What’s a good dating site to use for young adults?

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I’m 20 years old and I have one dating account called Plenty Of Fish but you have to pay for about everything on it. It’s too many bots and fake accounts on the app. Most of the guys don’t live in my city either. I wanna try tinder but I hear people on there don’t really date but just want hookups on there. I recently broke up with someone almost 2 months ago and I think I’m ready to start trying to date again. Thanks

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virgin20

Yoda

Online dating just is difficult these days especially, most of them them turn into hookup sites but give tinder a go, it works for my better looking friends, every guy is different. I for one only look for something real, not just sex. I'm sure you'll find that

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Walamagicc

1 y
I’m looking for someone real too. I’m not into hookups or casual sex

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virgin20

1 y
May as well give tinder a go. But online dating isn't the easiest, if you're fit then tinder will work well

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Walamagicc

1 y
It really isn’t easy at all but I’m not in college or anything to be able to meet guys in real life and all the men that do show interest in real like are like the same age as my dad...

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virgin20

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Then put yourself out there, go out on nights out with friends or go to things 20 year olds do. Parties etc.
Do you consider yourself attractive?

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Walamagicc

1 y
You do realize there is a pandemic right? I am not just going to go into clubs. I’m too scared to catch covid. I do go out quite frequently to hang out with friends to restaurants but like I’ve said, guys my age, they don’t talk to me in real life. And people say I’m attractive all the time

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virgin20

1 y
Well I wasn't sure what it's like for you, I'm UK based.
But when it does open again and things go back to normal, that's your best shot, you're quite late to online dating, a lot of people are fed up of it, but you may as well try.
You're attractive which already sets you out, just look in the right places

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Walamagicc

1 y
I would post a pic of what I look like but I don't know how to. I have no problem with guys messaging me but the ones that do are just really unattractive or they have nothing interesting to converse about

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Walamagicc

1 y
I’m late? Lol I’ve never been into online dating because they mostly want hookups. You say it like I’m 40 just now joining 😂😂

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virgin20

1 y
Do me a favour and send me a pm, I want to try help here! (But I can't send you one)

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Answer 2

Walamagicc

I’m looking for someone real too. I’m not into hookups or casual sex

Answer 3

virgin20

May as well give tinder a go. But online dating isn't the easiest, if you're fit then tinder will work well

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Walamagicc

It really isn’t easy at all but I’m not in college or anything to be able to meet guys in real life and all the men that do show interest in real like are like the same age as my dad...

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virgin20

Then put yourself out there, go out on nights out with friends or go to things 20 year olds do. Parties etc.
Do you consider yourself attractive?

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Walamagicc

You do realize there is a pandemic right? I am not just going to go into clubs. I’m too scared to catch covid. I do go out quite frequently to hang out with friends to restaurants but like I’ve said, guys my age, they don’t talk to me in real life. And people say I’m attractive all the time

Answer 7

virgin20

Well I wasn't sure what it's like for you, I'm UK based.
But when it does open again and things go back to normal, that's your best shot, you're quite late to online dating, a lot of people are fed up of it, but you may as well try.
You're attractive which already sets you out, just look in the right places

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Walamagicc

I would post a pic of what I look like but I don't know how to. I have no problem with guys messaging me but the ones that do are just really unattractive or they have nothing interesting to converse about

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Walamagicc

I’m late? Lol I’ve never been into online dating because they mostly want hookups. You say it like I’m 40 just now joining 😂😂

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virgin20

Do me a favour and send me a pm, I want to try help here! (But I can't send you one)

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Cowboy6666 | 4.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

online dating is difficult specially for me too but im still looking online most girls are far from me or there are fake accounts, I want a genuine girlfriend for me for longer relationship

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Walamagicc

1 y
I’m having the same problem! The guys I’m interested in live like 70 miles away from me in a different city and I talked to one in my city and this dick catfished me...

