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Not true. If people wanted sex they don't necessarily need a relationship. They get MARRIED. People with your mindset get into relationships to have sex but is often never happy. A stable relationship needs people who are
1: Happy people
2: Desire a bond, union
3. Desire to love and wants to be loved equally
4. A future with a life partner
Not everybody who gets into relationships is friends but sex partners. But not every sex partner is a lover either. And not everybody was friends before dating or having sex. So you're very much wrong. You just want sex. So let's not talk about other people. At least say that instead of saying you want a relationship. A woman needs LOVE. A woman chooses to have sex or not to. But women don't just have sex with ANY guy. If you are not genetically and biologically compatible based on your physical appearance they won't lay with you. And they won't lay with risky men unless they're risky women.
"People date to have sex" And now you know why the divorce rate is so high, abuse, etc high, abortion high, and miserable marriages? And why 70% of divorces are by women? Because you men still to this very date don't get it. We are not born and here for your pleasure, and pleasure only. We're human beings, with feelings, emotions, and desires of our own. We are not here to be given into your pleasures. But to forsake them for our benefit and love us as we should love you. And we give our bodies out of love for YOU. How can we love you if we don't know you? But the women your seeking don't find you sexually attractive. So therefore you stuck. If you don't want love, don't waste her time if your not even remotely attractive to her. Simple as that.
"How many people would be in relationships if wasn't involved?" You never know. Sex is meant to be discovered not uncovered. I know to wait until marriage to have sex. If I wanted sex, why wait? Might as well be a whore, but why should I be loyal to you and only YOU? Choices. Sex is not the same and neither is it the same experience for everybody. Some people hate sex. That doesn't make them asexual. Not everybody is meant to have sex. But it is supposed to be a couple who is married between a man and a woman. When you make those vows and commitments, the first commandment is LOVE. People want love but desire sex. You don't get it. Not every woman desires sex the same. You don't want love. So why expect a woman to just hand you over sex? You are not their husband.
That's why the Bible says, especially in KJV, and he KNOWN her, and she was KNOWN. Sex is deeper than just physical. It's spiritual. It is an EXCHANGE of something. Similar to how you exchange gifts, like, Christmas. Your parents buy you gifts, you accept it or you don't, right? Are you forced to like or want the gift? No. That's sex too. IT may not be what you were taught of it, but that's sex. You can love it or hate it. Women can have sex as much as she wants. But if she hates having sex with a certain man, sex becomes sour for her. That's why there are rules, laws, morals, principals, standards, and why we're called to integrity, and righteousness and living our lives for God through Christ. But for you people, it's too religious. You act like barbarians yet you expect to have anything human from your actions. So I don't see what is the excuse you can't just pay for an escort? It's wrong, but who are you to judge if women are worth it when you already see us like human sex toys anyway? People made vows to each other before having sex. That's marriage. And once you make those vows you don't break them. So why have a girlfriend if your sole purpose is sex? Might as well play your video games if your that shallow. But don't be surprised if women are shallow of you. In the end, no matter who they are, they will have sex with whoever they WANT. And its hypocritical of you to assume that.
No, it's not. That's marriage. That is not a relationship. A relationship is however you make it. And you either make it bliss or misery for other people. Sounds like you have nothing to offer.
Trust me, buddy. Feminists are the very women you go after with free sex and then you don't want to touch them. Hypocricy. "But part of being in a relationship and actually a big part is sex" Nope. That's your obsessive behind who's probably made and bitter he's still a virgin.
Like I said. Sex is a desire. That doesn't want everybody wants or need. But something people do because it bonds us together to a person. This is why so many women are miserable and unhappy and can forgo sex all her life if she wants. While for men, it's tougher, because your born to desire sex. But you don't even know what love is or what sex is. You think that sex is just a penis in a vagina. Or oral or anal sex. It's not. Once you have sex, you become one forever. It's not a game or a joke. Women are not much work. You're just lazy and expect things to be handed to you.
