Was my stupid joke offensive?

Question

totally confused on this one. Been talking to this girl from POF for about a week. Like talking hours every day after work. Anyway, the other day we had the following text messages conversation...

Me at like 3am-- you awake i can't sleep

Me a few hours later-- sorry to message you so early hope I didn't wake you

Her-- I didn't hear it

Me-- good. Yeah I was typing out of morning wood lol

After that she completely blocked my number. Thing is though we've had conversation about sex before all this. She even sent a boob picture i didn't even ask for so I really don't see what the big deal is. I have no idea why she got so offended I was obviously joking.

Answer 1

Gwenhwyfar | 1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

You hurt her feelings implying she was basically a booty call

Jmmmfi4

1 mo
Guess I didn't think it was that big of deal. For one she's the one who from day one said she didn't know if she wanted a relationship or not. & 2. She lives almost 2 hours away its not like I could just drive over at 3am.

Oh well I guess.
Gwenhwyfar

1 mo
She thought you wanted a sexting booty call

Sorry dude. FWIW I think blocking someone who doesn’t absolutely terrify you is a cowardly thing to do. She should’ve at least yelled at you and then given you an opportunity to respond.

Answer 2

Jmmmfi4

Guess I didn't think it was that big of deal. For one she's the one who from day one said she didn't know if she wanted a relationship or not. & 2. She lives almost 2 hours away its not like I could just drive over at 3am.

Oh well I guess.

Answer 3

Gwenhwyfar

She thought you wanted a sexting booty call

Sorry dude. FWIW I think blocking someone who doesn’t absolutely terrify you is a cowardly thing to do. She should’ve at least yelled at you and then given you an opportunity to respond.

Answer 4

Jayla2000

Xper 6

Offensive?

Yeah a little.

She probably saw u texting 3 am. Then again a few hours later and then ur morning wood joke.

She was like he trying 2 sext and she wasn't down with it.

But just straight up blocking someone i been talking 2 without explanation is weird af.

But also if i like previously told u i wasn't down with them jokes, or cool with sexting with u and this was like ur 4th or 5th time of me reminding u.

I would block u, because it show u have no respect.

But first time. I wouldn't.

Answer 5

Juxtapose | 1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

If she's that much of a pussy, then the pussy itself wasn't worth it.

Answer 6

magiusX26 | 1.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

comes across as your only interest in her is sex

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