If this is possible I think it’s great. But never in my life has my physical attraction grown for someone. My respect and emotional attraction has grown for some women. But for most people either the spark is there or it’s not.
It's the same for me.I am more mind oriented.
@Schizoaffective this is more possible for females than males to feel this way. Men are definitely more visually oriented. I admit it’s shallow but it’s built into us.
@guesswhoseback well I can't speak of you men 🤷🏿♀️I only speak of what I personally experience.
@Schizoaffective well I speak from observations and my own personal experiences. I don’t expect a supermodel or anything. I expect someone comparatively attractive if that makes sense. I’m in very good shape for my age and got all my hair. I don’t expect some supermodel 19 year old but if I got an in shape 33 yr old that’s different.
@guesswhoseback I usually find that guys in my circle prefer fuller females than the athletic fit type.But more often than not, guys that usually follow the same lifestyle as me tend to prefer my shape.
@Schizoaffective that’s fair enough. I’m the same way.
@guesswhoseback Man, when I was your age, my comment would have been identical to yours. The attraction-developing-over-time thing has "just" developed over the past 15 years.
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You are such a kind girl :)
Dude wtf.. you are not at all ugly
Mmmmm the poll has been swinging around all day, doubt you'll get any certifiable proof from it. . .
at the time there are 84 men that answered and 51 women that answered. 23.8% of the men that answered said that they wouldn't date someone they were physically attracted to as to the 19.6% of women that answered the same. it seems men are more shallow than women are. finally they admitted!
@___nik and @asker nope honey. The point here is that ladies would say they are not shallow (so it should be 0% but lets take it less than <10% including some exceptions). But poll shows a totally different result so most ladies do are shallow. And also by reading their opinions, they sound very shallow. This is what I meant by finally they admitted. Lets not discuss guys at the moment bc we both admit they are shallow so they don't come in this debate. So the conclusion is that: 1. The claim that ladies would make is totally wrong.2. Guys are not shallower bc the difference in percentage is not significant.
Mmmm I'm gonna go off of your theory that the poll results for women should be 0%. Do men not claim that they are not shallow also? Why is their percentage not 0%?
And FYI I've never claimed that many women are not shallow. And I don't know any sensible woman who doesn't also know that most women are shallow.
"Lets not discuss guys at the moment bc we both admit they are shallow so they don't come in this debate. "You didn't read it properly, honey.
Where does it say that? ? ?
Read it again
@Alex_988_2 imagine having such low intelligence that you make a generalization about 3.8 billion people just because a couple women in your life said they aren't shallow and then proceed to ignore biological evidence that men are shallower than women because of how their brains are wired, and THEN proceeding to ignore the data given by this poll (which now says that 17% of women care more about physical attractiveness, which is lower than the 22% of men that chose the same) because you believe that when a couple women said they aren't shallow, you thought they meant 0% of the worlds female population is shallow. couldn't be me.
@alex_988_2 Arh sorry, my phone cut that part out, I can see it on my computer. Maybe in your experiences many women say that they're not shallow. But as ___nik said, when they say that they're not talking about the entire population. Besides the point that you were trying to make in your first comment, was not that women are shallow. It was that women are more shallow THAN men, and that is not what you're trying to prove in the comments that follow. Saying that you are not shallow, does not make you more shallow just like saying you are "not smart" doesn't make you smarter. Besides this small poll is only a reflection of what G@G users have to say. Not the entirety of the worlds population.
All I'm trying to say is women are shallow (or may be shallower than men) too. Opposite of the claim they used to make that they are not shallow.
All I'm hearing from you is generalizing. Besides, as I said, that was not what you were saying in your initial comment, so you should understand the confusion.
At that time polls of women were more than guys. Anyway in my second comment, I said women are shallow too. This is what they have admitted. Got it?I do agree there was some confusion but I cleared it in second comment
Yea, but you should have made that clear in the first comment, because I wouldn't have commented at all if you had. Of course women are shallow, everyones shallow until they get to know the right person.