Is it attractive if the person you are dating has had sex with 20 people or your date has sex with 1-2 people? ? Or is it all subjective?

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Because on one hand you may have to teach the person with less partners & the other one can just get in the grove, fuck you how you like?

I have zero partner's under my belt and I am 25 so I'm wondering if it's attractive or just seems off?

Answer 1

Avicenna | 8.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Remember that a woman dates a person. Stop focusing on all this extraneous stuff and find someone who appreciates you while you get yourself to where you want to be.
The thing you need to watch out for are the opinions of her friends and possibly her family, mostly females. They’re the most judgementsl.

poneglyphs

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Really can a girls friend be super judgmental over the guy they wanna date? Also, why are they like this?
Avicenna

15 d
Absolutely. And they’ll sometimes even tell them which guys to approach, especially on dating apps.
Avicenna

15 d
Thanks for the mho
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poneglyphs

15 d
Really damm that sucks so much. So the biggest problem are the the girl girlfriends and not the person you're dating?
Avicenna

15 d
Not necessarily, it’s just that they do talk about this, especially if she’s had trouble meeting someone she likes. The female friends and family are the ones most likely to find fault with you because they’re often deciding on the basis of whether they’d Date you (hypothetically), so if you don’t meet THEIR expectations, they think their friend or family member shouldn’t date you. This can sometimes be totally ridiculous.
poneglyphs

15 d
oh, shit well I never thought about this at all.
poneglyphs

15 d
Do you think that's why guys don't wanna date anymore?

Answer 2

poneglyphs

Really can a girls friend be super judgmental over the guy they wanna date? Also, why are they like this?

Answer 3

Avicenna

Absolutely. And they’ll sometimes even tell them which guys to approach, especially on dating apps.

Answer 4

Avicenna

Thanks for the mho

Answer 5

poneglyphs

Really damm that sucks so much. So the biggest problem are the the girl girlfriends and not the person you're dating?

Answer 6

Avicenna

Not necessarily, it’s just that they do talk about this, especially if she’s had trouble meeting someone she likes. The female friends and family are the ones most likely to find fault with you because they’re often deciding on the basis of whether they’d Date you (hypothetically), so if you don’t meet THEIR expectations, they think their friend or family member shouldn’t date you. This can sometimes be totally ridiculous.

Answer 7

poneglyphs

oh, shit well I never thought about this at all.

Answer 8

poneglyphs

Do you think that's why guys don't wanna date anymore?

Answer 9

loveslongnails | 1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

You're a 25 year old virgin, huh? May I suggest finding a woman over 30 to show you the ropes. They're the best. :)

Answer 10

Anonymous

Depends on age and how long their relationships were. If someone’s been mostly single and has very high or low numbers then it raises some questions.

poneglyphs

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So, would my age be alarming to some because I'm in my mid twenties and have no experience whatsoever?
Opinion Owner

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Depends on many other factors like values (religious etc) but to ME personally (remember I’m not everyone) I’d expect to see a guy who’s kid 20s had one or two girlfriends. But I am aware that times are changing more now too so there’s also that to take into account, more people are stating single longer.
poneglyphs

17 d
Yeah, I think its eaiser now to stay single. Also, I'm not religious or antisocial. I just have bad luck with women.

Answer 11

poneglyphs

So, would my age be alarming to some because I'm in my mid twenties and have no experience whatsoever?

Answer 12

Opinion Owner

Depends on many other factors like values (religious etc) but to ME personally (remember I’m not everyone) I’d expect to see a guy who’s kid 20s had one or two girlfriends. But I am aware that times are changing more now too so there’s also that to take into account, more people are stating single longer.

Answer 13

poneglyphs

Yeah, I think its eaiser now to stay single. Also, I'm not religious or antisocial. I just have bad luck with women.

Answer 14

Anonymous

Neither are attractive to me. I only want to date women who are virgins.

Is it attractive if the person you are dating has had sex with 20 people or your date has sex with 1-2 people? ? Or is it all subjective?

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