rip man. That's why I don't do dating sites. They're too... pointless?

Answer 23

Jjpayne

It's tough because what do you do past that, especially during covid 🤔😅

Answer 24

lovelyhoneybones

Covid is an excuse not to date. ;)

Answer 25

Jjpayne

I see 🤔

Answer 26

doctord00m

Xper 3

Wow, great story. I also once dated someone, and then it ended.

lovelyhoneybones

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You still have time to get back on the horse

Answer 27

lovelyhoneybones

You still have time to get back on the horse

Answer 28

Anonymous

She rejects you over 8 bbcs she was dying to bang all night.

lovelyhoneybones

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Can't say I blame her.
Opinion Owner

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She trying to get knocked Up / pregnant from them. She's in her late 30s. Also a lot of women in their late 30s are on deadlines / very desperate to get pregnant.
Opinion Owner

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After that rejected I just stopped looking but when I stop looking they start coming to me but they still go to someone else. I just ignore them now.
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lovelyhoneybones

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Maybe it's your mindset. You'll find someone.
Opinion Owner

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Nah. Im Fine, too many years of disappointments and heartbrokens is enough for me
lovelyhoneybones

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Okay! Whatever suits you and makes you happy. Best of luck to ya!
Opinion Owner

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Much appreciated.
Opinion Owner

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At least the impractical jokers cheering me up.
lovelyhoneybones

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They cheer everyone up. Very funny guys.
Opinion Owner

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I just finished first and second seasons. I'm on the third right now. Their punishments just cracks me up sometimes. Lol

Answer 29

lovelyhoneybones

Can't say I blame her.

Answer 30

Opinion Owner

She trying to get knocked Up / pregnant from them. She's in her late 30s. Also a lot of women in their late 30s are on deadlines / very desperate to get pregnant.

Answer 31

Opinion Owner

After that rejected I just stopped looking but when I stop looking they start coming to me but they still go to someone else. I just ignore them now.

Answer 32

lovelyhoneybones

Maybe it's your mindset. You'll find someone.

Answer 33

Opinion Owner

Nah. Im Fine, too many years of disappointments and heartbrokens is enough for me

Answer 34

lovelyhoneybones

Okay! Whatever suits you and makes you happy. Best of luck to ya!

Answer 35

Opinion Owner

Much appreciated.

Answer 36

Opinion Owner

At least the impractical jokers cheering me up.

Answer 37

lovelyhoneybones

They cheer everyone up. Very funny guys.

Answer 38

Opinion Owner

I just finished first and second seasons. I'm on the third right now. Their punishments just cracks me up sometimes. Lol

Answer 39

Alexalex92 | 95 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

Aww... Don't be sad because of this. It's not worth it :)
For many years now womens friendzone me, some i kept as friends and some were acting like I was the worst person in the world meanwhile I didn't done anything wrong.

Answer 40

Diamold

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It seems he was desperate to be with someone, but he wasn't ready for a relationship. I bet when he realised he didn't want that, that's when he made up an excuse

Answer 41

TallAnon | 1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

When they never directly say no, leaves you doubting for way too long

Answer 42

Slim57 | 2.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

My life pretty much

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