What if your SO kept their Dating Profile?

Question

I think there’s an argument for letting SO’s keep their dating profile active. Sure, guys are perusing hot chick photos but they’d do that anyway. But they also would keep in touch with their contacts which isn’t a bad thing. Or it could be a vicarious itch they’re scratching.

I guess it depends on the relationship and how much trust you have.

Yeah, they can keep it

No! Absolutely not!

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GirlGuy

Answer 1

Anonymous

Well I would prefer that they didn't, but the truth is that they're going to do what they're going to do anyway and with women that consists of having at least one or more guys on the side just in case things go bad with the relationship that they have with you. So I think what it comes down to it's something on the order of keep-your-friends-close-and-your-enemies-closer. In this case what I mean is that if you let her have her profile you are much more likely to discover cheating then if you don't let her have it.

Answer 2

Sevenpointfive | 1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

i remember getting pissed a girl didn't change her facebook status

OddBeMe

6 d
You little scamp...
Sevenpointfive

5 d
but hey she was fun while it lasted

Answer 3

OddBeMe

You little scamp...

Answer 4

Sevenpointfive

but hey she was fun while it lasted

Answer 5

Little_Bumblebee | 175 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

If they kept their dating profile it means they're not invested in the relationship.
Sure, it's okay at the beginning of dating, but as soon as we get exclusive, I want the dating profile gone.

If not, he can go date someone else.

OddBeMe

6 d
Not necessarily. If you’re on tinder constantly you’ll build friendships and stuff right?
Little_Bumblebee

6 d
Tinder is for dating and hookups.

I'm not going to be naive enough to think they are on tinder to get friends. Please.
OddBeMe

6 d
I’ll admit I don’t have much experience with it. But I’d imagine it’s like Gag in a way.
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Little_Bumblebee

6 d
It's not. Tinder is for dating and hookups. You swipe left or right whether you want to match with them.
OddBeMe

5 d
Even if your SO would never cheat, he just likes matching with chicks and texting...
Little_Bumblebee

5 d
I wouldn't like that either no.
OddBeMe

5 d
Fair enough.

Answer 6

OddBeMe

Not necessarily. If you’re on tinder constantly you’ll build friendships and stuff right?

Answer 7

Little_Bumblebee

Tinder is for dating and hookups.

I'm not going to be naive enough to think they are on tinder to get friends. Please.

Answer 8

OddBeMe

I’ll admit I don’t have much experience with it. But I’d imagine it’s like Gag in a way.

Answer 9

Little_Bumblebee

It's not. Tinder is for dating and hookups. You swipe left or right whether you want to match with them.

Answer 10

OddBeMe

Even if your SO would never cheat, he just likes matching with chicks and texting...

Answer 11

Little_Bumblebee

I wouldn't like that either no.

Answer 12

OddBeMe

Fair enough.

Answer 13

whatdoyouwantt | 248 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

I wouldn't be fine with that. Id say drop it or I’m out.

OddBeMe

6 d
Fair enough. I just think the “online persona” is different.

Answer 14

OddBeMe

Fair enough. I just think the “online persona” is different.

Answer 15

Just_call_me_Levi

Xper 3

There's no valid reason to use a dating app if you take your current relationship serious... And the whole "I made friends there, so I want to stay in contact with them using this dating app" excuse is just weird...

OddBeMe

4 d
You don’t consider tindr a social network?
Just_call_me_Levi

4 d
Why'd you use an app meant for dating and hooking up when you're already in a relationship?
OddBeMe

4 d
Some apps you build a bigger friend network on. I guess I’m biased because my wide and I have been together for ten years. So def not an expert on this crap,

Answer 16

OddBeMe

You don’t consider tindr a social network?

Answer 17

Just_call_me_Levi

Why'd you use an app meant for dating and hooking up when you're already in a relationship?

Answer 18

OddBeMe

Some apps you build a bigger friend network on. I guess I’m biased because my wide and I have been together for ten years. So def not an expert on this crap,

Answer 19

Anonymous

I always knew you were a cuckboi.

OddBeMe

6 d
Thanks. Not sure how that’s relevant. But always appreciate a coward Anon comments.
Opinion Owner

6 d
You’re welcome.

Answer 20

OddBeMe

Thanks. Not sure how that’s relevant. But always appreciate a coward Anon comments.

Answer 21

Opinion Owner

You’re welcome.

Answer 22

WowwGirl | 300 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

No sir not happening

OddBeMe

6 d
Really? Your SO would be required to shut it all down?
WowwGirl

6 d
If he wants to date then date but not with me involved
WowwGirl

6 d
Absolutely he would
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OddBeMe

6 d
I think it’s a form of social media now. He has a “life” on tinder. But also, he may live vicariously perusing other chicks pictures and stuff.
WowwGirl

6 d
Like I said don't be in a relationship if that is what you want. I think it's keeping the door cracked
WowwGirl

6 d
I've done some shit on non dating platforms
WowwGirl

6 d
Message me please