I screwed up. Is she bluffing? Or is it over?

[warrenstone]

So I already hooked up with this girl. Her initial interest was super high. She hmu first with tons of nudes and wanting to be friends with benefits, I didn’t even have to do anything. But recently she’s been curving and ghosting me, yet still sending me Snapchat’s. I told her we should stop with the snapchats if she’s no longer interested. She said “ok” and a few hours later “when am I supposed to stop again?” I ignored that.

5 days later she snapped me again, a pointless video as usual

I said “I see you like breakin rules, huh”
she said “😂😂😂😂 that video was too funny. I had to”
I said “riiight. I bet that’s what it was” she ignored that.


A week after that, she posted a thirst trap selfie on her story, I didn’t view it, and very shortly after the 24 hours expired, she unfriended me (but her burner account is still friends with me) It’s like she was looking to see if I viewed it, and when she noticed I didn’t, she got emotional and decided to unfriend me. Do you think she’ll be back? (Considering we’ve known each other for 8 years and even grew up together in our late teens)

Conclusion:
I screwed up by telling her that we should stop Snapchatting instead of just ghosting her. I only said this because I could feel her pulling away. I still like her and think it’d be cool to get her back. We had some good times together. I want my tongue up her ass again. I want to play naked basketball in my living room with her again.

Updates:

[AmandaYVR]

Oh lawd. Yep. That was a good accounting of a very, very typical interaction of two people trying to 'date' today. But if y'all keep this up, the species is goona die out. Stop being so careful and worrying about being vulnerable. It's stupid.
She did react emotionally. This is what people are doing now. Especially girls. You'd rather avoid each other and try and erase any trace of each other, than to expose an actual desire of wanting someone.
I have no advice. But get a grip. Look at the bigger picture. You all won't crumble into a million pieces if you tell somebody straight up "Look, I like you. Want to hang out again?"

[Anonymous]

this game you guys are playing is too much bullshit. literally just pick up the phone and call her and tell her what u want from her. then there's no mixed messages and she can make up her mind.