How can a 21 year old man look for women for serious relationships?

[hahahmm]

You can look but there's no guarantee you can find it once you understand that the vast majority of relationships today aren't serious even if ONE of the people in the relationship thinks it is. To have a true serious relationship you need both people to be loyal. I guess something to help you would be if you pay close attention to a woman's character... if she thinks it's okay to 'date' 5 guys at the same time beware. If she breaks promises all the time: beware. Get good at listening and watching. One trick they use is to find out what you want and then pretend to be that thing. Don't tell them everything. Watch & learn what they're really about.

That said... to some degree women act a certain way based on the man they're with too. She could be loyal to you and not to another guy. Still your odds of success are higher with the one who lives a consistent life! See my MyTakes too. Some think my ideas on how to be a Better Man or a Lady have too many requirements but then they're the same people who just can't live up to the ideal set out. Still it may give you some ideas.

[BigHomieNasty]

If you are looking for a good girl, then you will find her in a place good girls go. That’s not gonna be the clubs or parties. It’ll be the library and organizations if you’re in college. They will be in places that benefit their future.


I’m a dating advisor and life coach as well. I wouldn’t advise someone that “the one” is in the club, unless you yourself enjoys the club and bar scene. But if not, go to places you enjoy, and eventually you’ll come across a young lady that enjoys your hobbies too.


There are still good women out there and men too. They are just overshadowed by the loudness of everyone else. Put yourself out there and make yourself more visible and they’ll be able to find you.


Glad to be of assistance! Send me a follow and reach out if you need more info! Linktr. ee/BigHomieNasty

[CoolKatie]

I'm just starting using Hinge and hasn't got any luck with and think is going to hit or miss. I met guys that just want to have sex or short term relationship. other men that looking for long term go too fast soon. I do not like seem they don't want to get know me as person not as attractive women

[HOAAH]

Are you in college? I would try clubs if you were. Do you have family friends? Maybe they could set you up.

[WesBrewer]

If you want to find serious women, you can find them everywhere but it's easier if you date a country girl or a religious girl, they usually are serious.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Yeah it should be exclusive for serious relationships. Ah shit, that goes against something I’ve created. But I do have her promise that she only she fucks Aima, she and he are like side main characters. It’s actually gonna be her New Years resolution. Lol.

[MrStitch]

Find girls through family and friends, that’s what I did. Or join clubs at college

[Avicenna]

You have the right idea as far as wanting a relationship. But it will probably take some time to find someone compatible who equally serious.

[Madladd]

No place for serious relationships in this world my friend, Stay strong it's tough out there.

[Mr_longLegz]

Id say yes, however people change a lot in their 20s. Early 20s I wouldn't pursue it but if it happens, roll with it.

[tHISpLACEiSbONKERZ]

I dunno, you buy them with a dowry? Aren't those the rules where you live? You pay money and than put a small sticker on their foreheads to mark they're yours?

[DavidFox]

What’s your idea of a serious relationship?

[sakshamsadana]

Maybe on a Marriage site.

[Twenty2]

Have you ever been in a relationship?