Is it bad if the girl i'm dating never calls me first?

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It's only been a little over a month and we've been on a couple dates so far, but have probably had 10 or 15 good phone conversations. The thing i've noticed is she never calls me! lol Maybe it's just her I don't know, but she always answers when I call her. Opinions?

Answer 1

angelicina

Xper 4

I mean, it depends. But you can wait for her to call you this time.

red324

4 d
Women never call on their own.
angelicina

4 d
huh? who says that? i’m a woman and nearly all of my friends are women. we call people we love.
red324

4 d
I mean they never call me on their own.
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angelicina

4 d
aw, so cute. but it’s probably you’re 31. younger generation isn’t like that.
red324

4 d
I'm dating a girl who's 21. She always says she'll call me later then doesn't. I think it's just a habit she has
angelicina

4 d
i mean, are you sure she’s your girlfriend?
red324

4 d
We aren't official. I've only known her like 1.5 months it's a little soon to make her my girlfriend in my opinion.
angelicina

4 d
maybe she’s taking you granted but of course i cannot say it without knowing her. i mean, she’s pretty young. so i wouldn’t be surprised if it happened. because when i was 16, i dated a 23 years old man and i took him granted. i don’t know tho. maybe it’s only me being bitchy but nearly every girl i know has that mindset.
red324

4 d
She's hasn't taken me for granted yet. So far she's cost me the least out of any girl i've dated. lol She's no gold digger.
angelicina

4 d
nope, i didn’t mean money when i said she could take you for granted. i meant it emotionally. where did you meet her? is it online dating?
red324

4 d
I met her through a friend. She showed up one day and I asked about her. Then my friend told her about me liking her and she couldn't believe it.
angelicina

4 d
why she couldn’t believe it? isn’t she controversially attractive?
red324

4 d
Yes she's attractive. I don't know she thought it was a joke.
angelicina

4 d
enjoy then:3
red324

4 d
I will.

Answer 2

red324

Women never call on their own.

Answer 3

angelicina

huh? who says that? i’m a woman and nearly all of my friends are women. we call people we love.

Answer 4

red324

I mean they never call me on their own.

Answer 5

angelicina

aw, so cute. but it’s probably you’re 31. younger generation isn’t like that.

Answer 6

red324

I'm dating a girl who's 21. She always says she'll call me later then doesn't. I think it's just a habit she has

Answer 7

angelicina

i mean, are you sure she’s your girlfriend?

Answer 8

red324

We aren't official. I've only known her like 1.5 months it's a little soon to make her my girlfriend in my opinion.

Answer 9

angelicina

maybe she’s taking you granted but of course i cannot say it without knowing her. i mean, she’s pretty young. so i wouldn’t be surprised if it happened. because when i was 16, i dated a 23 years old man and i took him granted. i don’t know tho. maybe it’s only me being bitchy but nearly every girl i know has that mindset.

Answer 10

red324

She's hasn't taken me for granted yet. So far she's cost me the least out of any girl i've dated. lol She's no gold digger.

Answer 11

angelicina

nope, i didn’t mean money when i said she could take you for granted. i meant it emotionally. where did you meet her? is it online dating?

Answer 12

red324

I met her through a friend. She showed up one day and I asked about her. Then my friend told her about me liking her and she couldn't believe it.

Answer 13

angelicina

why she couldn’t believe it? isn’t she controversially attractive?

Answer 14

red324

Yes she's attractive. I don't know she thought it was a joke.

Answer 15

angelicina

enjoy then:3

Answer 16

red324

I will.

Answer 17

WesBrewer | 698 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

Probably mean she isn't all in or completely interested.

red324

4 d
I disagree. I researched this question a bit more on here and apparently this was quite common and it was something women did to keep from looking desperate.
WesBrewer

4 d
wut, really?

Answer 18

red324

I disagree. I researched this question a bit more on here and apparently this was quite common and it was something women did to keep from looking desperate.

Answer 19

WesBrewer

wut, really?

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