"Why should i feel like i need to offer anything to other humans? Humans aren't gods that can kill me with a snap of a finger so why should i have to prove myself to them?" So why do you need us? This is hilarious. Man, seriously. Get a life. Not joking. There is more to life than having sex. I'm a virgin. I know. I ain't having sex with random men because of lack o self-control. I have better control than that. I said this before. It is an EXCHANGE of something. If you offer no stability, protection, provisions, etc a woman is not looking your way. that's what hookers and escorts for. Your so-called pleasure. But you're using them just to use them. Not all women want to be used. And not every woman in that industry asked to be there. It's WRONG. Not my fault you don't like that or the reality.
Women are not supposed to be hookers, or escorts or prostitutes, bed warmers, a whore, slut, whatever. She is supposed to be somebody's WIFE. And not everybody is given to wife but to be used by men. God created us to be taken CARE of. Just like we have pets. And children, and when you have plants. To be taken care of. Take of pets, they are loyal. Take care of your children, they grow up to take care of you. Take care of your plants and they won't just live, they give you oxygen to breathe. EVERYTHING in this life has VALUE. Including YOU. You treat women low because you feel unloved and low yourself. You lack confidence, self-esteem, love, and probably weren't loved much, maybe abandoned, bullied, lied to, raped God forbid, starved, abused, I don't know your life. But I do know you need the love of God, and Jesus in your life. And most of all, your deliverance from whatever is plaguing you. Because you refuse to see, that sex is part of YOU. It is YOU. And if you not healthy as a person you like food poisoning. You can be pleasing to the eye, but once somebody takes a bite they'll get a stomach ache and God forbid wants to spit you out. It's that serious. Figure your life out. Because I don't even think you even have that locked down yet.
Don't judge. It's because of men like you they don't know what else is out there. Nothing funny to feel like your a slave. They really don't want that. They just feel that is all that matters in life. The hell is wrong with you?
You would be so surprised how broken down these women and young girls. Let a guy like Aragon from the Lord of the Ring series show up and picked one. Watch how many would change from that lifestyle if they never got in it. But even they know they 9/10x he wouldn't because of what they did. But even so, they would have to change and really desire change to work out of it. You have to work out your salvation with trembling and fear.
Here is a question for your intelligent brain: How can they know any different if that is all they have been exposed to and all they've seen and known? I don't agree with it. I know it's whorish. And it is. It's their choice at the end of the day. But. If only one man shows her love she wouldn't be that woman anymore. She wouldn't even want to be that. Some are more sensitive to influence than others. I grew up around abuse, yelling, screaming, get slapped by people. Hit with a belt, smoking depending on whom, but where I lived at people smoked. Drank, seeing people getting shot at in the streets. Violent fights every summer. Police cars everywhere, hearing girls being raped, or killed. Drugs. And yet. I never smoked. I never drank, I never did drugs, Or had sex. I never shot anybody. The only problem is yelled because nobody heard you with a meek voice. I screamed because I got tired of getting hurt, getting bullied, fights I hated, people getting hurt, me getting beaten, or falsely accused. And while I did only slap 1 person I cared about, I didn't do it to hurt him. But because I was upset at what he said. It was still wrong. But I never hit somebody with my belt. I didn't go out there having sex. I don't even watch porn or masturbate. Yet I was exposed to adult things very young. Only once did I watch something that I didn't know was leading into porn, and I turned it off EVENTUALLY. But never did I entertain it. No matter how much of an adult or experienced you are. It's still wrong, highly perverted, and can screw up your mind if you're not able to block it out. Women desire to be loved. But they don't know what love is for and with a man. Your only told, and women if not taught the things of God and of a Godly man and family, don't know that and get tricked. The world plays on sex and prey on the young to brainwash people. Many don't even know they're conditioned. Even your brainwashed.
Because you would have an even smart answer for somebody around my age about why women go to only fans whoring themselves. You're not a woman. Just like I am not a man. You don't know what hell women go through to even have to fight to KEEP 1 man interested.
You men don't have to do that. You only need to know your worth as a man, and eventually, you get women interested especially if you have something to offer. A woman doesn't need to. She needs just be a woman and a man picks whatever woman pleases his eyes. That's it. If a man cares about her value, he would focus on more than just her body. He would try to get to get to know her and her soul.
