If this is possible I think it’s great. But never in my life has my physical attraction grown for someone. My respect and emotional attraction has grown for some women. But for most people either the spark is there or it’s not.
It's the same for me.I am more mind oriented.
@Schizoaffective this is more possible for females than males to feel this way. Men are definitely more visually oriented. I admit it’s shallow but it’s built into us.
@guesswhoseback well I can't speak of you men 🤷🏿♀️I only speak of what I personally experience.
@Schizoaffective well I speak from observations and my own personal experiences. I don’t expect a supermodel or anything. I expect someone comparatively attractive if that makes sense. I’m in very good shape for my age and got all my hair. I don’t expect some supermodel 19 year old but if I got an in shape 33 yr old that’s different.
@guesswhoseback I usually find that guys in my circle prefer fuller females than the athletic fit type.But more often than not, guys that usually follow the same lifestyle as me tend to prefer my shape.
@Schizoaffective that’s fair enough. I’m the same way.
@guesswhoseback Man, when I was your age, my comment would have been identical to yours. The attraction-developing-over-time thing has "just" developed over the past 15 years.
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You are such a kind girl :)