Do women want what they can't have because of their ego?

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Does playing hard to get make sense in this case?

Answer 1

btbc92 | 4.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

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No. Because society projects what is and isn't a man or a woman, a family and not a family, parent, teacher, etc. Media lies. Society buys into it and shapes your perception through operant conditioning of the mind, social scripts, etc. It's not that we want what we can't have. People aren't helping by having a hypersexualized world that has tempered with what women deserve as men do. Men nowadays only care about sex, so in return women now care about sexually attractive men. Period.

Playing hard to get is not the same as being hard to get. Everybody in a sense has a social status class. You will attract those within your class. That goes for men and women. And women have the desire to move up the ladder because too many men want to move down the ladder.

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Thank you for your answer. Thats what I want to believe. Some people can have big ego though
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What did you mean by move up the ladder?
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Financially speaking, your economic class determines the things you get in life. That includes partners. The same ways of living are the same today as it was in the middle ages and renaissance. Do you think a rich father is going to hand his daughter's hand to a poor man? No. Because it's about investments, not just who is property. A woman was forced to marry any guy for his pleasure. He could do whatever he wanted with her sexually and she couldn't refuse or she was beaten or hit. Women had no rights unless she was of higher status. A man wasn't always "attractived" and he can buy her whenever. Now that women can now make her own sexual decisions on who she desires physically, she now has those requirements that men naturally do not have. But because women are still a slave sexually, she is presented more regarding sex than a man, unless he was sexually handsome. So women and girls are flashed this and now is taught through brainwashing to get that man. The same with men, with much porn exposure, they now what that woman even if she is a little girl. Your baby can be attractive and loving, but it will not be desired because society says your baby is ugly. Simple as that. Even if she has money. If she is not attractive, she isn't wanted. She can have a great personality, still isn't wanted. She can grow up being obedient in character, isn't wanted unless to be treated like a slave and doormat. She can now be attractive, but she isn't wanted because she now has a bad reputation. You can have a good reputation and still be rejected. You can be in church, still rejected in the church, AND outside the church.
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They tell you to get married, they say you deserve to suffer from no freedom. You have your freedom, you're shamed for not pairing up. You have sex, your wrong. You don't, your double wrong. No kids, you deserve no kids, you can't even get a child adopted. A child is adopted, you have no real biological children. Playing on Shakespeare thrown on you. Have a kid, but no father, your a bad mother who deserves no good man. Nobody wants to father a child, not his. A woman choosing a single father? She's downgrading. You have no idea that this is a system. And it's a system of slavery and systematic control. Both men and women are hypocrites with this.

The kind of guy I would have wanted when I was open to dating as a child, I was told I couldn't have it because as a Christian I deserve to be alone. And because I refuse to have premarital sex and do right by God, I'm a prude. Since I am not that attractive or have a mixed reaction I am now subjected to ridicule. "Your not that attractive anyway." or "Your such a pretty/beautiful woman, I don't understand why you're not with somebody." I only deserve based on the "image" or things I do? Society is backward. It won't matter if your ugly or not, have a great personality, character, upbringing or not. If your too different, if you have a self, if you're for the true living God, you're not welcomed and they will do everything in their power to abort you. Both in the womb and when your living.
btbc92

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You know how many stories I hear of women who never found their newborn babies, or told their baby died, when healthy, or poison the mother by telling her to take certain foods or drugs and then children get sick? Or told you have to abort the child because they will be born with defects, won't be attractive, etc? These people play God, curses you, and it's done on purpose. Because those children will destroy their system down here. That's why when your born and you interact with life, people, etc, notice how there is always somebody or something that wants you dead or try to get you killed? Don't like you for no logical reason? Suddenly falling, almost getting killed by an item, vehicle, person, "natural" weather, or illness? Because it's both spiritual and physical. And nobody is talking about this.
btbc92

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Women are claiming the social ladder because the basics are now on the higher level that man now refuses to give. They want sex. They don't want to care for a woman if she can't give him what he wants. The haughty rich man mindset still is alive and is in ALL social classes, so-called races, and nations of people. That's why you cannot judge a person like the old saying "book by its cover" Unless it is plainly obvious, not every rich person is evil just like not every poor or middle-class person is evil. Evil has no prejudice. An evil person is just an evil person.

Virginity is no longer the standard. Virginity isn't respected. Its only wanted for sexual pleasure now. Not because it is proof of validity or because you want to love a person who valued themselves enough to wait. Unless a girl was raped which wasn't always back then what he choices led her, a man who loves trying to understand the woman. A raped virgin was better than a woman who freely slept with whoever. Now it doesn't matter. And there is no longer a standard. People naturally want sexually attractive people, but there needs to be a reason. If you naturally attracted to somebody and they feel the same, then fine. But think about going after somebody BECAUSE they are? How can you love somebody when you never had a desire to love them at all? Women today no longer see the difference. Men don't care. So now women no longer care.
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That makes sense. Thank you for your effort to detailed answer. I wish all goes well for you.
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I sent you a follow request. It ends with 93.

