Would you date an ugly and fat person if they were nice and all?

[Espresso-Grande]

I couldn't date someone I didn't find physically attractive. A guy's appearance initially attracts me, but his personality determines if a relationship develops or not.

It's an insult to say to someone you're only dating them because of their personality. That's just as shallow as saying you're only with someone because of their looks.

Everyone wants their partner to be physically attracted to them. I'm sure most people wouldn't want to be with a partner who finds them physically unnatractive

One time, everyone thought looks didn't matter to me when I dated a guy everyone thought was ugly. But I thought he was really good-looking. So looks matter, initially.

If people only took personality into account that would mean they would date everyone and anyone. Because you can't know someone's personality until you've known them over a period of time. I don't believe anyone who says appearance doesn't matter to them.

[btbc92]

Being nice is not enough. You need to be compatible in other ways and you also need a friendship. You need to truly get to know a person. If your fat and it's not naturally you, you need to get healthy and lose weight. Period. Not because I just don't find it attractive, but because it's unhealthy. I don't mind helping, encouraging, and loving a person. But there is a fine LINE with health. A person first is not always ugly. What somebody finds ugly is not to other people. If that person isn't attractive to me, I doubt it, but neither would I judge. I turned down "attractive" men myself, and honestly being attractive doesn't always mean anything. Who are you in the soul? Everybody didn't ask to be born ugly or attractive. And people should learn to love and respect others regardless of their physical apperance.

[novian]

there no such thing as ugly, and also some people prefer different body type

I myself like my women nice and curvy with a tight ass

[In_Trance]

Nice and all?
What is nice?
Wtf is and all?

[Anonymous]

Hmm. Looks Matter and confidence so if I don’t find them attractive I can’t like force myself Yk.

[whatdoyouwantt]

Probably not, but I’d be friends with them

[Xnnnttrzzs]

Yeah, I dated your mom

[eileen_ruth]

I couldn't

[dudeinohio]

yes i would