Do you guys lose attraction to you if you ask them out?

[Barbaric]

No. Women say that because there are things they don't understand. They just don't get it.

Women don't get it because they're so used to being hit on - guys coming to them. When you're the one being chased, every guy you speak to in this way has some kind of interest, and it's obvious.

However, when you ask somebody else out who hasn't showed interest, you don't know whether they're interested or not. They might be, but they might not. That's always a risk you take. It's like a coin toss.

Men always get rejected by some women, every single man does. That's the nature of the game. Some people you ask out are just not gonna be into, in fact the majority are probably not gonna be into you. When you're used to speaking to guys who have interest in you, you have no idea of the number of guys who aren't into you.

Even if you're a very attractive, confident, good social skills etc. as a man you're going to be rejected by 4/5 women. For most men it's a bigger amount. For a woman it's just the same thing.

Women ask one or two guys out and then conclude that it's because guys don't like to be asked out by women, but that's not what it is. She, just like men do all the time, just asked out two guys who weren't interested in her. That's all.

A guy who is interested won't care who asked who out.

[COMMODOREII]

Depends on the guy really

[Spade07]

Lol. If he loses attraction for you then he was never that attracted to you anyway. Girls gotta stop trying to game men. You guys suck at it. It will just end bad for you. Be real with men. If you feel he isn't paying you attention then move on. Know your worth. He doesn't see it. Maybe you need to work on yourself.

[MrCommodore]

No, a woman asking me on a date would not impact whether or not I'm attracted to her.
Masculine behaviour by a girl is off-putting though.

[KrakenAttackin]

You heard about this whole "toxic masculinity thing"? WTF are you talking about? What does this have to do with asking someone out?

#Clueless

[Jamie05rhs]

No, not at all. It actually increases my interest in her.

[okeydoke]

I’m really endeared by people who approach me. I’m very into it.

[Wtfismyusername69]

Lol I wouldn’t mind a girl asking me out if a girl likes a dude why not ask him

[Iron_Man]

No I find it interesting I like it

[pizzalovershouse]

No not if done right