I'm offering her dinner, do I risk her getting the wrong idea?

[hahahmm]

You must think she's a retard... she wouldn't be staying late without any provisions for eating. She either brought money or packed food to eat.

She could think you're a retard which is why she claims not to have money and that she decided to work several hours past dinner time without food.

Let's say she has zero food, zero money and she honestly was going to work several hours without food. She sounds tough. You should man up and be as strong a her. How hard could it be?

[lightbulb27]

I'm too nice and generous to people especially women and I've had to learn. If in relationship, you gotta keep a distance from opposite sex. If you are dating, you are even more attractive to some because they feel more secure given someone else wants you. they'd love to unseat that other female.

So you can buy dinner on the business and keep it professional. what's important is keep emotional distance. I'm terrible at that and trying to learn. But you better learn as well.

[yessitsonanpoppin]

Yes. not because of you, but because that’s often a move guys will make when they are into the girl. I think it depends on how you act mainly. If you tell her « let me take you out to dinner » it might seem like it, but if you are working on the project and get hungry without making it a big deal I’m sure it’d be all right.

[psychoticanimallover]

Say it like this:

’Right, let’s order some food, bitch. You’re pretty damn poor, aren’t ya, so I guess it’s on me lol great, well whatever.”

She’ll be under no illusion that you’re into her.

[robertKugler]

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Dinner is on.,... um actually when she says ok dinner still may be not quite on... damn it .. can't assume shit like that ...

Ya I'd call her.. ya... if ya need more um... ya chow

[Static_In_The_Attic]

That was a very nice offering when it comes to dinner & that was very nice of her to offer to buy dinner next time as well. If you ever feel she is getting the wrong idea just be open & honest with her as well.

[lordskull69]

present it properly but not in a way that would also be insulting. like hey how about I get some grub and we could kick back and eat like a couple of buds. or something like that.

[Mamaganja]

Yeah. I invited to cook for a guy before who I game with and he definitely got the wrong idea when he came over. I’ve just been stir crazy and wanted some company lol

[MrStitch]

Depends on her interpretation, I’ve had lunch with girls I’ve done projects with in the past, but it was just on a friendly basis.

[InferiorElegy]

Yes, even if you see here as a sexless object like a lamp and only treat her as a sister or just a friend, offering her dinner or anything could lead her to think that you have ulterior motives for doing such.

[Anonymous]

Jeez bud, I don't know. It's not like you are obsessed with her and every little question you have been asking in the past weeks is about her.

It's not like she's seemingly really friendly and likes you on some level, and you LIKE it (and her) despite you saying the contrary.

Stop bullshitting us (and yourself) and just admit you got a soft spot for this girl. Or got hard somewhere else.
Get a grip, be a man and make a decision. Stop giving her mixed signals.

[Skankhunt]

Yes, you should be upfront with her. Tell her it's not a date, but just go out as friends. What if she likes you, but you don't tell her it just having dinner as friends.

[Twalli]

Ask if she wants something because you're getting some so if she wants anything you can grab it for her and she doesn't have to worry about paying.

[CMC93]

It's a nice thing to do and very thoughtful of you since you said she doesn't have much money, but if your not into her, it might not be a good idea as it could give off the wrong impression.

[Synikal]

Dude... It's just good, not a ring. No one says no to free food. Could just say why your offering to be nice. Many people have been in the same situation of lack of funds to do so.

[doctord00m]

Possibly. Depends her personality. If she shows any feminist or SJW inclinations I'd say eat alone.

[msc545]

Don't. Just don't. She will definitely get the wrong idea

[Jamie05rhs]

That depends. Who is this person?

[slatyb]

No, it's just courteous. Don't worry about it.

[Dongtai]

What’s wrong with her thinking you’re into her?

[Omar5881]

Depends on the vibe you give tbh

[Unit1]

Who is she?

[Kelly00000]

Know