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Cowboy6666

1 y
I have same problem girls are from USA or Europe and Im living in South Asia.
THough I want committed longer relationship but there are catfishes, fake accounts and i never used dating apps they dont work here thats why im still single and looking

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Walamagicc

1 y
I have found approximately one boyfriend. He was Prince Charming at first. He turned out to be a complete narcissist and that didn’t last very long. I was already seeing serious HUGE red flags 3 weeks after dating and we dating for almost 4 months. Met him on POF, haven’t met any other guys genuinely interested on other dating apps unfortunately

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Cowboy6666

1 y
anyways if you want we can be buddies, just folow my profile or message me
nothing wrong in talking with each other lets see what happens :)

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Answer 12

Walamagicc

I’m having the same problem! The guys I’m interested in live like 70 miles away from me in a different city and I talked to one in my city and this dick catfished me...

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Cowboy6666

I have same problem girls are from USA or Europe and Im living in South Asia.
THough I want committed longer relationship but there are catfishes, fake accounts and i never used dating apps they dont work here thats why im still single and looking

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Walamagicc

I have found approximately one boyfriend. He was Prince Charming at first. He turned out to be a complete narcissist and that didn’t last very long. I was already seeing serious HUGE red flags 3 weeks after dating and we dating for almost 4 months. Met him on POF, haven’t met any other guys genuinely interested on other dating apps unfortunately

Answer 15

Cowboy6666

anyways if you want we can be buddies, just folow my profile or message me
nothing wrong in talking with each other lets see what happens :)

Answer 16

Gwenhwyfar

Master

POF is basically a hookup site. Tried it back in law school a few years ago. I’ve heard good things about Bumble and OKCupid from friends but tbh I’ve never tried them myself.

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Answer 17

Anonymous

Bumble at least gives you the power of choice

Dating sites are generally awful but then I'm a guy so I would say that

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Walamagicc

1 y
Bumble sucks. I deleted my account and from a girl’s perspective, dating apps really do suck

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InferiorElegy

1 y
Why does Bumble suck? Is it because the female has to make all the effort and first moves?

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Walamagicc

1 y
No, I don’t have a problem texting a guy first actually. It’s because bumble has NOBODY that lives near me. They’re like 70 MI and more away and I don’t like the way their platform is set up tbh

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Answer 18

Walamagicc

Bumble sucks. I deleted my account and from a girl’s perspective, dating apps really do suck

Answer 19

InferiorElegy

Why does Bumble suck? Is it because the female has to make all the effort and first moves?

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Walamagicc

No, I don’t have a problem texting a guy first actually. It’s because bumble has NOBODY that lives near me. They’re like 70 MI and more away and I don’t like the way their platform is set up tbh

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Waldoe | 1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

mmm I think they are all a waste of time... NO ONE ever wants to "really" meet

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Walamagicc

1 y
I have had a few dates from dating apps. I don’t waste too much time on one person tho. If he doesn’t ask me out in about a week or so, I just ghost him. People who don’t want to meet you aren’t really interested

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Answer 22

Walamagicc

I have had a few dates from dating apps. I don’t waste too much time on one person tho. If he doesn’t ask me out in about a week or so, I just ghost him. People who don’t want to meet you aren’t really interested

Answer 23

Wewladdy

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Use GaG
Huehuehuehue

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InferiorElegy | 889 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Good dating sites don't exist.

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jimmy2 | 2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Be so careful scammers all over dating apps

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ayomanwya

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There isn’t a good dating site

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Walamagicc

1 y
They are all the same HUh?

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Answer 27

Walamagicc

They are all the same HUh?

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flashgrandad

Xper 6

Try Hi5.
It is free

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Walamagicc

1 y
I’ve never heard of that but okay thanks

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Answer 29

Walamagicc

I’ve never heard of that but okay thanks

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harry7825

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Maybe you can use Twitter

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Answer 31

Anonymous

Tinder

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