If you found out a girl you were interested in fucked a black guy in the past would you be grossed out and lose interest in her?

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I've met a few people like this they were totally grossed out I had been with a black guy in the past. White guys and Mexican guys.

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If anyone was curious the black guy i was with did not have a big dick and he was half white. Also I do not have a fetish for black men. Most of the guys I have been with were white.

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Anonymous

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Yes, I have walked away from a few girls because of this. It's not because i hate blacks or think that they are inferior. I don't want to have children with a women who is likely to have additional children with someone of another race.

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chihuahua011 | 84 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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Uhmmm... Racism much? Why would I care if a girl was with a black guy? Or is that got to do with being the one after the "black guys with big schlongs" insecurities? Lmao

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- Asker
  
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  No clue but I've heard it from like 10 people whove said they'd never date a girl whose been with a black guy. Just gross to them. I found this weird but interesting
- chihuahua011
  
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  I find this only weird tbh. What is so gross in this? It's like as if I get grossed out if the girl I'm dating had any other guy regardless of race with this logic. Weird
- Asker
  
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  Ask some friends i guarantee you'll find someone who low key feels this way
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- chihuahua011
  
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  Just out of curiosity (and your prompting) I asked three of my friends. Two of them flat out said they couldn't care less if there was a black (or any kind of race) guy in the girl's past. One of them thought about it for a good 2 minutes then said he probably wouldn't care.
  
  When I asked about his hesitation he said that he finds it a little weird but not so much that he would reject a girl solely because she was with a black guy.
  
  When I asked why is it weird he couldn't give a straight answer, just babbling about "well they smell weird" and some shit like that. Sooo in conclusion I still have yet to meet with someone you describe. I don't know if I just choose people with similar mindset subconsciously to be friends with.
- Asker
  
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  Lol I think your friend might feel a little different and afraid to tell you.
- chihuahua011
  
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  Why would they? We talk about everything including sexual stuff. We aren't the shy or taboo type with each other.
- chihuahua011
  
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  Though I see your post brings out the racist in some people lmao

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Anonymous

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The main reason we are grossed out is because white girls are heavily fetishized by white females. I think I would pass honestly. The second reason is due to how white females continuously want to promote black males as being superior in certain ways. White males date Asian females at high rates. However, we don't label it as an interracial relationship all over media. Nor do we say things like "Asian pu**y is so tight" nope. We don't do that. I would pass up on her out of a possibility that she is one of those white females that wants to degrade white males and other races. I'm just not about that honestly. Have fun being a single mom or with domestic violence. Black males abuse at rates 35% higher and your chances of being a single mom are high here as well as divorce. It's a not a shocker to me that you heavily fetishize a race and you won't take them seriously when it comes time to it.

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  White girls are heavily fetishized by black males*** sorry.
- Opinion Owner
  
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  I have dated latina and Asian before. I didn't label it as interracial all over social media. I feel like white females are viewed as trophies or something to black guys. I mean that's no way to treat someone. I view females as humans and that's it. When I dated these females, it did not feel interracial. We forgot about all that like it didn't matter to us. Nobody stared nor did I call it white on brown or white on Asian. Also, surprisingly, the most common interracial marriages are actually white and Hispanic (combination of genders), then white male and Asian female. We don't put hashtags or anything like that degrading Hispanic or Asian males. Would never be okay with that.
- Asker
  
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  Good point but I think your reason is only one of many reasons why a guy would be grossed out. I've heard variations from the obvious racist reasoning to because they just thought black was gross.
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- Asker
  
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  I did the same thing I never emphasized who I was with they were just another person to me. So was interesting to find out that some guys were just like EW
- Opinion Owner
  
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  This happens at a subconscious level. I am good at evaluating my thoughts in words and writing because I am a writer. I write books about fetishises so hardly any other guy could put it into words very simply. I spend most of my time writing. This is like my expertise.
Spalliger
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I only want to have relationships with girls I think are suitable for a long term and even to have kids in the future.
I only want white kids and I think the huge majority o men and women do want to have offspring that share their race, just because it's a natural instinct to preserve it and have vhilder that look like you (that's why when people actually look for a serious relationship to start a family they tend to look for people that look alike).

So, if you take into consideration both things, a girl that's not black who has had sex with a black guy shows me that she doesn't have that kind of racial awareness (even more for women, for they tend to choose men more carefully than men choose women) and that pretty much removes her from my interest, because I want a woman with that natural care for their race.

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  Oh, and I want to add that what I've said is probably what goes subconsciously through many men you'll get answers from, because well, it's biology, some of us just happen to be aware of it.
bamesjond0069 | 2.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.
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If he is a suit and tie, normal sort of man and it was one guy that was a relationship. That doesn't gross me out.

If he sags his pants and is a rapper or drug dealer or something OR you only had sex with mainly black guys OR if you are one of those girls talking about chocolate vanilla swirl, mix babies cute, nonsense like that (all cute babies are cute by the way) then that is evidence of serious mental issues. can't touch a girl like that. Its evidence of fetishism and that is really bad.

My one black friend he won't touch a girl that says she's into black guys, he says those girls are trash. He wants to be loved because who he is not because he is black and the girl has a fetish.

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  I have to disagree, not all babies are cute. Iv seen some ugly af babies
- bamesjond0069
  
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  @boxcarjoe obviously try reading what i said. Smh.
- boxcarjoe
  
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  Ah sorry my American education failed me
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- bamesjond0069
  
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  @boxcarjoe lol its failed everyone.
DJB72 | 355 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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Personally I'd draw the line at her sleeping with other species, not ethnicity. So dogs, horses, Trump, basically non-human life would be a definite red flag.

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chubbycrow
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tbh nah I ain't a racist
that being said it if you're talking about stereotypes and BBC's, it helps hearing "fuck you're so much bigger than my ex" compared to "eh I've had bigger"

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spitifrex
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Why would it matter, as long as the past stays in the past no problem with it. It's a waste to spend energy on that.

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Floppy2112
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No. I would not be grossed out. Not anymore grossed out than any other guy anyway. No guy wants to think of his lady banging somebody else. Race has nothing to do with it though.

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Meldrum
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The most recent gal I was dating decided to run off with a black guy. Now I could say many detrimental things that would sound racist but to be honest, he's been good to her. So I'm happy for her.

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Shamalien | 1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.
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I'd prefer if she hadn't fkd any guy, but if she's fkd a guy with a bigger dick than me, I don't even want a part in it. Luckily, that's not super common ;)

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Andres77 | 740 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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I didn't have a problem with it because she was with me then... her past was not important.

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