Funny. It is no field. You're either going to date a person or you're not it doesn't matter who gets rejected more than the other. The question as I said in the beginning what is your reason to be dating? If you have no logical reason then don't worry about all that craziness. Life isn't all about you. You're just as selfish as those you want to try to attract. Then you get rejected then you complain about rejection.
You don't take life seriously that's why you get rejected the way you do is bad enough this world is wicked and evil as it is. People want to know why bad things happen to good people. What you doing one of the top 10 reasons why.
Well whose fault is that? Is not our fault that's yours. Nobody tells you to walk up the strangers that you don't know and ask him out and then complaining about why you don't get picked. Men do the same thing. You got jealous or something You Ain't Woman? complain to God. I'm a woman. I don't ask to get harassed by men.
You don't have to do anything you don't want to do. Just like we don't have to do anything we don't want to do. Stop trying to force relationships on people parrot a woman can't force a relationship with you just like you cannot force a relationship with us. If I don't want to date a person I don't have to date them. I don't think strangers in the first place. And never would I be dating somebody I am not compatible with and don't know. Especially a selfish person. If you're not going to serve God, if you're not going to wait for marriage to have sex, if you're not going to respect my rules, if you're not going to respect my desires, if you're not going to want to be my friend, don't even bother looking my way. You don't want a relationship. You want to hop into a woman's drawers you can't get into a panties then you going to have to the next woman who offers. Any woman who refuses to offer you what you want then you want to talk about how women are the problem. Something is really wrong with you crazy men today. And it's giving good men a bad name.
Please!!! I'm not all that attractive myself and you think I care about that? No. Because I know that God made me the way he designed me and he made me beautiful no dividend he makes everybody beautiful. You think it's all about your physical appearance well it's not. I've rejected handsome men to any type of man. Because I'm not interested in being involved with a man. I'm not lesbian either I just don't want a relationship. I don't wait for anybody to approach me because I'm not even looking for anybody. Goes to show you where your brain is at.
A woman is not approaching men simply because we're just scared of a personal rejection is because we don't want to invest in a man who's not going to take care of us and treated like garbage. You men only approaches for one thing and that is for sex. You don't have to worry about all the craziness that woman has to go through because you're not a woman. They are so cool ugly men and women that get into relationships just fine. The problem has nothing to do with your physical appearance it just has to do with you as a person. There's something about you are the person that's a turnoff to everybody. And you don't see the reason why look how you respond. You respond as if a person owes you something. The world don't owe you anything. You owe it to yourself to be a decent human being. Learn from me who's been the loan her entire life and never dated ever. Learn to appreciate life in the life that God give you to the complain about what you don't have.
You just better. I don't know if he was loved much by yo mama if she's alive, or your father's he's around, or anybody when you grew up. But you need to stop at this crap as if anybody owes you anything. A relationship is a mutual intent. People that are so bad they're going to do what they're going to do just like you. You can't complain about something you already do yourself. If you want a real relationship with a person you need to stop being selfish and learn to form relationships with other people. Stop making friends with other people. Befriend women. Get to know a woman. Understand who she is as a person, where she fits in your life. What can you do to better Elevate and help her, what can she do this she wants to do for you, and then you build a relationship with each other is that is what you to desire. It is not going the way how you think it goes. Sure most people want somebody very attractive but that's because they want sex with that person. That's all. If they don't need sex like that spend not going to bother too much they're going to be concerned about actually having a relationship with other people and that person. And if it's meant for them to be in a relationship then they will be in a relationship. The kind of relationship you expecting leave you to misery. And it's bad enough you already miserable. It is not for miserable people. Just like marriage is not for unhappy people. It won't change until you learn to change. Everybody at some point have rejected somebody. There were women that were interested in you that you won't like it did not pay attention to all rejected. And the woman that you did want physically they did not want you. So grow the hell up
You got serious issues man and I suggest you get some psychological help. Seriously get the help you need before you God forbid do something you're going to regret, and become one of those crazy psychos going around raping and killing women because they can't get a woman. In the words of my grandmother you better stop while you're still ahead.
