Should a first kiss just be simple with puckered lips? When is it ok to go mouth and tongue action?

[slatyb]

First question -- no. That's for children kissing relatives. I've never had a first kiss with a woman like that.

When is it ok? When she opens her mouth. But it's slow and easy and natural. Just a second, I'll go kiss my wife and come back and tell you how it goes. We don't kiss any differently now than we did the first time. We were in her car after a movie. We made out for an hour. If it had been convenient we would have had sex.

So here's how it went: she knows I want to kiss. She opens her mouth a bit and I take her upper lip between mine. Then she relaxes more and my tongue slides into her mouth. Not thrusting, just slowly and easily. You'll just have to do it and see. Don't overthink it. Better, don't think at all.