this man said its not a good time for us to be in a relationship but he calls and texts everyday. He knows I am wanting a relationship, because I've told him several times this and asked him if he liked me or not. He says yes but bad timing (hes not dating anyone else). The problem is that I am still falling for him and I know he's been hurt before so don't want to push him, same token I don't want to wait forever, for someone whose in a place that's unavailable. My question is why does he call me everyday (we don't live by each other), if he doesn't want to to be committed (he doesn't want sex, doesn't believe in it before marriage), at this point and how do I get some space so I stop falling for him but don't fully lose him as a friend, just I'm falling worst then I should and its not like me to do this.
Why do men keep calling?
What Guys Said 1
The placement probably has something to do with you saying "sex." That apparently is the trigger for being automatically sorted into Sexuality.
Still, this guy sounds weird... "it's not a good time to be in a relationship?" Why? Is he homeless? With an ex? Studying for finals or working on his thesis? Seriously, who says that? Replace him with someone more local, that is equally or more compatible with you, and you'll stop falling. You can still be friends (maybe), but he needs to learn to pull the trigger.0
What Girls Said 1
gah this really annoys me:( Honestly, he should appreciate you and realize that he needs you to be his before someone else snaps you up! I honestly believe that if a guy doesn't want to be in a relationship with you right now, they don't deserve you. Why should you wait? Go out and date!0
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