The reality is simply this, your physical appearance aside. You overall have nothing to offer in a relationship. You don't sound like a person that is fit in a quick for relationship. You are too stubborn and about yourself, and you're not stable minded that unstableness is going to make someone else miserable. Even if you want to get anybody with you. That person eventually going to want to stay away from you in the cheat because you're that unhealthy. That doesn't make them right. But it will say a lot about what kind of relationship you have. Live your life and stop complaining about what you don't have. There are people that literally grew up with nothing and a learned to be content with what they got. You on this Earth for a reason and you have to learn whatever lessons you have to learn
Who are you to judge God when you don't even know God? First away how you're talking, you don't sound like you're somebody who even read the Bible properly.
God is not fair to him. He very much exists. He don't kill his own creations. But he does what he has to do if it means preserving the human race. But not everybody is sadly of his creation. There's a lot of things you don't know. The people that you think on human and not even human. And first of all don't be saying things that he may not have even done. First of all. No. It's not that God make us knowing that we would fail. It's because we would have raced out of all the other races in the universe that failed. You know nothing man.
God is not a fairytale*
We were the race out of all the other races in the universe that have failed*
You literally have no idea what craziness is going on down here on this Earth. If you don't want to serve God that's your choice. But that does not give you the right to disrespect him let alone his rules. And then think you're above everybody else.
I do read the Old Testament. But I don't read it the way how you do. You don't know what these people were. You don't even know who you are or what you are. It was just to show how very ignorant you are do not know there were other races of people down here besides human beings? Not everybody down here it's you and Buddy. And when God had to destroy certain people he did it for his own reasons because he knows. He knows the entire makeup of any species, any creature, anyways, and any type of person. Ben and unless you give personal statement of scriptures, and I don't mean picking one or two versus you want to pick. I mean chapter after chapter that you want to point out where you want to State your case. Because I can tell you right now. Some things God did and other things he allowed in certain things he did not do. so I only can hope you have an education higher than Elementary School.
So before you want to try to disrespect God and took about what he does, you better look out what your so-called kind of because you even own kind wants you dead. You forget to see and understand it is a system down here A system that will use you, abuse you, and then take you to the slaughter house. Why do you think we got abortions? Disease? Rape? Ancient Babylonians kill people. Ancient Assyrians destroyed people. The Egyptians kill people. The Greeks, Romans , Persians, do you world history man. You will say they were far worse things on this planet done that God had to rectify and make right.
You send your own self to hell. God can do it, but that's depending on what he does what he does for. I'm not God I'm not going to tell God what to do. There is a sin that is unto death and there is a sin that is not unto death. You follow the rules what do you think you do or don't. There's laws of gravity. Just laws of physics, the laws concerning life. You're born and you die. If you don't eat you starve to death. If you don't have fluids you dehydrate and you die. Cancer spreads. Disease kill. Are they not laws that everybody follow? So your following laws whether you like it or not. I suggest you read the Code of Hammurabi. Before you want to start complaining about God's rules and laws. At least God tells you to have to have forgiveness. Hammurabi wouldn't forgive you if you cross him. You stole from somebody, you either pay up or you die. You didn't go to jail. You just died. You better know what the hell you talkin about. Because you sound like you're not even educated. I just learned about the Code of Hammurabi. And it's funny how you people talk so much about God yet you want to live like the Assyrian and the Babylonian.
God loves you enough to tell you to change from your ways and come of him instead of being in the system and the system kills you anyway. You in The Matrix buddy, and agent Smith is everywhere. Like Morpheus said, you have to take the blue pill or red pill what you going to do? Stay in The Matrix or get out? Your choice.
Here is the question. What god are you talkin about? Because it's not the God of Abraham Isaac and Jacob alpha and omega beginning and the end.
Cuz I can tell you, you are most definitely blue pill and still wants to be blue. God is real. But the Matrix is telling you that he's not. You think this is reality this is not reality. It's like Inception a Dream Within A Dream. It's that we can feel, we can taste, we have our senses. And you can die. That's why God said walk by faith and not by sight. Walk in the spirit and not your flesh. Because what you see can be deceiving. And what you feel may not be real. That's why the Bible also says to keep your mind. Because if you don't keep your mind you're going to lose it.
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