Boyfriend meant to push me against the wall in a sexy way or being rough?

Question

My boyfriend and I were playing around having fun, we were at a party and sometimes we get carried away etc and we started kissing and he pushed me against the wall, but I ended up hitting the back of my head.
I didn’t say much at the time, but I feel like he meant to be rough, he didn’t say anything either or say whoops or anything, he is gentle most of the time but he had got a little more rough because I like it sometimes- not even rough but just a little more dominant I guess.
Sometimes he grabs me and pulls me around, and when we are in public I’ve noticed he will pull me in with his arm around me and kiss me hard, and if I try to pull away he pushes me into him.
Is this a problem or is he just being a bit rough?

Answer 1

Anonymous

The first thing id do if a girl hit her head, is go "oooh no are you alright?"
hold her and rub the back of her head then sit her down then call the ambulance and have her observed overnight by private doctors and nurses from my pension fund with the most nutritious food and drink. Then have her fitness checked the next morning through a number of activities so she is passed off 100% fit and i'd also pay extra for a gynaecology exam just incase the bang to the head caused sexual dysfunction.
Once passed off 100% fit, id have her returned to me.

Asker

2 d
See that’s how it’s done, it’s not that difficult is it!

Answer 2

Asker

See that’s how it’s done, it’s not that difficult is it!

Answer 3

Kas19 | 247 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

If he was drunk, that could play into it. My boyfriend can accidentally get rough with me and not even know it. Just let him know that it scared you a little and if he could be more gentle with you. I hope you're okay. It happens.

Kas19

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Oh wait I finished reading. Yeah that dudes a little fishy. Unless he's joking, either way it's fucking weird.

Answer 4

Kas19

Oh wait I finished reading. Yeah that dudes a little fishy. Unless he's joking, either way it's fucking weird.

Answer 5

SphynxUK | 398 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

You should have spoken up at the time your head hit the wall.
Because you’re still thinking about that and other instances, it’s something your not comfortable with, so bows the time to bring it up.

Answer 6

weysally | 153 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

in a mad moment of sexual passion some get carried away, I have been the culprit sometimes and my husband has said ouch that hurt, if it was to rough for you then you should speak out

Answer 7

AddictedGirl | 97 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

Maybe he thinks he is being sexy n passionate by doing that.. tell him that u dont feel that way and it hurts sometimes.. ask him to be more gentle and careful next time.

Answer 8

Wise4myage | 1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

It sounds like this could be an issue, have you talked to him about it?

Asker

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I told him even in the beginning I won’t accept any abuse of any kind, my dealbreakers and how my father was abusive so I know the signs, and he knows this so I’m not sure why he did it... I think he feels like it’s not a big deal but it is to me
Wise4myage

2 d
It could have just been him getting overly excited, but make he knows how much it bothered you.

Answer 9

Asker

I told him even in the beginning I won’t accept any abuse of any kind, my dealbreakers and how my father was abusive so I know the signs, and he knows this so I’m not sure why he did it... I think he feels like it’s not a big deal but it is to me

Answer 10

Wise4myage

It could have just been him getting overly excited, but make he knows how much it bothered you.

Answer 11

Anonymous

Why didn't you tell him that you like sex softly on bed being kissed and licked?

Answer 12

EmmaMary | 1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Have you tried talking to him about this?

Asker

2 d
Not properly, I didn’t want to make a big deal about it at the time but after thinking about it it’s bothered me, so I need to
EmmaMary

2 d
I really think it's time you did, before any of this rough handling gets out of control and possibly causes you any injury.
Asker

2 d
Thanks for your advice

Answer 13

Asker

Not properly, I didn’t want to make a big deal about it at the time but after thinking about it it’s bothered me, so I need to

Answer 14

EmmaMary

I really think it's time you did, before any of this rough handling gets out of control and possibly causes you any injury.

Answer 15

Asker

Thanks for your advice

Answer 16

whatdoyouwantt | 230 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

I think it was just fun, not aggresive.

Answer 17

sensible27 | 614 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

If you have a problem tell him no

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