What is your pov on this?
I have encountered several instances with my husband where lying & infidelity has occurred. I feel like we are in this odd place where we have fun, sex is always new/hot...so...I have no clue what the true issue could be. He says he's never actually cheated, but only attempted it.(as if its any better) He claims he just loves trying to get attention from the opposite gender...bc as a teen & early 20's he was overweight. Bs maybe?
Again...as I said...I'm lost.
I don't have low self esteem, I don't think I myself can personally change him, I don't think I couldn't "do better"...I just have never had such a insane bond with, this much fun with, or such incredible sexual compatibility with ANY man until now...so as a woman who could say pretty confidently that I hadn't even "loved" until him(at the age of 27)...it saddens me to think of letting this go.
Any opinions are welcomed...I'm a "guys girl"...& have always had predominately male friends (until marriage) & cannot take anymore hormonal advice from other women.
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Well a cheater is a cheater is a cheater...his reasons are actually disturbing ...he enjoys trying to get attention for the opposite gender and has "attempted" to cheat ...attempting is so much worse since he is trying to...not things just happened...he's actually trying to ...id say leave ...you can't change anybody they can only change themselves...and loving someone is no reason to stay if they have no respect for you and continue to act this way...you deserve better
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