If you are in the beginning stages of talking with a girl how often should you text her?

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We only went on one date, however I've known her since high school. The date went great, we both agreed we had a good time. However, when we text it's usually me starting the conversation, should I be texting her everyday or wait to see if she will text me first. I usually tell her in the morning I hope you have a good day at work then ask her how her day went afterwards.

Answer 1

ShadezMcgee | 368 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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You shouldn't be texting her pointlessly to shoot the shit. It should have purpose. You reach out and set a time and day for a date and take her out to have fun and leave the talking for the date, not leading up to it. Only reach out for one date a week. Otherwise you run out of things to say.

Stay focused between the dates on things you need to get done. If she reaches out, send no more than 3 messages back and forth before leaving the conversation. If you are doing this right and have made your romantic intent known through flirting, she will be reaching out to you first. You should only be doing 20% of the calling texting and pursuing.

Answer 2

WesBrewer | 833 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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at least once a day, say good morning and goodnight every day at least.

Answer 3

dudeinohio | 3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

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People always get into trouble when they wait for the other person to text first... when both people feel that way, then no one texts anyone and they think they were ghosted. Text her.

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In_Trance | 3.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

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As often as you both want to

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