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It is extreme to shut off people belonging the same category of someone who wronged you?

Jean-Marie_Céline
It is extreme to shut off people belonging the same category of someone who wronged you?
I know it's irrational, but I can't help it.
I tend to ignore and/or block without a word people who remind me of someone who wronged me. They remind me of that particular person so I get immediately distrusting and on the defensive.
For example, if guy X from town Y really wronged me, I start avoiding all guys from town Y even if they have no bad intention and are nice with me. Likewise, if girl Y from country X wrongs me, I'll have prejudices for all women from country X and more oftent not shut them early on even if they are being legitimately nice and helpful.
It is extreme to shut off people belonging the same category of someone who wronged you?
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