Does having sex too early necessarily mean a real relationship isn't possible anymore?

Question

If i have sex with my coworker on our second date, will he see me as an easy hook up, or perhaps a friend with benefits? will this ruin my chances of a real relationship with him?

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17 d

I want to add that we have known eachother for over a year now and see each other daily. This would be a second date 'alone' but we have hung out plenty of times in a group

Answer 1

PrudentGuy | 337 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Seeing each other daily in group doesn't count as "romantic date".

Hence I suggest see him one on one for at least 20 more times, then decide if you would go on sexually.

in my opinion, love is patience and can wait.

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17 d
Good advice!

Answer 2

Asker

Good advice!

Answer 3

Anonymous

yeah pretty much, you got it girl. So knowing that, why'd you fuck it up and brand yourself an ez fuck? You're gunna be the booty call while he looks for a real girlfriend

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17 d
Good advice!
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17 d
yeah like you don't need to be a prude, you can kiss, cuddle, get your hands up in eachother, but keep it above the belt, I would not look down on a woman for being sexually expressive, she just has to have hard boundaries, that earns my respect
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17 d
We already did that :) kissed a lot and touched eachother all over. So when would you say its appropriate to go all the way?
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17 d
I personally think that you should not go all the way until you know for sure, both of you, that you will be together forever. This does not have to be marriage, it could be an informal commitment, but you must both truly believe this in your heart. That is the time...
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17 d
Thank you!

Answer 4

Asker

Good advice!

Answer 5

Opinion Owner

yeah like you don't need to be a prude, you can kiss, cuddle, get your hands up in eachother, but keep it above the belt, I would not look down on a woman for being sexually expressive, she just has to have hard boundaries, that earns my respect

Answer 6

Asker

We already did that :) kissed a lot and touched eachother all over. So when would you say its appropriate to go all the way?

Answer 7

Opinion Owner

I personally think that you should not go all the way until you know for sure, both of you, that you will be together forever. This does not have to be marriage, it could be an informal commitment, but you must both truly believe this in your heart. That is the time...

Answer 8

Asker

Thank you!

Answer 9

Anonymous

I don’t think so. If you both want it - who cares. Just don’t throw yourself at him.

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17 d
Good advice!

Answer 10

Asker

Good advice!

Answer 11

Anonymous

Depends on the person and individual circumstances. I've had it go both ways before.

Answer 12

spartan55 | 1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Yeah, you are definitely easy.

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17 d
You always have mean things to say, and i see you on each question doing the same. If you look at the title i didn't ask if i was easy or not. That was not the main question. So unless you are going to answer the main question please refrain from your bs answers all the fucking time
spartan55

17 d
Riiight, I'm 'mean'. Another pink anon who can't handle the truth. If you bothered to read through all my opinions you would know I'm not always 'mean'. But we both know you are too lazy to do that... so stfu already. You obviously have regrets about it, or you wouldn't be so indignant.
There is always a chance a relationship could happen, every guy is different.

Answer 13

Asker

You always have mean things to say, and i see you on each question doing the same. If you look at the title i didn't ask if i was easy or not. That was not the main question. So unless you are going to answer the main question please refrain from your bs answers all the fucking time

Answer 14

spartan55

Riiight, I'm 'mean'. Another pink anon who can't handle the truth. If you bothered to read through all my opinions you would know I'm not always 'mean'. But we both know you are too lazy to do that... so stfu already. You obviously have regrets about it, or you wouldn't be so indignant.
There is always a chance a relationship could happen, every guy is different.

Answer 15

KrakenAttackin | 1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

If you fuck on date two you are an easy hookup.

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17 d
Thanks for your answer!

Answer 16

Asker

Thanks for your answer!

Answer 17

Cherokeehp | 1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Nope.

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