Answer 2

Asker

Thank you for your answer. Thats what I want to believe. Some people can have big ego though

Answer 3

Asker

What did you mean by move up the ladder?

Answer 4

btbc92

Financially speaking, your economic class determines the things you get in life. That includes partners. The same ways of living are the same today as it was in the middle ages and renaissance. Do you think a rich father is going to hand his daughter's hand to a poor man? No. Because it's about investments, not just who is property. A woman was forced to marry any guy for his pleasure. He could do whatever he wanted with her sexually and she couldn't refuse or she was beaten or hit. Women had no rights unless she was of higher status. A man wasn't always "attractived" and he can buy her whenever. Now that women can now make her own sexual decisions on who she desires physically, she now has those requirements that men naturally do not have. But because women are still a slave sexually, she is presented more regarding sex than a man, unless he was sexually handsome. So women and girls are flashed this and now is taught through brainwashing to get that man. The same with men, with much porn exposure, they now what that woman even if she is a little girl. Your baby can be attractive and loving, but it will not be desired because society says your baby is ugly. Simple as that. Even if she has money. If she is not attractive, she isn't wanted. She can have a great personality, still isn't wanted. She can grow up being obedient in character, isn't wanted unless to be treated like a slave and doormat. She can now be attractive, but she isn't wanted because she now has a bad reputation. You can have a good reputation and still be rejected. You can be in church, still rejected in the church, AND outside the church.

Answer 5

btbc92

They tell you to get married, they say you deserve to suffer from no freedom. You have your freedom, you're shamed for not pairing up. You have sex, your wrong. You don't, your double wrong. No kids, you deserve no kids, you can't even get a child adopted. A child is adopted, you have no real biological children. Playing on Shakespeare thrown on you. Have a kid, but no father, your a bad mother who deserves no good man. Nobody wants to father a child, not his. A woman choosing a single father? She's downgrading. You have no idea that this is a system. And it's a system of slavery and systematic control. Both men and women are hypocrites with this.

The kind of guy I would have wanted when I was open to dating as a child, I was told I couldn't have it because as a Christian I deserve to be alone. And because I refuse to have premarital sex and do right by God, I'm a prude. Since I am not that attractive or have a mixed reaction I am now subjected to ridicule. "Your not that attractive anyway." or "Your such a pretty/beautiful woman, I don't understand why you're not with somebody." I only deserve based on the "image" or things I do? Society is backward. It won't matter if your ugly or not, have a great personality, character, upbringing or not. If your too different, if you have a self, if you're for the true living God, you're not welcomed and they will do everything in their power to abort you. Both in the womb and when your living.

Answer 6

btbc92

You know how many stories I hear of women who never found their newborn babies, or told their baby died, when healthy, or poison the mother by telling her to take certain foods or drugs and then children get sick? Or told you have to abort the child because they will be born with defects, won't be attractive, etc? These people play God, curses you, and it's done on purpose. Because those children will destroy their system down here. That's why when your born and you interact with life, people, etc, notice how there is always somebody or something that wants you dead or try to get you killed? Don't like you for no logical reason? Suddenly falling, almost getting killed by an item, vehicle, person, "natural" weather, or illness? Because it's both spiritual and physical. And nobody is talking about this.

Answer 7

btbc92

Women are claiming the social ladder because the basics are now on the higher level that man now refuses to give. They want sex. They don't want to care for a woman if she can't give him what he wants. The haughty rich man mindset still is alive and is in ALL social classes, so-called races, and nations of people. That's why you cannot judge a person like the old saying "book by its cover" Unless it is plainly obvious, not every rich person is evil just like not every poor or middle-class person is evil. Evil has no prejudice. An evil person is just an evil person.

Virginity is no longer the standard. Virginity isn't respected. Its only wanted for sexual pleasure now. Not because it is proof of validity or because you want to love a person who valued themselves enough to wait. Unless a girl was raped which wasn't always back then what he choices led her, a man who loves trying to understand the woman. A raped virgin was better than a woman who freely slept with whoever. Now it doesn't matter. And there is no longer a standard. People naturally want sexually attractive people, but there needs to be a reason. If you naturally attracted to somebody and they feel the same, then fine. But think about going after somebody BECAUSE they are? How can you love somebody when you never had a desire to love them at all? Women today no longer see the difference. Men don't care. So now women no longer care.

Answer 8

Asker

That makes sense. Thank you for your effort to detailed answer. I wish all goes well for you.

Answer 9

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I sent you a follow request. It ends with 93.

Answer 10

Anonymous

Not really. I mean if I was in a situation where I couldnt get a guy. And then the moment presents itself where he was available I wouldn't play hard to get unless he rejected me first

Answer 11

normalice | 1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

No. People want what they can't have because of boredom. And girls generally don't play hard to get - they simply don't want to be gotten, they aren't playing.

Answer 12

boggboss | 6.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

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I think most people do lol

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